Do short women even like short men?

[thatguy9388]

Most women that aren't short aren't usually interested in short men and it seems like short women aren't really interested in short men either. Most women that are short are usually with guys much taller than them and a lot even state they wouldn't want to be with short men so I don't know. I'm 5'4 and about 90% of women under my height are with men 6'0 and up. Even women as short as like 4'9.

[Anonymous]

Any man can compensate for being under 6 feet or under 180 cm by being rich or vastly compensating for it.

Daniel Hernandez did that. He's 5 feet 6 inches and he got a girlfriend (Sara Molina) and 2 daughters from 2 different baby mommas. He physically and sexually assaulted his girlfriend and he even cheated on her and they're still together and she isn't leaving him. Can you believe it? No? See for yourself: https://starsgab.com/tekashi69-or-6ix9ine-daniel-hernandez-biography/#TEKASHI69_Age_Height_Weight

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/6ix9ine#Domestic_violence_and_alleged_sexual_assault

Any man under under 6 feet or under 180 cm who wants a girlfriend must be able to vastly compensate for it. How? That's their quest. Daniel Hernandez became a criminal gangster rapper and a bad boy, that cheats on his girlfriend and he's rich and he got the women. He boasts about it.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/jV1v2Cy1w30

Why shouldn't any man under 6 feet or under 180 cm start now?

[nella965]

if it were so easy to be rich, everyone would be rich. who wants to be poor?

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 you are absolutely right on that one hunny. I say this myself and my personal goal is becoming rich. So i put in the effort to become rich myself. But don't worry, I'm not going to turn into the "rich asshole" stereotype.

I am convinced, that the poor want to be poor. They don't do what the middle class does. You can give one million dollar to 2 people, one will squander it and still end up in debts and the other one will open up a small business or invest the money in order to generate revenue long term.

[nella965]

Do you actually want to date gold diggers, or someone who loves you for who you are?

a woman who is with you for your money, will only dump you when you lose your money.

[nella965]

your best bet is to work on yourself to attracting a woman, not your money. If you need to pay a woman to be your wife, she will only abandon you when you stop paying her.

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 Oh no, I do not intend on attracting gold diggers (i hate gold diggers). I want to be rich because I want to be rich and money makes me happy, not because I want to attract money hungry leeches like Daniel Hernandez does. That means I am working on myself already.
Surely I'd like to have a proper girlfriend, who really loves me. I firmly believe in my abilities and capabilities to make a woman very happy and that is not about the money. I almost wish you could see it :)

[nella965]

Only losers with absolutely nothing to offer would be desperate enough to believe that you can find love simply due to a fat wallet.

[nella965]

I’ve seen lots of guys under 5’10 who are married and with kids. And no they are not rich

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 Correct.
While money is very important, a relationship or marriage for it's convenience is bound to fail on a fundamental level sooner than later. Just like marrying a woman primarily because of her beautiful body and face (and that's where her overall value is limited to).
Point is those guys compensate for it in some way. If it's not the money, then it's something else, that the girls like the man for. Daniel Hernandez for example is a criminal bad boy gangster rapper with an "outstanding" style of his own. Others may not like him to say the least but he's being a butterfly and he gets women at will. Although he sometimes does it with money.
Those other guys impressed women or they treat women like a queen or they make women feel so good and uplifted. It isn't so hard to do but what is hard is attracting such a woman out of somewhere between 10 to 100 uninterested women.

[nella965]

The problem that you’re single is not your shortness. I’ve seen countless 5’4”-5’6” guys date , get married and have kids. The problem is that you lack anything to offer in terms of personality and charisma.

If you lack anything else to offer besides money, the only people you will be attracting would be gold diggers. If you lack personality while you’re poor, you will lack personality while you’re rich. Money really doesn’t change the fact you have nothing to offer.

[nella965]

Nobody falls in love with you because you have money. People can only fall for someone because they find you interesting funny or entertaining.

