Whats the trend this year skinny or thick (not fat)?

[Anonymous]

I used to be really skinny but i was insecure since the trend was big asses and slim thick so i started lifting and eating more protein which did gave me more muscular legs and quite grew my ass but nowadays i see most guys with girls that are really skinny like 90 lbs and also my actual boyfriend is European and told me that the beauty standard there are really skinny girls with sticky legs anyways im 18 5’5 and 116 lbs but to be really petite i should weight at least 105 lbs so i wanna know are you guys more into skinny girls or slim thick and if you prefer muscular legs (not fat) or thin legs like models one? I wanna know so i can work towards a goal i like being fit please be honest about what are you into

Thick

Skinny

[Cynicaldreamer]

Healthy. Not skinny. Not thick (On a sidenote, that first image is not "thick." That is toned; fit and built. As in someone that obviously works out or has an athletic figure). Not fat. Healthy!!!
Stop caring about what other people think about your body and be just focus on looking and feeling good about yourself! Trust me, otherwise, you'll wind up miserable and trying to live up to unrealistic standards.

See, this is the problem most women have to deal with nowadays, worrying about how we look. If we're too skinny, we're told to gain weight. If we're fat, gotta lose weight or no one wants us. If we're too muscular or lift weights, people will say you're masculine. It's like we're damned no matter what we do!

So just stop stressing over it. Look, are you happy with how you look? If so, you're fine. Yes, you still need to exercise regularly, eat right, and take care of your body; that goes without saying.
But stop trying so hard to follow trends or look like those twits on social media- hell, most of them don't look as good as they appear to be.

My trend for the year is to feel better and look better for myself, which currently means losing weight. But I'm doing it for myself, not to please society's standards of how I should look and feel~

[Tavena02]

First off what are your goals?
I myself am a very curvy thiccie and I have no problem pulling men. I wear a corset. Not because I am here think oh I hope the boys will like my hourglass figure 😝. No. I wear it because I found my posture was a little off and I want to have a straighter back. So that when I was in presentations, I could seem professional and sure of myself with a good posture. I want to be able to look fire as hell riding dick with a good bend and good posture. Not once did I think oh my goodness I hope so and so would like me now that I have an hourglass shape!
Anyways my point is think about yourself and your goals. You like being fit right? Get that shit done! The gym is such a stress reliever omg I absolutely love going to the gym when I’m indecisive or in a mood. Fall in love with working on yourself that the guys who are right for you come your way. Someone who doesn’t compare beauty to you. Someone who makes you believe you are beautiful the way you are. That’s when you win. Don’t compare yourself to different girls. You win when you compare yourself to yesterday’s you and beat that version 👏 hope this helped!

[ShortCircuit]

Personally, I like thick girls. Always have. I love muscular legs too. But, as you can see from the poll, men's preferences vary. In fact, it's always going to be roughly 50/50 between guys who like thin girls and guys who like thick girls. At the time of writing this, it seems 60% favor thin girls, but you have to keep in mind that G@G users skew old, and thin was more popular in previous generations. So in reality, it is probably even closer to 50/50.

So you should decide for yourself whether you want to be thin or thick. It's not going to make a big impact on your ability to attract a guy either way. I think you would probably be better off staying thick since you already put so much effort into it, being in shape is healthier, and your diet will be easier to maintain, but again, it's up to you.

[RingOfFire]

I like skinny. But what concerns me is that you seem too concerned about what other people want and not focused on what you want your body to look like yourself.

I think every girl has a body type that fits her. If she tries to be something else it doesn't work. You can't change your bone structure. And that's the main thing that determines what body type you can achieve and fits you best.

[coachTanthony]

We are coming out of a pandemic... the trend is "Be yourself"

[AndyFo]

Honestly, just be yourself and don't conform to trends. The problem with trends is that they are ever constantly changing and in the blink of an eye. You spend months trying to change something for a trend and than no one is on the same trend anymore. Its a never ending game that can never be won. Your destined to just drive yourself insane because you'll never be good enough in your own eyes if you depend on other peoples satisfaction. The only opinion that matter is your own.

That said, I would be remiss if I did not at least answer the original question. I prefer something in between the two which probably translates to healthy or just average? I am not what one would consider overly picky. Any guy or woman for that matter worth their salt should be able to realize that regardless of what you look or dont look like, your beautiful. A sediment often ignored in our culture.

[MrQuick]

First, I want to point to point out that the girl in the sample images isn't "thick" at all. She's just mad toned and in shape.
Secondly, being thick isn't a trend. Neither is being skinny. Men have loved thick girls and big asses since the beginning of time. Likewise, there have always been men who prefer their women like rails.
The point is you're bringing yourself unnecessary stress trying to put the physique preferences of guys into only two categories; thick or skinny. That being said, I like them thick. Here's (my wife)

an example.

[Massageman]

If you look anything like the top photo, you will not have any problems with guys not liking you. (I would call the top picture "hourglass" If you find that you like to be a particular shape- skinny, fit, thick fit, etc. then be that shape! Focus on what shape YOU want to be. Odds are that whatever shape it is, some guy will like it!

As far as Europe is concerned, somehow the Twiggy look never is out of style there.

