You are both really to blame for this situation. You have no right to tell her who her friends should be, and then she had no right to deceive you (although technically she never lied to you. She told you she would block him and she did. She would have had to to unblock him.)
I have no idea of your age but I can tell you something. If you want her to start respecting you? Do the grown up thing and learn to play along with his insults, and treat them as a joke. Learn some great comebacks. Who knows you could even gain a friend instead of losing a g/f
That's how I would go about it anyway.
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Wow... you are worried about a guy from another state... paranoid much?
Dude, she clearly doesn't respect you. And without respect there is no relationship.
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First off, she should have told him off and blocked him all on her own when he started being a piece of s*** towards you, so the fact that she didn't is alarming in of itself. And then she goes behind you back and unblocks him and continued to talk to him behind your back? Pal, I think it's time to move on and drop her. Because clearly she does not respect you or your feelings and is only interested in pleasing herself. And if you're worried that ending things is the right thing to do, well talking to someone who frequently disrespects your SO, and on top of that doing so while your SO doesn't like you doing it, is not the right thing to do. So ending things would be the right response to that disrespectful behavior. Drop her dump ass and find you a woman who actually gives a damn about you and your feelings.
Monitor the situation carefully and insist she block him again
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