Do you think a good looking man can ever have feelings or at least notice an unattractive woman?

[Anonymous]

Of course this girl (me) has a great personality and is intelligent, independant, and nice person. But, still, unattractive and ugly. (I started going to the gym and everything cause I'm skinny and I look like a tomboy right now, but, you know, I don't think it will really help or who knows). Be brutally honest guys, I need good advice to help me with this. 💜😁

[TurboKid]

I've seen plenty of girls who aren't conventionally attractive command the attention of good-looking guys provided they are very sociable and friendly. It is a somewhat rare phenomenon though in my experience because lots of girls who aren't conventionally attractive are often somewhat antisocial and keep to themselves. The ones who don't, however, with a bright smile and bubbly personality that's so fun and easy to talk to can really gain the attention of many guys, including good-looking ones.

[TurboKid]

I've also seen the opposite case of a conventionally gorgeous girl, maybe even model material, not actually getting that much attention if she's kind of antisocial and has guarded body language. Of course, a girl who looks like that who is very sociable and friendly is going to command the supreme attention, but I think there's too much emphasis on looks and not enough on social skills.

Attracting the attention of the sort for dates is not too unlike attracting similar attention for friendship, and between both sexes. People who often have the greatest difficulty with one will often have difficulty with the other.

So very often I think more people would benefit less from the gym and kitchen (although I still recommend it for health reasons) and more from getting in the habit of surrounding themselves with people and talking to them. Learn to develop a very friendly and open body language and navigate social events, and I think anyone who does this reasonably well stands a good chance of attracting the attention of someone they find attractive.

[boggboss]

That just because u see yourself that way dont mean a guy will see u that way nobody wants to date someone they themselves see as unattractive

[Anonymous]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So maybe.

[TheBigGuy9]

Of course he can.

[AmeerX]

I know I did

[Pterodon]

Of course

[Anonymous]

Of course.