I think your account looks good. You have a great smile and there's a variety of photos, all not selfies which is great, and you clearly are an active guy and that matches what you say, so you look authentic. You look to me like the whole package, with the being fit and active and liking intellectual dialogues. (But I'm married and I don't speak for all women, so who knows.)
Like Jennifer, I also wondered was BJJ was, but I decided it would not be something to do with blowjobs. But yeah, that might confuse or make a bunch wonder.
The only thing I see that could be a negative is "something casual", so although there are certainly a lot of women who want that, I don't know if in the app you have the option to add more or if there's just the one preference possible. I don't know the app so I don't know what the other phrases are, but I'm wondering if that is just another way of implying hookups.
I don't think you need to change anything, personally. And I think you look the better of the three in the last photo. Those guys are massive and would be intimidating to some girls. You look... manageable, lol. Dating for guys online is like trying to catch a tiny fish in a super big pond where the fisher'men' are women and are super picky about what fish they'll eat. So not being contacted is not always a reflection on problems with your account/profile. Most guys are in the same boat, just remember that.
P. S. I believe you can delete questions within 24 hrs of posting. Otherwise, no. Disavow to go anon.
I really appreciate the time and thought that went into your feedback. You guys have been super helpful! In regards to my relationship preference I also only opted to see women who had the same preference. I dont think I'm understanding fully the comment: that I look the better of the 3 in the last photo. Are you suggesting I shouldn't swap out the photo with me and my coaches?
Yes, my opinion is that you look the better of the three in the last photo. Different girls, different opinions, right, but just thought I'd say that because not all women want those types of men. I look for cerebral types more, not hulking guys who are all about the body. (I'm married so it's irrelevant in this case, but I just generally think it's good for people to get different opinions and not be influenced by just one or a handful. Take everything with a grain of salt, right.)
And you're welcome. (I like new users, especially. They are not as jaded and I like the energy and enthusiasm. And I fully understand why you would have preferred to anon this q, but I avoid anons quite a bit. They don't build any relationship, I can't know credibility or history to round out their questions, and they tend to ignore the commenters more. So I'm glad you weren't anon.)
its looks good, dont get those dating app q your attractivness n self worth as it really isn't as it seems. algoritms on the site can be weird, a lot of grls are there just looking or nitpicky and scared as this isn't real life and there are tons of options so they might not know what to choose. Ill tell you a story, I had 2 dating apps and you could see some same people on both. One one they would like me and on another they wouldn't. At first i felt cofused w my low matches on one dating app and than on another men i liked on first liked me back on second dating app. So i think it really isn't as it seems, algoritms can be weird. I like once guy twice and he never liked me back. than i saw him on fb and i added him and he accepted and was very into me, we went on a date etc. So yeah, weird, he never knew i liked him on dating app lol. And twice, so anyway maybe also try different dating apps.
Oh wow😯 bjj means Brazilian Jiu-jitsu. I assumed the martial art uniform emoji solidified that🤦🏽♂️ In addition i put a pic with me at a bjj competition sharing my accomplishments and passion for the art.
Now I remember why I abbreviated it. They allow a limited amount of characters. I just tried to spell it out and wouldn't allow me. Probably just erase that whole line all together since a large part of population not even familiar with it anyway.
Or take out other things to make room for Brazilian Jitsu or combine things together. You could also post a photo of yourself with the visual word “Brazilian Jitsu” added to it. I believe pixler and snapseed let’s you do that but not sure if you can do it for free. Microsoft word cut and paste and than screen shooting the revised image also works.
Not tall enough and no hair. ALSO, the picture at the end is not doing you justice when you’re standing next to two tall and buff men making you look not so tall and buff.
