Men, would you marry a woman who makes probably 3 or 4 times what you make?

[Sweetener_]

Yes

No

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[AlexanderAnttila]

She'll have to be something extremely highfalutin' for that to be the case. I'm going to make a ton of money in my political career. Not that I consider that the only goal, but for the purpose of providing for a family it is certainly one goal. I don't think there's anything wrong with the scenario per se, but I am the leader of the household and that might create some strife if she brings in fortunes and wants to decide how to spend it and how the family is to be affected. If I know a woman to be making far more than me then I'd suspect that she might have an issue with pride in submitting to me as man/husband and leader in a Godly and Christ centered marriage. Because money isn't what truly matters as Jesus well told us, but her earning so much might make her think so and believes it renders her as most important in the family and higher standing in hieararchy.

No, I'd prefer to be more wise in whom I marry.

[TheFlak38]

100% yes. I would then behave exactly like women behave with their husbands. And then I would divorce her to take half her shit.

[Sweetener_]

This wasn't supposed to make me laugh but it did 🤣🤣🤣

[MCheetah]

I voted "No." I wouldn't feel good about that. I'd feel like a leech or a bum. I'm fine if she makes more than me, but not that much more. I'm not a baby or a child. Four times my salary would be $115,000 a year. If I loved her no matter what she did for a living, then I could maybe learn to live with it over time. But in general, no, I don't like the idea of not being able to hold my own weight or be far less of an equal to her in that regard. I'd be fine with someone making up to 50% more than me, like $44,000 a year, but no more than that.

[ohshee]

If I'm in love with her yes I would. I don't have an ego and it's really not that big of a deal to me as a matter of fact she could be making a hundred times more than me if I love her I love her and that's all that counts it's not about money it's not about possessions materials it's about love

[Slartybartfast]

I've never even considered a women's income, most women I know wouldn't bother with a man making Less than six figures. It's why men work at their career to the detriment of their happiness and health,. Women require men to be providers and since the internet allows them to be hypergamous men who make less will remain single.

[Azeesha55]

Money doesn't matter... But money matters sometimes... So, probably I need to earn for my own good. I cannot depend on my wife's earnings right?

[Sweetener_]

Right

[Azeesha55]

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[NathanDavis]

Sure, that would not bother me... but it would not be the reason for me to marry her either, I would just not mind it as something negative.

[TallAnon]

Sure, who cares. I would just keep our banks separate and we both split all costs directly in half, at least at the beginning. That way we don't have annoyances over what we do with our own spendings. I'll just have less money than her to spend on nonsense, which is perfectly fine.

[ThePolishKnight37]

The guess the question is will shew marry making 3 to 4 times less. I would say yes. my ego is not that fragile. she may be way more talented than me and be smarter but she chose me. 😁😁😁😁😁

[Z1pTD]

Hopefully I would be making enough that my wife wouldn’t have to work to have a good life, but how much she makes wouldn’t deter me from marrying her unless I’m just at such a different stage of maturity that she really shouldn’t marry me.

[Z1pTD]

When I say different stage of maturity I mean if she’s so much more matured than I am that I would bring her down. I would be fine someone who isn’t as mature as me though.

[Lionman95]

Yes as long as I feel she respects me and sees me as a partner. I don´t want to feel used by her.

[Honest-Matt]

Of course, financial and social success is amazingly attractive.

[Leavesbound]

If she would have me, YES! My unlikely fantasy is to be a kept house husband owned by a gorgeous woman who has 100 times my earning potential. PS I'm a really good cook (professional sous chef).

[Vietnemin]

The amount of money I make doesn't matter to me past a certain point so I wouldn't mind.

[monkeynutts]

Hell yeah, if she wants to be with me, if I love her I would be glad that she is successful, and rewarded with a salary that she deserves.

[OutWestBandit]

A high likelihood you will lose respect for him in most situations.

[Arumin_Ian]

Unless she is looking down on me for that, I see no reason why not

[zagor]

I have no problem with that. That would be a pretty good income.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope sne i won't marry a girl who wants to work after marriage

[Guanfei]

Yeah, I don't care, as long as she doesn't brag about it, or belittle me because of it

[Cowboy6666]

Yes I would if she isn't arrogant/too much proud/show off about it

[AydenHazor]

Absolutely, I don't but into the patriarchal bs about the man being the breadwinner. If my so is more successful than me I will support her wholeheartedly in her ventures

[Luckycharms12]

Yes money doesn't matter to me all about the person

[jamesgoldman]

So actual minimum wage?
10x maybe would be more in keeping

[Adam_West]

If she has done it 3-4 times, a certain standard has been formed. What if I can't compensate that standard since I've never done it?

[bamesjond0069]

No unless she still has time to do the cooking and cleaning and isn't to stressed out to have sex all the time.

[AFellowWeeb]

The real question is, would a rich woman date a non-rich man?

[MCheetah]

Very unlikely.

[Mangospacho]

Like if I make $10,000/year and she makes $40,000/year? Yeah I think I could make it work.

[Hadesheim]

Yes, I don't necesarly want to work I can just write poetry and other things related to imagination :P

[Randalama]

Of course. How the hell else am I going to stay home and get liquored all day?

[Lliam]

Sure. I have no issues with that at all.

[Astarlessnightsky]

If she has a good personality and so on.