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How is your online dating experience? How hard is it for you to get dates when you use online dating apps? (Page 2)
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The only matches I got were scambots. Considering that I was actually pretty good at identifying scambots when I was using dating apps, the dating app scambots outsmarted me, but I figured out just in time to protect myself from the scams. Still, it was an excruciatingly heartbreaking realization that I was completely undesirable to attractive women regardless of my efforts to be attractive to them.
I get like one match a month at best and basically no date invites (i gotta do the inviting or nothing happens). Average for a man, i guess. It's still sort of not that hard to get a date but most of the dates are just one date and then never see them again.
I was like you.. when I found one that was what I wanted I told the rest I think I have found what I am looking for so I didn't waste their time.
Never been single during the rise of the apps.
Heard it's pretty crazy sometimes but nothing too bad, around here.
I do get approached by women when i'm out of the house and not hiding, so i don't think i would feel the need to set up a resume.
I've used them before and I have met people using them but I don't think I will ever bother with them again. There's way too many people spending their entire life on them trying to scam people. I have even had someone try on this site. It's so annoying but I found a way to stop them before they get started.
Much easier to get dates in person. Almost everyone that I match with online I would never even consider dating. Extremely overweight, transexual or much older. I continue with it as a curiosity only. In real life I can get numbers from women years younger and in my same shape and intelligence. Pretty sure dating apps are strictly for women to scrounge for big cocks, threeways, and to cheat. Prove me wrong!
i have always had a hard time online dating, i have not had much luck meeting anyone online, i was close once but we had planned to meet in person and such but i never heard back from her for some reason. im not sure why. its hard for me since i have a hard time trusting anyone online too.
1. Self-inflicted depression and misery.
2. Impossible.
3. Zero per year.
4. Men don't have to worry about keeping up with zero matches and zero dates a year.
I'm:
under 6 feet,
not top earner,
not pretty face,
have 0 to inherit or already inherited.
have to live with my ill parents in my late 30s
So all first stuff women looking for is through the window, how good do you think my chances could be in western world?
When I was using a dating site, I would get someone messaging me maybe once every 3-4 weeks. When I sent out messages I would get a response maybe one in fifty times, and 3/4 of those were polite rejections.
I actually had good luck! Met my boyfriend on OKC 1.5 years ago and we've been inseparable ever since. I fully recognize that I was one of the lucky ones though, and I did comb through a lot of the noise and drama before I met him.
I get a few matches but not all of them actually message or reply to messages. Dates don't really happen as the conversation doesn't lead to that or I get ghosted. Not a huge fan of online dating but haven't got many options where I live.
My case is diff
*After texting for a week or a month*
Him : hey, I have a confession. I think I like you.
Me be like : This is the part when I say I don't want ya 🎶
It is not difficult to get dates. It is difficult for me to get follow up dates though. Guys always seem to flake after a few dates when they find out I have sexual issues
I hate to assume. But what might your "sexual issues" be? And why do dudes split once they learn of them?
Im gonna guess that you dont use sex as an ice breaker. That tends to make a guys interest evaporate.
Vaginismus. Painful penetration
Miss Morgan, i get that u are all of 23 years old (according to the stats on your page). And at 23, i too was dipped in steel and wore a cape. Meaning that i was a tough sum bitch and was gonna live forever. But we live in a time of remarkable medical technology. Id be willing to bet that there is some sort of... acute, targeted, i dunno... topical cream or lotion that would help relax your vaginal muscles. If it were mine, id avoid any kind of muscle relaxer that is taken daily. Not unless you own stock in kotex. And lube. Well, as long as you aren't allergic or sensitive to some sort of water based lubrication, id look in to getting a 55 gallon drum to keep beside the bed like a night stand. Haha!
All kidding aside, have you looked into some sort of topical agent to be used in an acute fashion?
Hard to get dates with people I'm actually interested in. If I swiped right on everything it'd be easy.
Pretty difficult honestly.
Calling bullshit on that one.
I guess not hard if I lowered my standards. But who wants to date trash?
Trash? Girl look at yourself
Exactly, I'm beautiful and deserve someone who will treat me well. Thank you.
Typical trash response lmao
I'm sorry your life sucks but there's no need to take out your distaste for yourself on others 😊
@Smashingdoozy You have a Nirvana poster, That already sets the bar through the ground. you're practically a clone. Literally every grunge band that came after Nirvana, was better than Nirvana. The 90's had way better music from obscure bands, Like Kyuss or Primus.
Woah you saw one poster out of the hundreds on my wall and judged me based off that? No wonder you have a hard time finding a date 🤣
I stand corrected, you have two band posters of the most ubiquitous bands of the last 50 years. So with a Pink Floyd and Nirvana posters in full display you have cemented your position as Queen of the Generic "Not like Other Girls" Girls. Gotta have standards, Right?
Case and point. You judge someone based of their music taste (of frankly two of the best bands of all time). No wonder you struggle to get a date with that judgmental attitude.
I would not conflate "Safe" with "Best". Ones tastes paints a picture of their personality. And your picture seems painfully mediocre. I've given up on Online dating due to how hideously boring most people are these days.
Ah yes, so I'd only be interesting if I liked exactly the same music as you? (Again you're basing this off 2 posters not by actually getting to know me)
Wrong again, you still wouldn't be interesting. Seriously, you're a carbon copy of every other Instagram "Alternative Girl". Neon Hair, the Tats, and the sense of Smug self superiority. I have literally seen 82 thousand women exactly like you.
🎶Like I give a shit 🎶
You’re the “I’m different and quirky” meme girl
Hope you like boxed wine or guys named Steve that Drive KIA's. It feels so good to know I hit a nerve.