[Opinion Owner]

@nella965 At this point I am convinced you are not reading my replies and you make silly assumptions prematurely, so I won't bother continuing this dialog.

[nella965]

@Opinion owner

I am reading what you wrote. It’s just that you don’t understand the concept of self improvement

[Novacane]

Of course, they don't, average women don't even want average men. What really confuses me is that there are a lot of people who say that they don't understand what is so good about height, but those same women are the ones that would choose a tall guy over a short guy any day for the simple fact that they are taller.

[oxoxo-lover]

Yes. I would date a short guy. As a fellow short person I think I would be a hypocrite for rejecting a guy just because he is short when I am not tall myself. I have also found some short guys attractive before. I think what made these guys stand out in particular was their attitudes. More recently a year ago, I met a guy at work who was around 5'2-5'3. He was one of the most popular guys there. I didn't pay much attention to him but I found out that all the girls & a guy had a crush on him. It wasn't until then that I noticed how confident, charming, caring & masculine he was. This man was more confident & masculine than a lot of tall men in there. Not to mention he knew how to make people feel special. I think the key is to work on yourself in other areas that make you into a interesting peron.

[oxoxo-lover]

I also want to add that he was also in shape so that helped too.

[wowvrsocool]

And how tall are you and how tall were all the girls there who had crush on him?

[Grubhub]

Do you need a tall guy to reach the things on the top shelf Ma’am?

[βιυεsκγs]

This just goes to show, it’s your mindset that counts, not your height! Guys shouldn’t let their height get in the way of things

[wowvrsocool]

@βιυεsκγs but it's not so easy ro do when you see females your height or even taller when as a male you are supposed/ expected to be taller and bigger and stronger than her

[βιυεsκγs]

It may not be easy, but you have to deal with that. Just like the guy above^

[wowvrsocool]

@βιυεsκγs if a guy is 5'3 don't you think he'll be shorter than almost every female?

[zzombie]

If im being honest, I have NEVER understood the big deal about height. Im 5'3" which is average height for a woman, so I don't know if I have the right to speak on this lol. But i've had crushes on guys who are considered "short". Height isn't a dealbreaker for me, and I get we all have prefrences but I hate that people won't date a person because of something they were born with... like height, penis size, the size of a womans chest & ass. Things like that... it just kinda pisses me off. People are so picky about appearance these days.

[thatguy9388]

It pisses me off too. The smallest women don't even want a guy below 6 feet. I can count 100 or more women shorter than me that I see in a populated city with tall guys

[MrPlentiful]

Its called hypergamy... women aren't monogamous (where a 5/10 girl matches with a 5/10 guy), they are "hypergamous", they match with someone better than themselves 😂 . The worst part is that they will be monogamous with their equal but only for the money and attention.😑🙄

[MrPlentiful]

Bro but just realize short guys can be just as appealing physically they just more miniature. Height doesn't make you more or less attractive it just makes you less dominant. Sadly women love men who are dominant, who can win in a fight. Maybe learn mma

[wowvrsocool]

What's considered short for a man according to you?

[MrPlentiful]

5ft2

[thatguy9388]

@MrPlentiful no women are stupid that they base protection shit off size. They think that a guy weighing 600 lbs 6'0+ that eats doritoes, socially awkward and pretty much a creep is more capable of protection than a guy that isn't tall but has won multiple fights and does MMA or other martial arts for a living. I see all the time women want a tall guy for protection. Little do they know that one shot to the head or other organs can kill you. In the real world, if you don't know how to disarm a gun or knife, you're dead. The whole idea of protection is to protect, but women are stupid to think that short and average guys aren't "big" enough so they can't "scare" guys away. As far as I've seen, it's usually tall guys that are usually the ones that get locked up in prison. So the men women want protection from are the very men that get locked up. Imagine a woman thinking a tall guy is capable of protection and the next thing you know he rapes her or some other crazy shit. Women logic

[MrPlentiful]

I dont know if its for protection that could just be what they say. I've never known women to be practical. Its probably to show that they got something different than everyone else

[pillingsadness]

I think shallow women do sometimes approach tall men, because it makes them feel more feminine by comparison. And some shallow men do approach short women because it make them feel more manly. BUT DO NOT LET THIS WORRY YOU!

