Don't waste your time/money. Dating sites are nothing but women looking for an ego boost and/or Chad Thundercock.
No joke, dating sites are a waste of time. A study by Tinder found that women believed EIGHTY PERCENT of men on dating sites were BELOW average looking, which is statistically impossible. If you are not a Chad Thundercock don't waste your time.
@humanearth It's not that simple. Women have become evil bitches all too often. Hell, they often were that way with the earlier internet in the 1990s, you should know this, you are my age too.
It has nothing to do with being chicken. You can't hit on any chick from your same school or job without risking your future. One complaint and you're fucked
Who's getting involved? Bland compliments can get you fired if she thinks you're creepy.
Twitter extends the effect to the community at large.
I don't think you realize how savage some young women have been conditioned to be. They view any advance as harrassment and conflate harrassment with rape.
Like, "guy I don't like tried to flirt with me, i feel annoyed, therefore it's harrassment and since harrassment is a form of rape I better report to the university and ruin this guys life. What an ugly creep." Shit like this seriously happens every day.
I use Bumble and Hinge for all my clients. Women aren't really making the first move on bumble they are just reaching out first. Making a move is when someone asks someone out to dinner. Many women get this confused.
I would say all of them are same and none of them will work if your photo is not good enough or attractive enough.
Let's say even if ur photo is hot enough, there's still a high chance you can't get a girl in dating apps as the competition is too high for men in dating apps. In a day a hot girl could get hundreds of match and also hundreds of guys approaching her after match. So statistically it's almost impossible. Not to mention even after you manage to chat her, there's still a high chance she will ghosting you and disappear suddenly. You might be confused as you don't know what's wrong.
My suggestion is if you still want to use apps, it's better social media rather than dating apps. Instagram or Facebook is possible. But first you have to be someone that is related with her.
For example her friends follow you or her friends are friends with you in facebook then the chance is better as you are not strangers and at least her friend knows you so it's safe for the girl to assume if she might be interested with you if she notice a relation about you and her friend.
Obviously the best would be offline. But if you want to approach via online then better use famous social media rather than dating apps.
First of all, average guys will not rate well on dating sites. This is proven.
Your best bet is to go onto a photo rating site to get critical feedback about all your photos. Guys think logically. Women are looking for stuff. Like a good social scene with you in it, and looking good in it.
Avoid mug shots and geeky things. I would recommend confident shots, and if you have the bod, show it off at the back. Women gripe about shirtless guys, but again, women react to good lookinf shirtless guys with a chiseled six pack abs.
If you don't have all of that, it will be a waste if time. Less you can say your a hedge fund manager standing infront of your new Lambo.
None all it is about ego people who are on there are mostly not looking for anything serious. They are lost and think that quanity is over quality. They just only devalues you nobody knows your personality. It is all based on looks. It is best walking up to someone in person and ask them out.
I've fucked girls off every app. Bumble is pretty good actually. The girls are ultra low quality but ease of use and time invested its got a great ROI. Expect some business woman or college student who is too focused on career or education to effectively date or have a boyfriend. Oh and lots of single moms too ofc. Smh they are like roaches... everywhere.
I think girls on tinder are more date able and thats saying something. But id personally rather an undateable party girl than an undateable workaholic. So your opinion might be different.
That sounds like a good 1. When i was younger, i found 2 if em to be pretty good. Plenty of fish, and Fling. Plenty of fish was free. Fling was not. And i haven't been on either for years, but when i was i met some interesting and beautiful people. And some of which I'm still friends with this day.
try friendfinder. com you can put in what kind of sex your looking to do and the men that want that kind of sex will come to you... i never had to lift a finger or humilate myself to reach out to a guy... i'm not on the site anymore but i had men from 18-62 with the most being slightly older than myself... i met at least 30 people... mostly men but about 4-5 couples... whenever i needed a dick to suck there was friendfinder. com which is what i used it mostly for.
I highly recommend OkCupid. Everyone I met on there has been a real person and not some fake bot even though most of the conversations have been short lived. OkCupid is definitely my go-to even though I'm not interested in dating right now when I was interested in dating OkCupid was still solid compared to other apps and you can even answer questions in your free time if you want.
None. Not anymore. Though my best friend did find his wife on Tinder. I asked him..”Isn’t that a site to fuck?” He said you make it how you want to. His wife is nice. She’s a professional. Though I wouldn’t recommend them, I would at least say to be picky.
Bumble - women who want to talk to you WILL make the first move as Queen bee type of ideal very unique and clever programming in a male driven world - its nice and reassuring that women can break the ice without it being ASL or send nude type of environment - with that being said I think its got more potential to find true romance then lets say Hot or Not or a Tinder / POF s of the internet
I personally think dating sites are SHIT. But, if you really wanna use it, I'd recommend Tinder, it's the most popular one (an the only one I know about tbh), so I guess it has the most users.
honestly: none. they're all shit. try to get to know people IRL. the best experiences i personally made with bumble but it's a crapshoot. dating sites shouldn't be used as your onle means to get dates.
there's not even a point. girls are flooded with hookup requests, which makes them not see the few that meant things seriously. so consequently as a man you're not seen. nobody wins on those platforms.
yeah i wasn't speaking abour real life :D that's different. i was just trying to see if you have the experience that i have. which is basically girls who "know" that they are way out of my league still trying to take a shot.
yeah i noticed the same. like they start the conversation but they couldn't hold a conversation, if their life dependend on then. feels like you have to pull their words out of their noses. like walking in a swamp.
None. Only works for women and very good looking guys. If you're not very attractive as a man it's a huge waste of time.
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Bumble is better as it has genuine people due to verification policy Also you can get laid easily on bumble as many woman are there looking for the same So at least you know the person your banging is the one on the profile and not someone else like tinder. ;P
I've heard good things about Bumble, and I know guys who have had success with meeting women on there, I just haven't tried it so I can't speak from experience.
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