Do men like when women ask them out?

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FraITA92 · Accepted Answer

I only date those who ask me out/show some initiative (asking the number, making "the first move", if there needs to be one, because in my opinion with a direct look in the eyes and a smile it's natural to start talking afterwards =) ).
All the other women have the same worth of shit to me, because they want equality only when it benefits them, that's hypocrite and I don't want anything to do with them.
When I was young and stupid I used to believe in equality and listen to women. Then I saw them showing a false interest in me, then saying "I have a boyfriend", in other words just to feel desired they played with me. Then I heard many of them saying "men are pigs/only have one thing in mind" and I felt ashamed, so I was afraid of showing my sexuality/sexual interest, which as a man is instead required,, otherwise you are perceived as a loser by men and a kid by women.
I was around 24 (yes...) when I started dating through the apps (I had very few occasions to know women through my social life) and most girls just disappeared after few messages (how could they understand how I was in 3 messages? XD ), and once I went with one who said "women have to pretend to be uninterested", that's when I realised that I should not trust them, for years I thought I was unattractive because no girl ever seemed to notice me, but it was only mind Tricks of crazy girls who pretended not to be interested..
If only one had showed me that I was wrong!

Clarke498 · Accepted Answer

Society has changed from the traditional values, and are going away from it, which has changed todays newer generations. Women want more freedom and power (rightfully so) and that has lead to men seeing them more as equals, and therefore expect them to ask us out, just as the other way around.

... That's my theory.

Jake99999 · Answer

When I was single, I loved it when a woman asked me out. Why not? It’s very flattering - and I like women who are confident and not afraid to take a risk.

MrCommodore · Answer

Yes, if there is a connection already established through flirting or something, it definitely makes it easier if the woman asks or makes it easier for him to ask.

Thatoneguy5526 · Answer

It shows they want something with you and it relieves a lot of needless societal pressure put on guys to be the ones to constantly make the first move

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly it would be nice actually. I have a lot of anxiety issues and that. Having a woman ask me out would be a nice change from me struggling to even talk to them.

I may not be able to understand why but I think I could agree to go out with them if I liked I guess the first impression and was attracted to them.

TheorionMage · Answer

She risked YOU saying 'no'... she's admitted she's intrigued. FOR A CHANGE, the GUY knows WHERE he stands ~

Stevefiveo · Answer

Yeah, I love it. Even if they aren't my type, I'm going to go out with them at least once because I admire their boldness.

exitseven · Answer

I was very shy when I was younger and it would have been helpful if I could have been given a little push to go out with somebody.

humanearth · Answer

I like it. My wife ask me out the 1st time we meet. That was 30 years ago

K-I-S-S · Answer

As you can see from the poll.  Nothing to worry about women. You would probably make the guys week, even if you aren't very good looking but do take care of yourself a little bit.

godfatherfan · Answer

It is always hotter when the woman makes the first move.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yes it’s just something that happens. it’s normal.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Absolutely. I don’t know why so many people think it’s taboo.

Anonymous · Answer

But this is America chances of that happening is like 100,000 to 1.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I like when a woman or girl ask me to hang out

moviedude714 · Answer

If I'm attracted to her then absolutely yes but unfortunately it has always been and probably always will be extremely rare

Dude_777 · Answer

Obviously, it happens a lot. It makes me feel special because they are very picky about asking out guys. But they should rather assess guy's interest and smart work first and not just ask out blindly.

Anonymous · Answer

Almost every guy wants women to ask them out. There are a tiny handful of Neanderthals who don't, but they are a tiny minority, I would say about 1%.

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. I don't see why women would think guys DON'T like that...

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t know or care. It’s whatever, they’re shouldn’t be ruled to it. If you want to ask a guy out go for it. There’s actually no rules it’s all in your head.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Yes I like it. Shows she has confidence.

Iron_Man · Answer

Its something new that I would like to experience which I have But It kind of took me back

MTC29 · Answer

Certainly, although it seldom happens.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. Do you like it when someone tells you you're attractive?

Chthou95 · Answer

Why wouldn't we? Ita very unlikely but i wouldn't be complaining if it did

SynthKobra · Answer

Yea, makes my life a hell of a lot easier.

Avicenna · Answer

I do, unless she's got bad hygiene, a foul mouth or has substance abuse or mental health issues.

Anonymous · Answer

How many good guy asked you out back in your 20s?

Adam1978 · Answer

It's flattering even if your not interested.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

These days? Yeah it’s nice

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