Is being a side chick ever a good idea? (Page 2)

Question

There’s this guy at work who likes me but he’s in a serious relationship with his girlfriend who also works the same shift as us and at the same place. So one day I was heading to the back to go get something and he wanted to kiss me even though his girlfriend was working with us that day also be she was doing something on the other side of the building. Then there’s this one time I was was working on something in the back and he was behind me leaning against a table and out of the corner of my eye I caught him checking me out and his girlfriend was either working on something at the front of the building or working on something on the other side of the building.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

This question is why reasonable men aren’t dealing with most women and the men that do deal with you use you like a semi sentient flashlight and disappear.

polishmenow · Answer

I can relate there’s a guy who has a girlfriend blowing my phone up now.. he says he’s not happy but I’m just turned off to the fact he’s a liar 🤥 my vagina is too precious for him is the way I see it

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Why don't you put yourself in his girlfriend's position?

RasberrySlushPuppy · Answer

When you get caught they'll conspire to get you sacked.

SynthKobra · Answer

The big problem here is all three of you work together so there is basically 99 percent likelihood that shit will hit the fan at some point

SomeTrashBag · Answer

No it's never a good idea. Tell his girlfriend. She deserves to know what kind of shithead she's fucking with.

SilverRain92 · Answer

It's a very bad idea. Find a single guy whom you would be attracted to, there are plenty of them

exitseven · Answer

Being the side chick might be okay sometimes but this will not end well.

007kingifrit · Answer

maybe she's a cuckquean. a girl that likes her man to enjoy other women. why else would he do it like literally infront of her

OddBeMe · Answer

Don’t think side chicks get much of the benefits. Best case, he leaves his wife for you. But he’s already cheated once…

Nikki_02 · Answer

If your into sharing and believe that’s what deserve. And able to handle the consequences. When they come.

Anonymous · Answer

never go alert the girl or just mind your own business if you don't want to be involved in drama

dolemite89 · Answer

if ur in your early 20s and not looking for a relationships and just have a fuck buddy u hang out with sometimes, it’s not ur fault if he has a girlfriend that’s all on him 🤷‍♂️

Wise4myage · Answer

I don't see how that could ever be a good idea. And why would you want to demean yourself like that?

CantGetItUp · Answer

No, why hurt people just for pleasure. Plenty of single horny guys that want you.

Feelicks · Answer

Sure it's fine if all parties involved are cool with it.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I don't know quite what that means, but I am assuming that it's a good thing in that Girls look after Girls on nights out.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

If you can deal with the drama and jealousy😕😟😟!!! It sounds ok but turns crazy and even violent too easy

dragoblack · Answer

Never, unless it's a poly relationship and both women know and are fine with the situation

IncognitoBandito · Answer

As long as you're realistic about what you're getting out of it.

Anonymous · Answer

Betta have fluid bonding rules and who wears the condom?

Anonymous · Answer

If you're looking for sex without commitment, then I would think this arrangement could work well for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. This the the reality of the world. you're destined to be his sidechick because you're repulsed by loads of what you call incels. There isn't someone for everyone.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Ues. All women should spend some time as a side chick. YOLO.

Anonymous · Answer

You mean being a cuck for dating manwhore aka cheater?

Ricottasam · Answer

It completely depends on the communication and is everyone on the same page

emilym12345 · Answer

You will always be second best to his girl

Anonymous · Answer

How would you feel if a dude you loved had another female because you weren’t good enough?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes good idea. You must be a side chick right away. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Anonymous · Answer

Yes its always a good idea if the guy wants a side chick

boggboss · Answer

How would it be a good idea lol

Flower7 · Answer

No, it's 100% always a waste of time.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

This is NOT a good idea

Anonymous · Answer

Nope that guy is a loser

backblueblack22 · Answer

If he will cheat on her he will cheat on you.

JennBITx · Answer

That always gets messy

mobiusforniner · Answer

he's doing this at work? Should can his ass.

Diablopawn · Answer

Never date people at work.

RubesSnoobs · Answer

No. Its not a good idea.

sheikalana · Answer

Is never a good idea in my opinion.

jimmy2 · Answer

Dont do it. It will end bad

Sabretooth · Answer

if you have no respect for yourself or for her.

Babygirl_S · Answer

No self-respecting woman would do that.

ToastyOats · Answer

Are you practicing to be a home wrecker?

Anonymous · Answer

Don't be a hoe you hoe

MountAverage · Answer

How would that be a good idea?

otaku_owl_91 · Answer

Ladies, if he's a millionaire, yes.

888theGreat · Answer

he wants sex , that is all

anylolone · Answer

Nope, being side chick/dick is a very bad idea.

fred_durst · Answer

if his girlfriend doesn't mind , it is okay

Anonymous · Answer

Nah the side chick gonna get lonely..

Vivaldi · Answer

How can I be a side chick?

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

I think you know, and you just don't like it

Wetfet · Answer

I think thats just possible drama you dont need.

karaspara · Answer

No absolutely not

SEBZER · Answer

no. respect yourself

proNutro · Answer

Use your brain…

Hardme69 · Answer

Just be a side chick and enjoy it

Pterodon · Answer

Never

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No it isn't

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