I think with most things, you can't say "all women" or "all men" yes there may be a majority that say that, but there will also be those who don't. And that can go either way. The men and women who aren't with somebody because of height, weight etc. Are better off without them anyways :)
Women have double standards all the time. Although to be fair, so do some men. Like the incels who think they deserve a 9 out of 10 model with DD's, but will refuse to date any girl because "she's fat" at 140 lbs. People in general are kinda sh*tty yeah, but women are definitely more shallow.
Thanks for reminding G@G again that there is nothing louder in the world than the cries of twerpy little boys lamenting their not-so-cute baby statures.
Also, I'm pretty sure women don't want to date you not because of your unappealing height, but because the average squad of girl scouts handles pressure better than your not-so-grown-up male peers do.
Fair statement to kinda a lot women. But there is also a amount that don't care about height. Just like how there is guys who don't care about a woman's height. Or guys not caring if the woman is fat or not. Might be hard to find them. But there is kinda no point been salty over it during that time.
everyone has different things they fin attractive or not attractive. Not everyone has a preference for height. Sometimes you might have a thing you do not like but you meet somebody who is just so attractive in other ways that you may not notice it all that much. I have many physical flaws and do not consider myself particularly handsome. I just did the best I could with what I had and if some girl didn;t like me because I have a weird nose I really felt that it was her loss.
okay- yes they do have double standards. If a good looking guy tells an off color joke at work it id funny. If the guy is older and fat it is sexual harassment.
Personally, I do not care so much about height, if I must admit that I must feel physically attracted to go out with him, in the end we all care about the physical look. although many do not admit it but thats true. but like i said I dont care about how tall he is, If the boy is short but nice and cute I will definitely go out with him.
I’d say ours are relatively simple.. you said our DNA stays the same, and that height can’t be fixed.. but we don’t ask for dumbo tits and a giant ass.
While that can be fixed by plastic surgery, it alters your body.
And natural beauty can never be botched. It will show when you get older because you will be beautiful forever.
You couldn’t be more wrong. Most guys don’t give a shit about tit or ass size they want a woman that takes care of herself that also has maternal instincts. Women are only expected to have traits they can control to be a good option. The requirements for men are all things that we can’t control.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Both men and women care about dick size/ass size to an extent.. so I’m not sure why you think you had a point in that regard.
But society has mostly unrealistic expectations towards women, not men.
The bar is set so low for them that men are celebrated literally just for showing up.
There are men who expect a lot from a women, good looks, profession, good family etc, without really giving something back.
I see this quite often. A guy who has nothing going for him will expect some random supermodel to take an interest in him, and if she doesn't, they blame the women for their own shortcomings.
Also, it's so goddamn annoying when dudes brag about how “tight" someone’s pussy they got into was.
And that they’ll never fuck a woman who doesn’t have one.
Like, dude, most girls are only tight if they're not properly aroused. That's like bragging about how loud your car is because you're racing it with the emergency brake on.
And.. hairlessness. Particularly if it is requested by a hairy man. Women have to shave every fucking part of their bodies while men only have to shave their faces.
Or if women don’t wear makeup or dress fancy, then she’s automatically deemed ugly for not having any “conventional” beauty.
Society judges women more harshly based on appearances. If a guy is short, ugly, and stupid then at least he has the money to buy love.
Again, all women ask is that men don’t sleep around and practice basic hygiene.. they can’t even seem to meet such a simple request as that.
Wanting to date a taller guy is just a preference, just like not wanting to date someone fat. And not every woman is like that.
And when it comes to double standards, there are guys who are just as bad. Dudes who say they want a girl who's great in bed but needs to be a virgin etc.
Both guys and girls can be shallow and have double standards. Those are just bad people.
I’d only dare a guy who’s taller than me. I’m not asking for 6 foot lmao. If he’s taller than 5’3” then it’s cool. I think I’m 5’2” wait, no 5’3? I’m not sure
5 3 - 5 4 is actually female average height. Your not that short. I am your height and I mostly get hit on by tall men actually. My boyfriend is 6 4. I don’t even have to look for tall men they literally come to me. At the envy of my actual tall female friends.
