Are you Able to Move On from Something that Bothers You in a Relationship?

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TommyMountainFigure · Accepted Answer

I will forgive PRACTICALLY anything the first time Paris. After that I won't even discuss it. I'm out the door and I always make that clear at the beginning of all my relationships.

clampfan101 · Accepted Answer

I’m not picky, but everyone has red flags and limits.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Sometimes, what bothers me is a deal breaker. I don't want to move on from that.

If it is not a deal breaker, I try to remind myself of all the stupid shit that my partner puts up with, tell myself how lucky I am to have a partner who tolerates all of my flaws, and remind myself that I need to be equally tolerant.

AmandaYVR · Answer

Wow. Poll results so far contradict common male sentiment, that complain women are the ones who hold onto things and grudges. Be interesting to see my votes come in.

NathanDavis · Answer

I can easily let go from things that bother me, and that's mostly because I've got a complicated brain. My brain can be bothered over little things, it can get a little fixated on things that should really not matter much, somtimes things that are absurd, so... through all my life I've had to learn to control that just to be able to go on with my life.

Also, I'm the middle child, and there were a lot of things that did bother me but I just had to let go, within my family, so... again, if I've done things like that, I can also do that within my relationships, I would just never let things that are a bother, which I consider minor things, to get on the way of bigger things, that being, all the great and good stuff you can get from a relationship, a good one that is.

Now, I want to differentiate that, from actual problems and conflicts, in relationships... when and with things that actually represent a problem, I want to solve those, I want to seek resolution... I don't want problems and conflicts that keep happening to become a normalcy, if problems arise then I want my partner to solve it with me, and then it has to be something that works for both, otherwise, is still going to eat up into our relationship, and I don't like any of that either.

REALSTEEL · Answer

Yes absolutely the problem a lot of people have is 1 they can't let go of the past
And 2 people think every person is going to treat them like there x life goes by way way to fast enjoy everything that God created if it was ment to be then great if not that's great too enjoy the things that God gave us be thankful you still alive cause every breath you take is another second you enjoy being alive and enjoying everything God created for us

natured · Answer

It depends what happened, i sure don't do the silence treatment because it actually gets worse, so we talk it out, we clear the air, we find a solution and that's it..
BUT IF HE OR SHE CHEATS that's something else,

Alyssa11 · Answer

No lol. I’m gonna be honest. Even if I say I have and act like I have, I probably keep it locked up inside me and bite back when the opportunity presents itself. Yours sincerely, a Scorpio.

keniyaa · Answer

depends on how serious it is, cuz if I feel like they gone break my heart I want out of that relationship.

pleasestopthis · Answer

Depends on what that thing is. - Leaving the keys in every random possible place? sure, no biggie - Being disrespectful, cheating, abusive? Hell no

BobbyC65 · Answer

It's been a long time since I was in a relationship and I don't if I'll ever be in a relationship again to find out what bothers me in a relationship Paris.

exitseven · Answer

Back in the day most things I could just get over. If it was something really big like cheating I would dump her.

menina · Answer

I think I am, as long as I can talk about my problem with my SO. I need to vent so I can let it go.

humanearth · Answer

You have to, you your relationship falls apart. Sometimes you have to let stuff slide. Otherwise shit just builds and your relationship is broken

Wiredone · Answer

I've known my wife for over 40 years. I've overlooked a lot of stuff. I don't let it bother me. I care too much about her

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe partially but it will still be in the back of my mind

2021biguy · Answer

We all have to accept people for who they are, good and bad, but not for big things like cheating.

jimmy2 · Answer

When 2 come together they should wipe the slate clean and start out better

Leavesbound · Answer

Yes but sometimes it takes time for that to happen.

karaspara · Answer

Depends what happened

msc545 · Answer

It depends on what it is that bothers me.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

It depends on how bad it is

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes I am I do let anything stress me out

Willoughby23 · Answer

I've never been in a relationship

boggboss · Answer

Wait such as what

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Usely yes

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I am even cheating but that one takes time

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