Is being a side chick ever a good idea? (Page 2)
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never and will never end well. even if he would leave her do you really think he would ever be faithful to you? dont get caught up in the drama my girl, there is someone better out there for you
Its absolutely fine , not all is black / white , in basis you get the great sex , no responsibility , your young , enjoy your life , dont listen to the naysayers , take it , enjoy the benefits and the ultimate feeling , of being " the other woman " , its exciting , its doesn't have to be dramatic rubbish as others have said , this is the utter essence of life , variety is the spice of life , enjoy it.
Your a horrible person...
Some people dislike reality , and honesty. She knows the circumstance , and asked the question?
I answered honestly , not just the Status Quo bs
Telling someone it's fine to destroy someone else... no one deserves to be cheated on... that is fucked up
Its not destruction its reality , the concept of " life " is ludicrous , she's asking the question because its her issue , her thought , its not me , Im just telling her the truth. You know the percentages on this stuff? Im not inviting her over , just calling it like it is.
The OP will obviously decide for herself , plenty of women in this circumstance , and men of course. Life is never black / white , its many shades of Grey.
She isn’t just the other woman. She’s probably one of many other women. I have never known someone to cheat with only one person.. unless that’s all they can get. Lol.
@Explorer91
Who cares? How much time you think this guy has? Its a free country , she asked a question received an honest answer.
It is never a good idea to be in a love triangle. There have been too many cases where the side-chick gets murdered, usually after regular girlfriend finds out and "requires" the boyfriend to murder the side-chick as proof-of-love. One such case happened close to where I was living; burned her body at a church parking lot in the middle of the night. They caught the two idiots who did it. Victim was Katie Ann Brunelle, murdered on Dec 22, 2007. Its a bad idea to be a side-chick.
If it were me, I wouldn't want to play somebody's second best. Even if he broke up with his girlfriend, I still wouldn't bite. A snake can shed its skin but in the end its just a bigger snake. But maybe that's just me.
Only if you're okay with being 'second-fiddle', and if she finds out she's liable to beat your ass. And the fact that he's a cheating loser of a jerk, and just wants to fuck the both of you.
Otherwise, being informed is being armed, I guess. Good luck.
On the other hand, why don't you find a really great guy that isn't already hitched to someone? You can't? Or you won't? I find your choices to be in poor taste, ill-informed, naive, and just plain dumb.
Do you want just a sex with him?
If yes, it's shitty thing to do, but If I were concerned only about myself, I would go for it..
So you want serious relationship with him?
With someone who flirts with other girls while in relationship?
No it’s never good to be a side chick, it’s very important that you respect your self. It’s a waste of time, this dude is living his best life with two women and you don’t want that. While you suffer in envy and the other woman doesn’t know she’s dating a cheater and that the man doesn’t have all her interest
No, and being the side chick knowingly would make you a piece of shit. Avoid him.
He doesn't like you. He's most likely been doing this with multiple women throughout their relationship, and you seem desperate enough to want the attention. Learn to respect yourself.
He just wants someone to boost his ego on the side, if he didn't want his girlfriend he wouldn't be with her. He wants her, he has future plans with her if theyre serious. He would never leave her for a girl that has no standards, who is perfectly fine to be a side chick.
Shouldn't help a cheater cheat. Not saying you are but it might go in that direction. I'd never do that in a relationship, it's disloyal and disrespectful to your woman.
Absolutely not under any circumstances is it a good idea.
1. No it isn't
2. Both you & him are assholes for considering this
3. You should tell her about this so she can find someone who is REALLY going to love her
4. Find your OWN man
All very valid points 🙌
Its never a good idea.
you're choosing to be 2nd
You want to be 2nd to his everything.
You will never be first.
It won't end well.
Sorry but you're just as dirty as he is.
Karma will bite you in the ass.
Being the number two for a short time span just to become number one is acceptable, but if it last for too long you will be degraded to being useful. For a guy is this acceptable because you get what you want from such sidekick relationships without any accountability, but time isn't girls friend and the risk is very high you land permanently on the sidetrack.
It can be fun as long as you don't put any real value in it other than sex and the excitement of it. It turns me on knowing he was turned on and chose to have fun with me over his girlfriend. It's the ultimate compliment.
That's gross... karma has all sorts of surprises for your type
No karma complication here. She knew about it. She liked getting cucked by him. Lots of people enjoy getting cucked.
if you can emotionally handle it then yes, otherwise no
Sad how many people forget the world LOYALTY
No, unless you like that he only use you when main girl is occupied, with something else...
He will only use you for short bedroom fun at the best.
In the end you will lose both of them, as she will eventually find out about it and will hate you and he will hate you for letting her know...
Bad very bad
Don’t wanna be someone’s second lol
Why is their downvote for this by a man huh 🤔
If you wanna be nasty left overs go for it. But hey would you want your man to have a side chick if it was serious? And if you guys want each other then tell him to dump Her. The poor girl.
Surprised to see a woman wanting to screw over another woman. What happen to women having each others backs? Is being a whore with a guy who doesn't even respect you more important than being a good person with dignity?
Imagine working with your long term partner and another employee while they kiss when you turn your back. How disrespectful can you get. People like OP normally don't find good partners or good stable relationships. They don't deserve it either