Within my circle of male friends, the shortest one of us (5'7) is actually the one who has had the MOST success with women. There is SO much that matters a lot more when it comes to attracting a partner than your height. Sure, SOME women might consider a man being 5'7 to be a dealbreaker but that's not the majority of them. They may have a PREFERENCE for taller men but for most it's not an absolute must.
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Dude--that isn't a double standard. That's just having standards. When women are looking for men to breed them, they're looking for GOOD DNA. That means many things, but one of them is height. So your statement that since height is DNA determined and therefore shouldn't be a consideration for mating has it exactly wrong. That's exactly why it SHOULD be a consideration for mating. Women who are ovulating want to get fucked by men with the best DNA.
Yeah it is, even though I don't necessarily think it's every woman as a gender so much as societal pressure that makes them more prejudiced about it. It's like how racist people often grow up in a racist environment.
But being shallow is debatable and not the point, but as long as people are shallow men should be as socially allowed to be shallow as women.
Your options aren't the best... Also a short man is dangerous only with a gun. We tall guys can play shorties like a man can play kids... I never lost a fight to any man. But a shortie cpuld never even hit me, unlike bigguns... Who wants short kids? Same as who wants fat women? Most don't...
Actually, your hight is based on your diet and environment when you were younger. This just goes to prove how we just google things and not actually doing proper research from a professional. Secondly men should date whomever they want, same goes to women.
@Ez-Bri-Z And for finally taking my advice blocking me and running away from responsibility, i can just say it here. I thought you were having fun but now it is boring. Really make up your mind. It sounds like you're also the person who don't finish what you cook for yourself. Of course it's boring if someone is more rational than you. So what other excuse do you have? because i've seen worse.
@Ez-Bri-Z and another thing would be like what you said, winning like how i triled win against their parents is basically like you blocking anyone and running away from your responsibilities it's so ironic coming from a 40+ year old relic like you who should really know better
We have standards, but we get roasted for expressing them. Like not preferring a woman to weigh more than we do. But let's be honest, height isn't the only standard women have and probably not the main one. Ususally on dating posts, there is a 'shopping list' of 'don't contact me unless' criteria, for instance. But the main standard women look for is... money.
I just see taller guys more attractive, strong I don't know why. But the shortest I would date is 5'6 preferably if he's 5'9 above omg if he's 6ft much better
It's obvious. If you were an ugly fat girl you would think everyone should consider personality more. But you yourself wouldn't want to be with a fat ugly guy and definitely like tall, handsome and dark guy more.
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I think with most things, you can't say "all women" or "all men" yes there may be a majority that say that, but there will also be those who don't. And that can go either way. The men and women who aren't with somebody because of height, weight etc. Are better off without them anyways :)
Women have double standards all the time. Although to be fair, so do some men. Like the incels who think they deserve a 9 out of 10 model with DD's, but will refuse to date any girl because "she's fat" at 140 lbs. People in general are kinda sh*tty yeah, but women are definitely more shallow.
Thanks for reminding G@G again that there is nothing louder in the world than the cries of twerpy little boys lamenting their not-so-cute baby statures.
Also, I'm pretty sure women don't want to date you not because of your unappealing height, but because the average squad of girl scouts handles pressure better than your not-so-grown-up male peers do.
Fair statement to kinda a lot women. But there is also a amount that don't care about height. Just like how there is guys who don't care about a woman's height. Or guys not caring if the woman is fat or not.
Might be hard to find them. But there is kinda no point been salty over it during that time.
everyone has different things they fin attractive or not attractive. Not everyone has a preference for height. Sometimes you might have a thing you do not like but you meet somebody who is just so attractive in other ways that you may not notice it all that much.
I have many physical flaws and do not consider myself particularly handsome. I just did the best I could with what I had and if some girl didn;t like me because I have a weird nose I really felt that it was her loss.
