She only wanted to be married to have a kid of her own. I wanted to be set in let so to speak...
Divorced now, threw myslef into work and self employment... now my life is set- i prolly would have wanted another daughter since i had to fight so much for the first o ne... and she could have now been a stay at home mom if she wanted...
instant gratification... we divorced, she meet someone at her church who was a recoving addict... got married, got knocked up, he relapse, stole her $$... cheated... and left her and the kid...
Here is sit, stone cold sober, saving money, and wanting to be a dad...
I've strangely never been rejected on initial food terms, though I got an odd counter rejection when I rejected sex with a girl she said "I'm not the man she thought I was" and why because I didn't jump into bed with her.
Yup exactly. Once they know they can't get sex just like that they go. I have standards and one woman decided to order a bottle of wine on a 1st date and I raised my eyes at that but said alright, she demanded sex during dinner and on the walk home. I said no. I'm high value. Once they get the response they take it badly and resort to being bitchy. I've had one girl get pushed aside 4-5 times by girls in a gym situation, I enjoyed that moment haha she too had a go at me trying to bring me down. We guys are thought to be the worst with rejections, oh no.
You should also do is look for High quality woman because they do have signs / signals they send off. Also if she starts testing you and your patience just keep cool and stay true to yourself. Don’t message her every day. Message her like 2 to 3 days. And she responds don’t message her back!! Just wait a few days then reply!
That's a good strategy tho I tend to just be natural and reactive to their behaviour. If I get annoyed I will wait until I'm at peace. Every action has a reaction. Otherwise we are seen to be playing games with them. I just go with my feelings.
Go with your gut because your gut will tell you if somethings up. Online there should be like articles talking about signals that high quality woman send off but be aware there a bit harder to catch. I know guys likes there women thin but if she has a little meat if she finds you attractive just talk to her who knows she could be trying to burn all that off. If she’s ssbbw still she’s still human but if she wants to be friends with you then that’s fine but if she wants more you can politely reject her without hurting her feelings and she’ll understand. Just do research on signals and signs from women. There’s also signals and signs from people who playing game. Two more things one don’t be desperate. Two if you get too stressful don’t step back for a couple months and they say the right girl comes when the guy is not looking. Just keep your chin up, behave like a gentleman not a rich guy or a player. Just be yourself!
A guy rejected me for caring about money and status which does not make sense to me cause I don’t think I’m being a jerk for wanting a guy that can provide for our future children or for me if I become unable to do that one day and of course a guy that gets good grades is more attractive than a guy that’s failing his classes, also a straight A student is hard working which is a character quality and not just an intellectual one. Another guy rejected me because he was not allowed to date people he met through work and he was worried I would get him fired if we dated and broke up one day.
Financial talks is a huge turn off to someone people and he probably thought money only matters to you then romance love he wanted or he just wasn’t the right guy. What’s even harder that ladies don’t handle rejections to well then the guys. Me I been rejected possibly over 1,000 times or more. Seriously I’m not joking. Some people don’t find the right person right away until later on.
@jennifer_bloom you may not be one but saying saying things like that will definitely make you come off as one especially to someone who could care less about your status and genuinely cared about less materialistic ideals.
Guys usually tell me that I’m “too nice” or “too sweet.” I honestly don’t know what they mean by that. I think they think I fake it or something lmao, but I’m myself around them
Kid gave me a $30 necklace as a "break up gift" so he could pursue my friend (who had texted me to rescue her from the bathroom, where she's been hiding from him all evening).
He and I never dated. Ever.
He somehow got it into his head during a three day school trip that we were together, followed me around within an inch of me, and repeatedly described awkward 14-yo me as "the goddess of all women" MULTIPLE TIMES to his teacher - who happened to be my cousin (which is why he told her about his infatuation with me).
We never dated. I hardly spoke to him. I still got a rejection necklace. I threw it in the trash. He had given my friend the exact same one as an "interest gift".
After being directly told multiple times that she was having fun, wanted to casually date me and that she wanted things to move forward; I was assured that she never gave me any impression she wanted to date me, and that she was sure I was using her for sex and that she was "sorry for wasting my time."
We hadn't even had sex... That was hands down, the strangest rejection I've ever gotten. I lost a long term friendship/acquaintanceship when she blocked me, which was a real shame. I thought she was a cool girl and that we were a good match, but clearly the communication wasn't working too well.
@midnightmoon05 Oh it wasn't hard to move on, trust me. I didn't get the vibe that she met someone else, but there was definitely something going on there that she wasn't telling me. I just felt like I dodged a major bullet with her.
One time I was looking at a girl in the gym like sneaking a peek and I caught her looking at me too. I wasn’t gonna say anything obviously but she proceeded to walk up to me take out her own earphones to talk to me. She got my Snapchat and then says “but I have a boyfriend so just friends”.
I met a girl at a bar that was flirting with me and we were talking and I had to drive my friend home. So I left and drove him home and went back to the bar. I found the girl again and I asked her for her number and asked if I could call her sometime and she looked at me and said ":I wish you wouldn't."
This weirdo chick said yes to me asking her out for a date then she says to text her so i do and she just ignores me, so after that i quit talking to her and then she pretends she never got the text and i still quit speaking to her cause fuck her lol ain't no chick blow me off
😎 I think if the food was good enough. I like pistachios so I might eat those out of your hand. As far as jumping high goes, that would help if I played basketball. You could coach me perhaps? 😎
I can hit pretty hard, discipline is what you lack. What I could or could not do is my decision alone. Your input is dependent on what I choose to listen to
The oddest rejection I ever got, I didn’t even realize I was rejected until much later. I met this woman for an after dinner coffee. Typical small talk and, we parted ways she said thanks for the coffee.
A few days or so later I sent her a message saying it was nice meeting up with you. She quickly responded saying she wasn’t interested in me. Oh ok.. I didn’t realize that was a date or, she wanted to date. I just wanted to have coffee and conversation 😂
A girl looked at me and said she and I are not in the same class. Well I laughed. I knew what she meant too. I was and still am someone who has superiority complex and hence didn't feel bad in any way.
A girl I worked with told me I was too old for her - and I had expressed no interest in her whatsoever, and had none other than as a colleague. It was while on a business trip. And I was just 6 years older.
Not really all that weird but I got ghosted super hard once, after dating this chick for two years of high school. Turns out she was a lesbian, then I took a shot at her best friend and accidentally rejected sex from that one because I was such a moron and instead of going to bed with this chick, who's dorm I was already in at 3am, I walked home across campus like a chump. So within a year I was ghosted then accidentally rejected a chick in a crazy weird way.
Back in 2018 when I first started working at my job I kinda met this girl that was already working there (for awhile the only thing that I knew about her was her name and that she works there) we’ve worked together for like a year. I guess she found out that I liked her so one day before she quit she told me not to ask her out… I never even made an attempt to ever ask her out. It was embarrassing and weird
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