The real love that matters isn’t based on shallow things like height or skin color or any of that stuff. Love over rides those things because it is 1000 times more powerful. There are plenty of women out there who will date and are attracted to short men. If you have your eyes set on someone that likes tall guys then let her know that you can meet her need to feel feminine because she is a delicate work of art to you, who is even more beautiful on the inside than out.

[Alwaysconfused36]

I'm 5'7. With that being said, dating a man that's shorter than me has been bound to happen. If he's much shorter than me it is awkward. For me it makes me feel more feminine when my partner is taller than I am but it's never been a deal breaker. I think there's a stereotype now for a lot of the younger generation that a man must tower over a woman. Not true. It's shallow and ridiculous.

[t-8900]

The man is the woman's security blanket from a biological standpoint. Somewhere vin our lizard brains our preprogrammed preferences are input. Women do naturally like a healthy, strong, domineering, provider. Doesn't mean they can't overcome it but they have to be willing to do that.

[Anonymous]

No. Nothing necessitates that. They like the same things all women do. Short guys want women shorter than them, but that leads to the mistaken thinking that the women they want will for some reason be more receptive to them than other guys. Similar problem for women, girls get it in their head that guys like tall girls. So the tall ones are making rationalizing that the smaller range of guys they want will be more receptive.

[Stephanie38]

No. At least not a man that is my height or shorter than me. He has to be taller than me even if its a little bit.

[zzombie]

Why? Is it a dominance thing? You need a man who is taller than you so you can feel inferior or? I'm just trying to understand. :/

[t-8900]

@zzombie remember that conversation we were having. Subconsciously women tend to feel safer and more secure with a taller man. From w biological standpoint it just makes sense. It's a condition that can be broken though. Just like women who want 6 figures. There's different reasons and it's based around biology.

[wowvrsocool]

How tall are you

[Anonymous]

im not tall but not short either i think, all i know is im not looking for a tall guy at all. if we're the same height or he's a just bit taller than me it won't matter. as long as im not taller than him. i guess i kinda get why some girls have a thing for tall guys, but i have tall guy friends and personally i much prefer not being with a partner way taller than me.

[noohair]

It is a subconscious thing about how they envision their children to be tall.

[thatguy9388]

9/10 that doesn't happen. Why would a tall guy want to waste his genes on a short woman when the odds of having tall children are significantly increased twicefold with tall women

[zzombie]

That's not true actually. It has nothing to do with procreation, if we are gonna go down the science route... it would be linked to something psychological. It's a dominance thing... women want to be with a guy who makes them feel "helpless" or "fragile". (Submissive basically, they want to feel inferior.) Not all women, but the women who make a big deal over height.

[Jayplays900]

It's just dominance, to be honest.

I'm a midget at only 5'3", so.. I've stopped trying to even look for relationships anymore. Height is just too big of a factor for me to make any scores.

[thatguy9388]

Not worth it. Sometimes the company of yourself is better

[Jayplays900]

Yup

Who is a better person to talk to than yourself.

[zzombie]

This infuriates me. Im sorry you feel that way... I dont get why height is such a big deal. I hope you find someone worthy of being with you, who isn't shallow and actually has common sense that allows them to look past something as stupid as height. :/

[Anonymous]

No and 300-pound women hate men who are only 30 pounds overweight... remember only women get to have standards

[Anonymous]

most dont even like them as friends. they are very superficial

[Anonymous]

I want someone shorter because I am short and it creates visual harmony. :) so~

[thatguy9388]

How short are you?

[Opinion Owner]

1. 56 m

[readyplayer001]

yes i am 4'11 and like guys my size

[wowvrsocool]

Guy your size? Just 5'0 guys?