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okay- yes they do have double standards. If a good looking guy tells an off color joke at work it id funny. If the guy is older and fat it is sexual harassment.
Personally, I do not care so much about height, if I must admit that I must feel physically attracted to go out with him, in the end we all care about the physical look. although many do not admit it but thats true. but like i said I dont care about how tall he is, If the boy is short but nice and cute I will definitely go out with him.
I’d say ours are relatively simple.. you said our DNA stays the same, and that height can’t be fixed.. but we don’t ask for dumbo tits and a giant ass.
While that can be fixed by plastic surgery, it alters your body.
And natural beauty can never be botched. It will show when you get older because you will be beautiful forever.
If anyone asks you to change then leave them.
I highly doubt that women are “shallow” because men are the ones that require perfection and settle for nothing less.. Oh, such irony.
You pretty much always see beautiful women with these ass-ugly men, while said men are always with these flawless trophy wives.
You couldn’t be more wrong. Most guys don’t give a shit about tit or ass size they want a woman that takes care of herself that also has maternal instincts. Women are only expected to have traits they can control to be a good option. The requirements for men are all things that we can’t control.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Thanks for empowering my thesis with a wall of bullshit.
All women take care of themselves, we worry about our appearance just as much as men do.
Men can control their anger issues and irrational behavior.. they can also prevent being a player and stringing women along.
We ask for so little, all that you put somewhat of an effort in personal hygiene and not to cheat. But it seems that’s too much to ask for.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Both men and women care about dick size/ass size to an extent.. so I’m not sure why you think you had a point in that regard.
But society has mostly unrealistic expectations towards women, not men.
The bar is set so low for them that men are celebrated literally just for showing up.
There are men who expect a lot from a women, good looks, profession, good family etc, without really giving something back.
I see this quite often. A guy who has nothing going for him will expect some random supermodel to take an interest in him, and if she doesn't, they blame the women for their own shortcomings.
Also, it's so goddamn annoying when dudes brag about how “tight" someone’s pussy they got into was.
And that they’ll never fuck a woman who doesn’t have one.
Like, dude, most girls are only tight if they're not properly aroused. That's like bragging about how loud your car is because you're racing it with the emergency brake on.
And.. hairlessness. Particularly if it is requested by a hairy man. Women have to shave every fucking part of their bodies while men only have to shave their faces.
Or if women don’t wear makeup or dress fancy, then she’s automatically deemed ugly for not having any “conventional” beauty.
Society judges women more harshly based on appearances. If a guy is short, ugly, and stupid then at least he has the money to buy love.
Again, all women ask is that men don’t sleep around and practice basic hygiene.. they can’t even seem to meet such a simple request as that.
"... but we don’t ask for dumbo tits and a giant ass."
Well, yeah. But straight women are not attracted to tits and ass like straight men are. It's an imperfect comparison.
I think the "perfection" is a generalization. Have you even talked to any men in real life about what and how they are attracted?
@UncleJessieRabbit yeah I don’t think she’s ever listened to a man in her life.
@UncleJessieRabbit You missed the point as I expected, but whatever. I think a better question would be...
Have YOU ever talked to any men in real life? Do their expectations parallel your own?
@DeltaCharlieEcho Why would I have to? Fairly unanimous knowledge that straight men are all motivated by pussy in some shape or form?
@DeltaCharlieEcho Keep believing those silly lies fed to you by your useless cult.
Wanting to date a taller guy is just a preference, just like not wanting to date someone fat.
And not every woman is like that.
And when it comes to double standards, there are guys who are just as bad. Dudes who say they want a girl who's great in bed but needs to be a virgin etc.
Both guys and girls can be shallow and have double standards. Those are just bad people.
I’d only dare a guy who’s taller than me. I’m not asking for 6 foot lmao. If he’s taller than 5’3” then it’s cool. I think I’m 5’2” wait, no 5’3? I’m not sure
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Because of this statement you'll be 5'11 by age of 17
5 3 - 5 4 is actually female average height. Your not that short. I am your height and I mostly get hit on by tall men actually. My boyfriend is 6 4. I don’t even have to look for tall men they literally come to me. At the envy of my actual tall female friends.
