Immediately. People always assume trans murders are people seeking them out and stalking them down vs them pulling some bullshit. Making out w a drunk guy and being passable enough. Move to a car and when the schlong comes out the man feels probably similar to how a girl feels after rape. Powerless humiliated... except men when they feel that way often become violent and there you have a beating or murder or whatever. I mean this is common sense. So yeah just tell people right away.
You should actually tell him or her before you were even partners. If it was me and no matter how soon anyone told me that, is an automatic deal breaker. But sure i have to admit even if "she" told me before, i still would never date "her". It's not our fault i'm straight
I get that it can be hard, but you want to ensure that your potential partner is willing to accept that and not base the relationship off of something that can be a potential deal breaker.
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I would like her to be upfront from the beginning. But I do understand some people might feel insecure about opening up. To me it's not a problem. I'm attracted to both cis and trans people. So if I'm into her I don't mind at all if she is trans or not that doesn't change my feelings. But I would encourage her to be open with me from that moment on on other things. I prefer to be with someone that trusts me.
That's a good question. I would say if as soon as you thought it would matter to the other person. The later it went the more problems could arise because of the complexity of the situation.
I don't know how to say this without offending anyone but most people can tell just by looking. At least I'm good at it... that being said I've nothing against Trans people and wish you the best
Before the 2 people start dating all of that should be out in the open. Also gonna be blunt here, it's very very rare that we can't tell immediately when a person is trans.
I take it back, tell them before the first date. Why hold something back like this and expect they would be okay with it after a couple of dates? This isn't a white lie.
It's also really dangerous. You never know what some guys would do.
They should be able to figure it out on their own or else they might be secretly gay. It's always obvious when someone is transgender. I won't pretend.
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Immediately. People always assume trans murders are people seeking them out and stalking them down vs them pulling some bullshit. Making out w a drunk guy and being passable enough. Move to a car and when the schlong comes out the man feels probably similar to how a girl feels after rape. Powerless humiliated... except men when they feel that way often become violent and there you have a beating or murder or whatever. I mean this is common sense. So yeah just tell people right away.
You should actually tell him or her before you were even partners. If it was me and no matter how soon anyone told me that, is an automatic deal breaker. But sure i have to admit even if "she" told me before, i still would never date "her". It's not our fault i'm straight
Before going on any date at all TBH.
I get that it can be hard, but you want to ensure that your potential partner is willing to accept that and not base the relationship off of something that can be a potential deal breaker.
I would like her to be upfront from the beginning. But I do understand some people might feel insecure about opening up. To me it's not a problem. I'm attracted to both cis and trans people. So if I'm into her I don't mind at all if she is trans or not that doesn't change my feelings. But I would encourage her to be open with me from that moment on on other things. I prefer to be with someone that trusts me.
As soon as possible really.
question back for you.
at what point should your new date tell you that they are married?
That's a good question. I would say if as soon as you thought it would matter to the other person. The later it went the more problems could arise because of the complexity of the situation.
I don't know how to say this without offending anyone but most people can tell just by looking. At least I'm good at it... that being said I've nothing against Trans people and wish you the best
And there's a lot that are post-op that you can't tell at all.
Before the 2 people start dating all of that should be out in the open.
Also gonna be blunt here, it's very very rare that we can't tell immediately when a person is trans.
I think that’s something you should be open about from the start. If they won’t accept you, better to find that out early.
Before the first date. That information is very important for me to know. That’s about as important as having a child IMHO.
Within the first few dates anything longer and it would be deceiving
I would tell them the minute they showed a romantic or sexual interest if I was transgender.
It would be best to tell as early as possible to avoid wasting anyone’s time.
They need to tell me soon as we meet tbh. I don’t play that
You should tell them on the first date. Prior to meeting them is optimal.
You don't want to be deceitful and waste their time and your time.
I take it back, tell them before the first date. Why hold something back like this and expect they would be okay with it after a couple of dates? This isn't a white lie.
It's also really dangerous. You never know what some guys would do.
I'm actually unsure. But if I had a future partner that was trans I'd wonder why they didn't tell me before.
I’m fucking ediately... if some whore tells me they were a man after we had sex ide shoot the bitch.
I think you would've figured that out while having sex 💀
Lol the if we make it to that point I’m beating you ass... if ima have a starfish it’s at least going to be female.
As soon as possible, but not in person. People nowadays get angry and attack and kill transgender people
They should be able to figure it out on their own or else they might be secretly gay. It's always obvious when someone is transgender. I won't pretend.
Like on the first date... If they are cool with it they will continue with you, if they aren't then you aren't wasting each others time.