😬 oh how wrong you have assumed 🤣 @chrismaster69 imagine if I drunk box wine 🤢
God help me if you think anybody that Drives a Kia is a respectable human being.
Lol imagine being such a shallow human being that the type of car someone drives, the type of music they listen to and type of alcohol they drink all factor in to how you treat them. Again I'm not surprised that you have trouble getting a date, you're only making yourself more undesirable. 😊 And before you go making a comment about how undesirable I am, don't bother I've heard it all before and I still get dates x
Welcome to reality, not of people have that much depth. You should be elated that so many men will settle for such a debauched specimen of mediocrity. Now we are back to the original point, you can easily get dates but you prefer to play up your value. After all "you're not like the other girls" much like the millions of other women who brand themselves as such.
Most Kia drivers are absolute cretins that know they drive a pot metal shit box of a car, this is an undisputed fact.
👀🍿
On a serious note, I totally agree with Smashingdoozy here. Tinder is garbage for relationship material and the only time it worked for me is when I went for just hookups.
So what you are saying is you wouldn't date me? Which circles back to my whole point of not wanting to date people who are in my opinion trash. So you can have standards but I can't? What a joke.
@pheebeeluv Go fuck yourself. Leave her alone.
@Jamie05rhs shut the fuck up Jamie. She’s not going to have sex with you
@pheebeeluv Wow. Assuming much?
It's all these people do 🤣 assumption after assumption.
i wouldn't date you because your a blatant hypocrite who would call the cops if a man Who drives anything less than a Mazda says hi to you. Seems like you called in your Simps to back you up.
More assumptions. Please keep going 🙄
Is it wrong though? "Exactly, I'm beautiful and deserve someone who will treat me well.", A direct quote, from you.
If it isn't Chad in a Jag, call the Boys in Blue to put him in a body bag, right?
Secondly, I don't assume anything, I predict, and my predictions are unerringly accurate.
I guess you don't understand satire...
They're unbelievably inaccurate in this case.
Your defensive replies say otherwise.
@Ryfyle what’s your problem? She simply expressed her opinion about online dating and setting standards (which I think is so important and I completely support her in doing that), and you just attacked her for no reason (her music taste?) honestly you need some help..
Again you are assuming I'm being defensive. I'm actually just laughing at you. I have nothing to be defensive over because you aren't even close to right.
Omg please ignore all these creeps, they need some professional help
@asker don't worry none of this is bothersome to me, any time he replies I chuckle to myself 😊
@Smashingdoozy Jesus christ you must have an awesome Private Onlyfans.
@Asker Creep would imply actual interest in Miss Hot Topic 2007. I take it you actually have a penis, and cannot resist white knighting
Yeah I do, probably make more money from my bed in a day than you do in a week 🥴🤪
@Ryfyle dude you are just pathetic. Get a life.
😂 wow so pathetic.
@Ryfyle I am not her simp, and she did not call me in. I'm here of my own volition.
@Smashingdoozy Considering the legion of simps that Rushed to you aid, I buy that. Would it kill you to get an actual guitar stand? Probably less than 20$ or free if you can get your white knights to buy one for you. All that money and you still live in some rat nest with the most generic band posters lazily smeared on your walls, you must do some Dubai grade debauched shit to get this level of support.
@Asker penis confirmed
@Jamie05rhs Simp Spotted.
You're still going with the assumptions? My goodness.
Also still unable to tell when someone is being satirical.
@Ryfyle your pfp is linked to a shitty fan meme page. Shut the fuck up dweeb.
I must say this thread has been a brilliant read.
It’s kept quite a few of us entertained over last few days.
In between Swedish Chef duties it’s been a laugh.
Its amazing how some blokes do not realise when they have been handed their arse.
It’s been a classic case of failure, as a guy it’s embarrassing when this happens.
@PrettyPriya @SecretsofKB this is the guy we were laughing at the other day, he’s definitely been brilliant to laugh at.
He is definitely a guy the Swedish Chef will love…
@Aimée__LJ And who the fuck are you? I don't recall asking for any comments from any FAS Faced pity models.
@Smashingdoozy Your attempt at "Satire" was painfully boring and a pretty blatant excuse to save face.
You're still talking? Go give your mom a hug for me. Must be disappointed with how disrespectful you turned out.
The only disrespect here is resting that Fender on that embankment of garbage.
Assuming that's where it is permanently
Hopefully it in a case, right?
Cases are for transporting... It has a stand.
Better than nothing. One could argue the cases are better for long term Storage.
Sure but they are being used daily so kinda pointless.
Indeed. If you don't already know, sunlight fucks up plastics and any kind of varnish, but that doesn't seem like a problem you would run into.
Well have fun on your musical hobby, off to start shit elsewhere seeing as how this thread ran out of steam.
Lucky my room only gets evening sun ✌🏻
I dont use them but a girlfriend of mine used tinder and has had shitty luck then again she's very dominating so I think she scares men away. Now my guy friend is on bumble. He's had luck meeting women but the women he meets aren't mentally stable
Women using 20 year old pictures, still living with ex boyfriend, for “ financial reasons” ( uh huh), stupid elf ear and chipmunk glasses filters on pics. No thanks.
The hardest thing is to match with anyone relatively close to you. And then there is the texting, which depends on the girl... And the dating itself depends on how well you got through texting.
Extremely hard... I've had tinder for over 7 months and Still haven't gotten a date
7 months. Bud I've tried using dating apps since I was your age to now. I've had maybe 3 dates at most (I can't even remember because there was no chemistry and they weren't memorable). Dating sites are garbage for guys.