Uh I’m 16 now actually. The age is wrong here @J20hhhhh
Women like tall men and men like short women.
Not much of a problem.
Women to tend to be more picky based on height.
People like what they like, can't blame somebody if they don't get horny for your short, tall, skinny or fat ass. For both genders.
If they ask about your height, tell them and just ask them about their weight. If you want to play their game with the reverse uno card.
Within my circle of male friends, the shortest one of us (5'7) is actually the one who has had the MOST success with women. There is SO much that matters a lot more when it comes to attracting a partner than your height. Sure, SOME women might consider a man being 5'7 to be a dealbreaker but that's not the majority of them. They may have a PREFERENCE for taller men but for most it's not an absolute must.
Dude--that isn't a double standard. That's just having standards. When women are looking for men to breed them, they're looking for GOOD DNA. That means many things, but one of them is height. So your statement that since height is DNA determined and therefore shouldn't be a consideration for mating has it exactly wrong. That's exactly why it SHOULD be a consideration for mating. Women who are ovulating want to get fucked by men with the best DNA.
Yeah it is, even though I don't necessarily think it's every woman as a gender so much as societal pressure that makes them more prejudiced about it. It's like how racist people often grow up in a racist environment.
But being shallow is debatable and not the point, but as long as people are shallow men should be as socially allowed to be shallow as women.
Your options aren't the best...
Also a short man is dangerous only with a gun. We tall guys can play shorties like a man can play kids... I never lost a fight to any man. But a shortie cpuld never even hit me, unlike bigguns...
Who wants short kids? Same as who wants fat women? Most don't...
Actually, your hight is based on your diet and environment when you were younger. This just goes to prove how we just google things and not actually doing proper research from a professional. Secondly men should date whomever they want, same goes to women.
@Ez-Bri-Z And for finally taking my advice blocking me and running away from responsibility, i can just say it here. I thought you were having fun but now it is boring. Really make up your mind. It sounds like you're also the person who don't finish what you cook for yourself. Of course it's boring if someone is more rational than you. So what other excuse do you have? because i've seen worse.
@Ez-Bri-Z and another thing would be like what you said, winning like how i triled win against their parents is basically like you blocking anyone and running away from your responsibilities it's so ironic coming from a 40+ year old relic like you who should really know better
Like how a *child win against their parents
Is this the kinda bullshit guys have to make so they can pretend to be victims?
It is a double standard but come on it's hardly as if men don't have double standards for women either
We have standards, but we get roasted for expressing them. Like not preferring a woman to weigh more than we do. But let's be honest, height isn't the only standard women have and probably not the main one. Ususally on dating posts, there is a 'shopping list' of 'don't contact me unless' criteria, for instance. But the main standard women look for is... money.
Eh, not me. As long as you make me happy then you're good.
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@Juxtapose me either i'm to old for snapchat 😂
H-heeey! I'm 32 myself, don't make me feel so old xD
@Juxtapose Lmao i just feel like snapchat is for teens / early twenties
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I just see taller guys more attractive, strong I don't know why. But the shortest I would date is 5'6 preferably if he's 5'9 above omg if he's 6ft much better
Lol 5 9 is most women’s definition of short. Where do you live if 5 9 is tall.. haha.
Gurl it's HELLA rare to see a 5'7 guy in here 😭 I'm lucky to even find a 5'5 guy here 😂
Oh wow what country are you in?
Haha Philippines where all people are short lmao
Lucky to find 5'5? Ouch! Damn i didn't know Philippine guys are so short
Yeah lol they're mostly 5' or 4'11
@yourbabygirl921 wtf? Damn! I am 6'5" I would a giant over there!!! 😂🤣
How short are the girls then over there?
It's obvious. If you were an ugly fat girl you would think everyone should consider personality more. But you yourself wouldn't want to be with a fat ugly guy and definitely like tall, handsome and dark guy more.
By dark do you mean hair color? I see so many girls in gag who love blue or green eyes