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Yes it could be nice, if it helps you don´t need to call it a date. You could handle it like a date but not call it that way in asking him out.
My girlfriend asked me on a first date.
caught me off guard as really was not expecting it and dug myself a bit of a whole lol.
For our first date it was sort of a picnic and overnight watch sunset n sunrise thing
I would feel like I'm about to tap that ass with minimal effort on my part.
Thank you for being honest
Flattered. Happy, if I were attracted. If not I would decline as politely as possible.
I find so fascinating that so many women erroneously believe that showing interest towards a guy is being 'desperate'.
Maybe that is how woman are lead to believe?
Lead to believe it by whom? Besides any guy that is so stupid to dismiss you as 'desperate' is someone you wouldn't want anyway. Right?
@dustybiker
I mean, really? Are you reading the blue user 👤 responses here?
That may be but a lot of women are taught that men. Seek women chase women are hunters and if you’re always available and you do you too much you can be desperate or clingy.
What you are talking about is miles away from girls simply wanting to take the initiative and show interest in a guy. It's apples and oranges. Like I said, MOST guys would welcome it. (as evidenced by the responses here) the ones who wouldn't aren't worth your time.
Have you ever heard of the way you start a relationship sets the tone for the entire relationship.
@justneedtoknow
Sure, but it just as easily could have no impact at all. I'm not sure exactly what you mean by 'set the tone' though. A relationship is so much than the dynamic of how you got together.
*much more
I've asked a guy out before went well
Cool
I asked a guy to a party once. We ended up dating.
@Gwenhwyfar did he play DnD?
@Andres77 this guy did not
What's DnD?
@Tstrbrainer dungeons and dragons
Okay. For a moment I wondered if it was Do Not Disturb 😅
I like dungeons and dragons
Me too!!! But some of the guys I’ve dated weren’t into it.
I would be flattered and if i am single i would definitly go on a date with her and make her feel special
I wish this was more common. I have bad social anxiety and low self-esteem. Id she approached me it would be easier for me I think. As I can barley even write an email to colleagues ar work. And j canr use the Skype IM as it's unprofessional Comms to be and makes me very uncomfortable
I'd love it, as I found it hard to ask anyone out myself... we live in a equal world, or should so it should not be a big deal who asks someone out, man or woman.
I would honestly be happy. It takes a lot of confidence for a woman to do this and a confident woman is a catch in my book
It depends... if she says i like you we should go out some time. Thats cool I im flattered by her interest and ill set something up. But if she says hey do you wanna meet at (insert restaurant) at 3 o’clock for a date. I dont like it. It makes me feel submissive and i dont want her taking control of the relationship.
I would love it!
Guys are not used to that and to know a girl broke the stereotype and made the first move... Just wow!
I've never been asked, but I'd never think "desperate" (I don't know where you women get that from?). To me it show CONFIDENCE, which like you like it in guys, is also attractive to us! Or at least to me it is lol.
It’s not the worst thing in the world. I mean your still the man and should act like a gentleman, It doesn’t matter who was interested first
Personally I’d be good with it. If she was decently attractive and wasn't too dominant or masculine id almost certainly accept.
I would be really honored, the fact that she is brave enough to find me interested I definitely accept it
The last girl who asked me out she went back to her kids baby daddy after I rejected her then she had more kids soon after
It sounds like a good thing. You didn’t want her so
It was bad timing and my grandparents were strict on who I seen at the time. Since they passed away now the family don’t care anymore on who I see now as long I go slow.
I've had it happen a few times. Sometimes I feel so busy in my life that I like it when someone pulls me away for a date and sex.
How would I feel?🤢
Oh no wait, that's just I would feel in general if one asked me out.
If a woman asked me out on a first date I would delighted, honored & take her up on her offer.