There's no such thing as friends with benefits underneath it all a person is having sex to survive, they will take other party anyway possible, or is the other person's narcissistic supply.
Why is it called friends with benefits? i feel like real friends are people you have feelings for but no sexual/romantic attraction, so if you add sexual attraction to a best friend, then how is that not a relationship at that point?
You can be friend with benefits after a romantic relationship, practically if feelings already died. Otherwise is "friends with benefits" not really a situation where someone with common sense and ability to thinking ahead can catch feelings.
@SashaAMB Could be any number of things. But most girls in general aren't down for a Friends With Benefits situation to begin with. I've never had one, but most of my male friends have. And I dunno; if she's genuinely a friend AND you get to have sex with her, that's basically 75% to "love" for a guy, right there. All we pretty much want is a hot girl we get to sleep with, who's also a good friend and Mario Kart partner.
@Mcheetah I agree with everything you said here, with the exception of it being mostly the guys that catch feelings. Like you, I've never been in an friends with benefits either, but most guys I know have. Maybe it truly is a mixed bag... interesting to look at nonetheless. @SashaAMB
@SashaAMB I looked for a that opinion you referred to, maybe it was deleted? I'm sure some guys catch feelings in friends with benefits, but it definitely not the majority. I'm not using scientific data of course, just personal experience. I also believe most fwbs are the guy's idea, and the girl ends up going along with it because she thinks she can get the upgrade by fucking him enough.
I have to much trouble understanding human emotions as it is. I could never have a friends with benefits agreement. If you are having sex with them, then you should love them too, in my opinion.
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Not always.
High risk factor of developing feelings. It's playing with fire. just like with just friends.
There's no such thing as friends with benefits underneath it all a person is having sex to survive, they will take other party anyway possible, or is the other person's narcissistic supply.
I think that it's true. Love results sex and sex results love.
Why is it called friends with benefits? i feel like real friends are people you have feelings for but no sexual/romantic attraction, so if you add sexual attraction to a best friend, then how is that not a relationship at that point?
I would say false
It probably is false but always seems that one or the other will be catching those feelings or catch something else Ha
More like catch something else is right.. having multiple fuck buddies (they're hardly ever REALLY friends) is a walking STD waiting to happen
🤣🤣🤣 yes exactly
You can be friend with benefits after a romantic relationship, practically if feelings already died. Otherwise is "friends with benefits" not really a situation where someone with common sense and ability to thinking ahead can catch feelings.
Yes some do, but you have to be strong in that department
It's uncommon for people not to catch feelings, but it can happen
its not 'always', yes there is an chance but not always
My mind crashed decoding your username lol please tell me what it is or it's meaninv
@Aakash_Hangargi it means "AYO MANS' SUS"
sus means suspicous by the way
What does AYO Mans mean?
Well I don't know how often that happens, but I do know that can happen.
it doesn't lead to feelings. it just leads to attachment.
It is false, but I wasn't one of them. I ended up catching feelings for mine.
Definitely true. And about 60% of the time, it's the guy.
Really? Interesting.
What makes you say that? im not disagreeing, I’m just curious.
@SashaAMB
Girls fall in love quicker. Guys fall in love harder and deeper, and with less effort involved.
What makes a guy fall in love quickly and deeply in a friends with benefits situation? The closeness? Her trust? Your perspective is intriguing.
@SashaAMB
Could be any number of things. But most girls in general aren't down for a Friends With Benefits situation to begin with. I've never had one, but most of my male friends have. And I dunno; if she's genuinely a friend AND you get to have sex with her, that's basically 75% to "love" for a guy, right there. All we pretty much want is a hot girl we get to sleep with, who's also a good friend and Mario Kart partner.
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I agree with everything you said here, with the exception of it being mostly the guys that catch feelings. Like you, I've never been in an friends with benefits either, but most guys I know have. Maybe it truly is a mixed bag... interesting to look at nonetheless.
@SashaAMB
With the very rare exception YES. Overwhelmingly it's 9/10 it's the women.
What makes you say that? I’m curious because a guy above said 60/40 dudes.
@SashaAMB
I looked for a that opinion you referred to, maybe it was deleted? I'm sure some guys catch feelings in friends with benefits, but it definitely not the majority. I'm not using scientific data of course, just personal experience. I also believe most fwbs are the guy's idea, and the girl ends up going along with it because she thinks she can get the upgrade by fucking him enough.
Any time you use words like "always" I'm going to say false, but usually someone catches feelings, yes. Lol.
I have to much trouble understanding human emotions as it is. I could never have a friends with benefits agreement. If you are having sex with them, then you should love them too, in my opinion.
It doesn;t happen all the time but I bet it happens a lot.
I think true from oxytocin or pheromones...
And not to mention if the sex is good that doesn't help in the "NOT catching feelings department."
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In all the cases I know of, it always has happened.
False - I have first hand experience.