FYI- about those "trends".
Quite a few of them have been "planned" by designers, influencers, and advertising agencies. So, like what you like, and dump all the hype!

[Tavena02]

Wow this is the closest to how I would have responded. Almost word for word very cool.

[Massageman]

@Tavena02 Thanks. Feel free to take it!
My dad was in advertising. One time when the neighbor girls were into some fad, they asked my dad about that fad. He told them something on the order of "it's my job to get you to BUY that fad". They didn't know what he meant at the time, but I remembered it. (He worked at a newspaper, not a blood-thirsty agency, though).
I know that I would almost always do bodywork on someone who is at least average or a bit thicker than an easier-to-damage twig of a client! And, unless if I stay really aware of bony landmarks of the body, my hands can end up in places they might not want them to go with so little body mass to stop them.

[MysteriousDarkness]

People are into different: hair (length, color, shade of color, style), color of eyes, size of nose, size of lips, facial shape, boobs (size, level or perkieness/sagging), figure, heights, amonut of muscles, piercings (amount, where at, size etc), tattoos (amount, size, where at, what it is of, colors), fashion style etc.
Skinny implies being unhealthy so it should be thick vs thin which should not matter. Try being the best version of yourself that you can be. I say keep doing what you are because it shows dedication to eating healthy and working out/exercising.

[pajamasam]

Attraction is not a trend. I still think goth chicks are hot. Always have. Probably always will. Changing trends won't change that about me.

"Thick girls are in right now!"

"Thick girls are so last summer, we're back to skinny bitches now"

See how silly all that sounds? People like who they like and social media trends aren't gonna magically change that.

[gabbay18]

Most of these responses seem to be missing what slim thick means...

Regardless, everyone has different tastes. As long as your healthy in mind (this one seems to be the struggle nowadays) and body, guys will be lining up. If they don't, they are just intimidated, believing you out of their league. No need to lower yourself to accommodate them, and if you want a guy, just go get them!

Ps I much prefer the first one 😁

[gabbay18]

Ps it is not a great idea to be comparing these pictures. The color/lighting gives a distinct advantage to the second, and makes it hard to focus on answering the actual question

[Archerer]

I feel so bad for women, who always have to deal with this shit, your minds are focused on the wrong things. Trends? Who cares? The media sets the trend, it doesn't mean it an actual representation, you are being brainwashed. Men love all different types of body types. Plus, what? Do you expect to make radical changes to your body every year to fit in with a fucking TREND? I literally feel horrible for you guys being obsessed with this shit all the time.

Just be healthy, that's it.

[NorthAfrican]

Are you really gonna subjugate your body and health to trends? What if the next trend is overweight (which was kind of a thing in the past)? Would you gain weight just to fit the trend?
Just be healthy/work out and eat healthy and that's it.

[Aassem]

I don't know when will they understand this already.

[Anonymous]

Sweetie the trend will keep on changing everytime. If you're gonna do that to your body, that's an unhealthy mindset. Choose a body type YOU find sexy and healthy and stick to that. Changing your body so that the opposite gender finds you top notch attractive is like disrespecting your own mind that is capable of making it's own preferences and decisions

[crazyish]

Probably thinny. Ya know you gotta be both now🤷‍♀️

[FlutteringFeelings]

It’s a trend that the Kardashians push and now everyone wants to follow along. The clothing as well is a trend with the cut out dresses. It’s a robotic society and try not to get caught up in the cycle.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Who gives a shit? Your body type isn't a trend, it's something you're born with and you can't really change.

[Asker]

Yes u can just do a diet and lift

[BabyGirlRobin]

You can't just exchange bodies like clothes, that isn't normal.

[Anonymous]

How about normal, something in between? That second girl is way too skinny for my testes. I think the first one looks great, although it's difficult to tell how think she is from that angle and pose.

I don't think there are trends, really. There are a handful of guys who like really big butts, but most of us don't. And most of us don't like skinny either.

[jspl90]

well the thick option girl is perfect for me but she in my opinion isn't thick she is fit and the skinny one looks😱the leg part looks off😂 I think most safe beauty standard is healthy and fit and the "thick"option looks healthy and fit

[Anonymous]

Here is is: Big Kardashian butts, big boobs and skinny legs. However, when a photographer takes any pix of anyone who resembles them or just any big shot, They photo shot it to make better. Hope u the real deal. hahaha

[FilmGuy93]

Just focus on being healthy. Healthy will always be in style. If that means slim thick for you, then go for it. Guys, and especially your boyfriend will adore you all the same.

[Finchie40]

Me personally doesn’t like skinny girls , I prefer her to have some meat on her bones so more of average body type , not to skinny and not to fat

[Anonymous]

The range is somewhere between thick and skinny, it is a relatively loose range so most fit girls will fall into it.

[Anonymous]

There is no 'trend' this year. Not everyone is one specific body type. Style is also extremely subjective depending on the culture and to label a person's body type as some kind of fashion fad is stupid.

[jerdanro]

Except, that as you go back in time you see that it is. Beauty standards change over time. Big butts weren't considered desirable by the mainstream in the 80s. That's just one example.

[Opinion Owner]

@jerdanro That's only how it is for English people. Big butts were largely considered desirable back then, just not in your culture.

[jerdanro]

True, but that is an example of changing tastes.