Guys, why would you reject a woman’s love for you?

[Anonymous]

This is provided you are not in a relationship.

[Leavesbound]

If she lied to be about something that for me is a deal breaker (a very short list) then I would probably have to reject her. But I am very up front about such things. If I tell you that I don't date women with a particular bad habit and you tell me you don't have that bad habit but I later find out you did and particularly if you still do then I will reject you coldly. For me the list is as follows:

You got a late term abortion and it was your idea and not forced upon you.
You smoke
You drink excessively
You take illegal drugs (except for pot taken in a manner other than smoking it)
You killed someone without justification.
You are a habitual thief.
There might be others I can't think of at the moment but you get the idea. In other words, it has to be serious and not trivial.

[Bright_blue_eyes]

WOW.. this is a super complicated topic. As you might imagine this could happen for a million different reasons. Some of those reasons might not have anything to do with you at all. Rather than me speculate why some guy would reject you, I would offer you words of encouragement by saying, Not all people are compatible romantically. I've met amazing women in my life, some with great personalities and a lot to offer, but we were not a good match. Conversely I might be a good catch for some women, but not others. I'm still the same person, and I still have a lot to offer, but I suspect it comes down to compatibility. If guy 1 rejects a women's love it's likely just a matter of compatibility NOT that anything is wrong with the girl.

[TheSpaceGnome]

A number of reasons, but off the top of my head, no physical attraction to her, her not being a gamer or artist, her being religious, her being an asshole to people, her being a gold digger, her being lazy, her being dumb, her not being a very sexually charged person, her having an std, the list goes on. There are more reasons I won't date or marry someone than there are reasons I would. I don't need much in a relationship, just someone who thinks like me and enjoys the same stuff and is safe and pretty, and I'm good.

[TheSpaceGnome]

other reasons would be she's a liar, a druggy/alcoholic, hates porn, or is the type to hold double standards in relationships

[TheSpaceGnome]

or if she hates anime, sci fi, fantasy, or difficult video games, or is a feminist, or smells horrible

[Overmind]

This would mean one of three things for me personally. Either I wasn't attracted to her sexually or I felt like I couldn't keep her happy (princess types, sky high standards) Also rarely happens but if she's a good girl I'll let her go to find someone else. I have a subconscious way of nuking a relationship once she gets real feels that I've tried to fix for ages with mixed results.

[termanator]

Same here as well , I think we need therapy bro

[ShadezMcgee]

Because I would have a hard time believing she was genuine with her words or emotions as a whole. Words mean nothing, it is all about actions.

I don't trust easy and my standards will not be compromised. It is the reason I have a great woman now.

[ohshee]

Well if you are in a relationship then you love that person there's no reason to reject it and if your boyfriend is rejecting Your Love you need to ask him why and you need to get out of the relationship because there's no reason for you to feel the way that you feel or that he's making you feel

[MrMilti]

How do you "reject someones love"? There are no Uno-Reverse-Cards for Love.

You either love someone or you don't. Being loved by a person you do not love yourself, is still you simply not loving that person.

[dybig]

In order of most boner killingest:

1) No/inadequate chemistry or sexual lattraction.
2) Dealbreakers (such as is a racist, etc)
3) External pressures./factors (family rivalry, age gap, coworkers, they're moronic, etc.)

Other than that, I can't think of anything else that would deter me from at least giving the person a fair shot.

[Kaneki05]

If she's religious, if she alligns herself with conserivate views not that i've ever met a woman of my age with such views in my city thankfully. Pretty much my only 2 reasons.

[hahahmm]

Why did you reject all the guys who were willing to do things for you & care for you? There's your answer.

[ChrisMaster69]

If she turns in to a weird stalker and getting totally psychotic

been there had the restraining order out in place on her.

[normalice]

No mutual physical attraction.

Glaring personality conflicts.

No sexual compatibility.

[Devlaw5]

Because we’re not a good fit. Or one of us isn’t ready for a relationship.

[VanillaSalt]

Because women are the devil… but no really women are trouble your better off single.

[boggboss]

Bexause I was not attracted to her or didn't see a relationship working

[TheFlak38]

"love" for a woman means "give me give me give me". Once you stopped giving she starts nagging you to an early grave "you don't do anything for me you don't love me". Men get nothing out of this. It only serves the interests of women. No woman gives a shit about her man. She only cares about what he can do for her.

[Asker]

That is utter bullshit. I personally do not think like this about someone I care deeply about.

[TheFlak38]

What you personally think is completely irrelevant. What women think or say and what they do are two different things. It's bullshit? Yeah ok mrs Einstein. Every reputable psychologist recognises it. Women love opportunistically, men love idealistically. Any man who knows that refuses to commit because he knows very well the woman will fuck his life. Cry a river.

[electricjohn]

Because I dont feel the same way for her, would be the easiest reason I can think of

[Interstate]

Probably in my case, I don't have the same feelings for her as she does for me.

[adventurous-1]

because the spark is just not there, not fair to lead someone on, better to be honest and be done with it.

[exitseven]

Sometimes you just do not feel the love for the other person. Sometimes you can love somebody but not in the way that you are supposed to.

[msc545]

Many reasons. might be too much trouble or am I being another relationship that you don't know about where I might be too busy to even get into this kind of stuff.

[libsaretards]

Because I feel like she is a piece of shit, does not interest me or any other number of reasons.

[AgentRED]

If she was in a relationship, single mom or trying to play games.

[denzelcho]

simply because they don't like her? not all men are just monsters who just are horny to put their dicks into any hole to ever exist. i'm not really sure why the question even exists. probably because of "un-education"? "mis-education"?

[genericname85]

90% of the time it's quite simply cause i'm not attracted to her.

[OutWestBandit]

no feelings or sexual attraction... or too controlling.

[AdithyaR]

Cause I don't want a relationship or a fling or one night stand.

[magiusX26]

numerous and varying reasons. one if being our standards for each other not meshing.

[InferiorElegy]

Some female I'm not in a relationship with says they love me? Yea I'm rejecting her, I've been through something very similar and it went horrible for me.

[Wise4myage]

If I did that, it was because I had no romantic interests in her.

[dudeinohio]

Probably not. Would have to see what kind of personality she had.

[2021biguy]

There are too many variables to consider to answer that.