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Don't waste your time/money. Dating sites are nothing but women looking for an ego boost and/or Chad Thundercock.
No joke, dating sites are a waste of time. A study by Tinder found that women believed EIGHTY PERCENT of men on dating sites were BELOW average looking, which is statistically impossible. If you are not a Chad Thundercock don't waste your time.61 Reply
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None, i never needed a computer to find dates. I did all mine in person. If I can do it, you can do it.
Besides people been doing it that way for thousands of years and it still works212 Reply- +1 y
Thanks for the MHO
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@Feelicks see my age. I am not even old enough to be a baby boomer
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@humanearth While Feelicks does not understand us in Generation X, he DOES understand that the femicommiecrats have ruined dating.
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@Curmudgeon i just think todays young men are too chicken to talk to women face to face.
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@humanearth It's not that simple. Women have become evil bitches all too often. Hell, they often were that way with the earlier internet in the 1990s, you should know this, you are my age too.
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@Feelicks "Don't f*** where you eat..." That was true even in pre-internet days as well. NEVER get involved with coworkers.
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Who's getting involved? Bland compliments can get you fired if she thinks you're creepy.
Twitter extends the effect to the community at large.
I don't think you realize how savage some young women have been conditioned to be. They view any advance as harrassment and conflate harrassment with rape.
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@Feelicks I'm sorry I was misunderstood; was I not clear? I'm 100% with you and all you stated.
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I use Bumble and Hinge for all my clients. Women aren't really making the first move on bumble they are just reaching out first. Making a move is when someone asks someone out to dinner. Many women get this confused.
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@chriss i don't follow you... no pun intended lol
I would say all of them are same and none of them will work if your photo is not good enough or attractive enough.
Let's say even if ur photo is hot enough, there's still a high chance you can't get a girl in dating apps as the competition is too high for men in dating apps. In a day a hot girl could get hundreds of match and also hundreds of guys approaching her after match. So statistically it's almost impossible. Not to mention even after you manage to chat her, there's still a high chance she will ghosting you and disappear suddenly. You might be confused as you don't know what's wrong.
My suggestion is if you still want to use apps, it's better social media rather than dating apps. Instagram or Facebook is possible. But first you have to be someone that is related with her.
For example her friends follow you or her friends are friends with you in facebook then the chance is better as you are not strangers and at least her friend knows you so it's safe for the girl to assume if she might be interested with you if she notice a relation about you and her friend.
Obviously the best would be offline. But if you want to approach via online then better use famous social media rather than dating apps.10 Reply- +1 y
None all it is about ego people who are on there are mostly not looking for anything serious. They are lost and think that quanity is over quality. They just only devalues you nobody knows your personality. It is all based on looks. It is best walking up to someone in person and ask them out.
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pretty lady smiled at me the other day. I am so stupid for not taking action she was dam hot
First of all, average guys will not rate well on dating sites. This is proven.
Your best bet is to go onto a photo rating site to get critical feedback about all your photos. Guys think logically. Women are looking for stuff. Like a good social scene with you in it, and looking good in it.
Avoid mug shots and geeky things. I would recommend confident shots, and if you have the bod, show it off at the back. Women gripe about shirtless guys, but again, women react to good lookinf shirtless guys with a chiseled six pack abs.
If you don't have all of that, it will be a waste if time. Less you can say your a hedge fund manager standing infront of your new Lambo.00 Reply- +1 y
I've fucked girls off every app. Bumble is pretty good actually. The girls are ultra low quality but ease of use and time invested its got a great ROI. Expect some business woman or college student who is too focused on career or education to effectively date or have a boyfriend. Oh and lots of single moms too ofc. Smh they are like roaches... everywhere.
I think girls on tinder are more date able and thats saying something. But id personally rather an undateable party girl than an undateable workaholic. So your opinion might be different.13 Reply- +1 y
which has the prettiest women?
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Tinder still for young hotties. Although you're more likely to get those a bit older gym bunny women id say on bumble.
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ok I will try them both
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That sounds like a good 1. When i was younger, i found 2 if em to be pretty good. Plenty of fish, and Fling. Plenty of fish was free. Fling was not. And i haven't been on either for years, but when i was i met some interesting and beautiful people. And some of which I'm still friends with this day.
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try friendfinder. com you can put in what kind of sex your looking to do and the men that want that kind of sex will come to you... i never had to lift a finger or humilate myself to reach out to a guy... i'm not on the site anymore but i had men from 18-62 with the most being slightly older than myself... i met at least 30 people... mostly men but about 4-5 couples... whenever i needed a dick to suck there was friendfinder. com which is what i used it mostly for.
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You sure do like to talk about yourself a lot, don’t you?
I highly recommend OkCupid. Everyone I met on there has been a real person and not some fake bot even though most of the conversations have been short lived. OkCupid is definitely my go-to even though I'm not interested in dating right now when I was interested in dating OkCupid was still solid compared to other apps and you can even answer questions in your free time if you want.
10 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't get many matches on bumble. But I'd say it's definitely worth being on.
Tinder is, okay.. I know it's controversial, but it's pretty much the only app where I there are attractive women who I match with.
I mean, they're all terrible, to be fair.10 Reply- +1 y
I used a few different apps, met my OH through Bumble. We now have 2 kids.