[readyplayer001]

@Grubhub i was born and raised in southphilly and grew up fist fighting, you must have grown up privileged

[readyplayer001]

@wowvrsocool the question asked do short woman even like short men? that is the question and i answered yes i like guys my size meaning i dont discriminate against height

[kelsiefire]

it's all relative, there's no hard and fast rule and height for a man isn't the only quality women look at

[wowvrsocool]

But it does hamper a man if he's short , so short that he's just the height of an average female..
No?

[mimi051998]

I'm 5’3 and I prefer guys that are 5’7-6’3

[Anonymous]

5’7 to 6’0 for me pls

[thatguy9388]

How tall are you?

[InferiorElegy]

That would be a nope.

[SmokinAces2000]

My mom is 5”2 and my dad is 5”5……

[thatguy9388]

On average majority of 5'2 women I see are usually never with guys below like 5'10. I think it goes both ways, 5'2 women like guys 5'10+ and 5'10+ guys like women that are 5'2. My own sis is 5'2, still not married yet but she doesn't want a guy under 5'10 and i'm not surprised why she isn't married yet

[SmokinAces2000]

Well you can still find a girlfriend, I mean shit my moms new boyfriend is like 5”2-5”4 and I’ve been rejected by short girls for my height myself and I’m 5”10 but some girls will do that you just have to keep looking there are girls out there that don’t care much about height

[thatguy9388]

Lol what fucking world do we live in man. Getting rejected and being told you're too short at 5'10, thats insane. I'm not bisexual, but if I was without a doubt I would probably be more interested in men than women because most women these days are just trashy and have way too many expectations. Every guy i've talked to said they literally don't even give a shit about what specific women they want like physically as long as she's nice. Women analyze guys way too hard.

[SmokinAces2000]

It is what it is, just be confident in yourself and try to approach more women; online dating or going to nightclubs are good ways to meet women as well

[Mulan8]

I'm 5,3 and I like 5'8 and 5'10 boys

[thatguy9388]

5'8 and 5'10 isn't short

[Mulan8]

Yep I know

[Anonymous]

im 5ft 7, i would want a guy who is around 6ft-6ft2 so i can wear heels and he's still taller than me and i get good hugs!

[MrPlentiful]

What if I dont want u to wear heals

[Opinion Owner]

@MrPlentiful its all about preference :]

[DizzyDesii]

I’m 5’2 and prefer a guy 5’7-6’3

[thatguy9388]

So you don't like short men

[DizzyDesii]

If short is under 5’7 then i guess not. I can find them attractive. I just wouldn't date them

[zzombie]

@DizzyDesii That doesn't make sense. If you find them attractive then why wouldn't you date them? Would you be embarrassed or something?

[DizzyDesii]

@zzombie no. For example, i find men of all ethnicities attractive but i prefer to date my own. I can admit celebrities like beyonce is attractive but im not into women. Attraction doesn't equal preference

[zzombie]

@DizzyDesii Right I get that, but I'm asking why you prefer taller men. There is always a reason behind your prefrences, it's never "I just like what I like." Maybe you haven't put too much thought into it but it doesn't make sense to prefer a tall guy over a short guy UNLESS there was some sort of thought process (subconcious even) that you have when choosing a guy. Do you view tall guys as more masculine? Do you prefer tall guys because they make you feel more feminine or? Like what is the reason?

[thatguy9388]

@zzombie yeah I was gonna ask the same thing. Like I'm not sure why a specific height is just automatically unattractive and it's like people actually have a number to associate with it

[DizzyDesii]

I like where i come to them. 5’7 is the perfect kissing height for me among other things. Height has nothing to do with masculinity. Just my preference for them

[thatguy9388]

But you didn't just say 5'7. You said 5'7 to 6'3

[DizzyDesii]

5’7 is the main preference. 6’3 is the tallest i’d take before i feel theyre too tall and towering over me.