It takes a lot of work, you have to invest time and effort.12 Reply- +1 y
I hear so many bad reviews of bumble. Maybe they fixed all problems I dunno
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There are people who ghost or no show for dates but you brush it off and get on with it.
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None. Not anymore. Though my best friend did find his wife on Tinder. I asked him..”Isn’t that a site to fuck?” He said you make it how you want to. His wife is nice. She’s a professional. Though I wouldn’t recommend them, I would at least say to be picky.
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Bumble - women who want to talk to you WILL make the first move as Queen bee type of ideal very unique and clever programming in a male driven world - its nice and reassuring that women can break the ice without it being ASL or send nude type of environment - with that being said I think its got more potential to find true romance then lets say Hot or Not or a Tinder / POF s of the internet
10 Reply I personally think dating sites are SHIT.
But, if you really wanna use it, I'd recommend Tinder, it's the most popular one (an the only one I know about tbh), so I guess it has the most users.10 ReplyNEVER EVER EVER use dating sites. It it just women looking for validation. They just fck around on the site.
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honestly: none. they're all shit. try to get to know people IRL. the best experiences i personally made with bumble but it's a crapshoot. dating sites shouldn't be used as your onle means to get dates.
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yeah natural meeting is better. thats how it was done for thousands of years
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there's not even a point. girls are flooded with hookup requests, which makes them not see the few that meant things seriously. so consequently as a man you're not seen. nobody wins on those platforms.
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except hot guys they get any woman they want
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those guys don't need dating sites.
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yeah true. hot women dont need them either they are just looking for an ego boost or men impersonating them
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yup. jusut curious: do you also get lots of likes from fat single moms but rarely one of a somewhat acceptable looking girl?
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nope I get body language interest from pretty women in real life but oddly in apps very little as I take poor photos
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yeah i wasn't speaking abour real life :D that's different. i was just trying to see if you have the experience that i have. which is basically girls who "know" that they are way out of my league still trying to take a shot.
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on tinder for like 2 weeks. got like a handful of matches and all were a disaster to message so I quit
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yeah i noticed the same. like they start the conversation but they couldn't hold a conversation, if their life dependend on then. feels like you have to pull their words out of their noses. like walking in a swamp.
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no all women are like this just lazy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw
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majority maybe. i dated some great conversation partners :D some of them i met on dating sites. but that happens like once in a blue moon.
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i happen to know the video by the way :D
15.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Id recommend Bumble. Usually all the women say on there initially is „hi“.
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None. Only works for women and very good looking guys. If you're not very attractive as a man it's a huge waste of time.
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Bumble is better as it has genuine people due to verification policy
Also you can get laid easily on bumble as many woman are there looking for the same
So at least you know the person your banging is the one on the profile and not someone else like tinder. ;P00 Reply - +1 y
I've had good luck with Tinder in the past, but I haven't tried a lot of other apps out
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I was thinking of trying Bumble as it makes women message first. Then only the women more interested in me will message me.
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I've heard good things about Bumble, and I know guys who have had success with meeting women on there, I just haven't tried it so I can't speak from experience.
11.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Try it and see. I met my wife on match. com but that was some years ago.
10 ReplyBumble was better then tinder for me. Even if girls never message i still got more likes there. PoF has to many bots, hinge just sucks where i lived, okcupid has older people and ads/OF girls..
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None, I'd rather network with people in my community and get to know people
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Use muzmatch because it doesn’t allow transgender so you can find the gender you are looking for. Some of the other dating apps have people of the same gender harassing you, muzmatch doesn’t have that and it is for all people thank God.
00 Reply - Anonymous(36-45)+1 y
Non for men unless they are 6" tall or more, rich, and as good looking as a male model. Otherwise, women will ignore you.
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I met my wife on eharmony. Try that for something more serious.
10 Reply @robocop666 A loaded gun in your mouth would be the best option. Online Dating is the perfect way to remind ones self that your going to die alone and forgotten for the vast majority of men.
10 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Join bumble and let the woman make the move
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you talking from experience?
10.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I would recommend joining CostCo so you can acquire alcohol cheaply.
10 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. they are all a waste of time, if you ever get a reply, you will probably be sorry... lol
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None of them work there's thousand of fake accounts.
20 Reply 433 opinions shared on Dating topic. Instead of (app-lying ) , start applying } yourself towards others in the real.
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I used all of them, Just don't use them only thing it does is make you feel worthless
00 Reply - Anonymous(18-24)+1 y
None, all of these apps are owned by the same parent company and it's a scam. They should be made illegal.
20 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. None they're all a waste of time.
30 Reply- Anonymous(18-24)+1 y
Makes the women make the move on the.1% of guys using the app they like
00 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
Life app.
Experience the world.11 Reply- +1 y
really people should meet naturally but I dont know if these are a good idea
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My friends like bumble.. so that a good option.
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I like you
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Approach women in real life.
00 Reply 390 opinions shared on Dating topic. I quit using those a long, damn time ago.
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None
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Depends on your region and country...
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Pornhub
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Zero
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I try over 12 dating apps. Didn't work for me.
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you wouldn't say that if you were a 9
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No, my outside looks are horrible. I had people ran to covered time to time. Seriously
Hinge
10 Reply18.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Do they charge?
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Sex. com
10 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
non waste of time
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