This married dude messaged me on Facebook and I posted it?

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Interstate · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't have posted that. It can open an entire can or worms if the wrong people or person saw it. Personally, I wouldn't have responded to him AT ALL. To a lot of guys out there, just the fact that you sent a response can send the wrong message. And obviously this guy is one of them.

Not to mention the fact that he wants to snap chat even though his vows are still intact. This guy without a doubt is trouble, so it would be best to disregard him and his messages and just move on with life!!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sounds like you are an inflexible cunt.

hi_it_is_me123 · Accepted Answer

Why do the idiots defend this manwhore? If the genders were reversed these same fools would even give death treaths and insult her

pleasestopthis · Accepted Answer

I hope his wife gets to know she's married to a dumbass

ohshee · Answer

Well first of all it's so funny in a roundabout way here they are trying to pick up on you when they're married. Don't they understand that they are showing you exactly who they are. I mean what girl in their right mind I would say okay to that. To be honest with you I think that you are always going to have men hitting on you you are one very beautiful woman and like I said before with your answers in your questions it shows your heart to this could be hard to resist I understand the reasoning behind it but not when you're married come on

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Well, looks like he’s getting a divorce so it’s not like he’s currently with his wife and hasn’t started the process on divorce and his wife thinks they’re still on good terms. In this case, he and his wife are probably mutual in the divorce so I don’t see this as much of a breach in trust as if divorce wasn’t a thing.

Obviously he’s still married

Overall I support what you did, but I wouldn’t have done it in this situation, but in one that I outlined above.

MCheetah · Answer

Married men like tall young blondes, I hear.
And you're from Pennsylvania? I'm from Pennsylvania. That explains a lot. Those dudes that hit you up are probably on meth. (Not as bad as the Ohio or Florida residents, but still a lot of druggos, there.)
Although it's a little messed up you didn't censor his name. That's kind of like doxing him. I don't really approve of doxing.

PolishedMonkey · Answer

You may want to try deleting the NSFW photos off your profile as well as the pic of your bumper sticker that playfully suggests you not only brake but you “pump the brakes for married men”. It is possible that the visitors you’re adding at random to your Facebook page may possibly be getting mixed messages from these harmless photos.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Why do people feel the need to overthink things and publically shame people over trivial stuff?
If you aren't interested in him, just block him, it's none of our business.

Divorce can get hung up for years in some situations because of financial issues, having to relocate, or not knowing where the other person is.

People shouldn't have to be alone just because their ex was an asshole.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, it's crazy I had some married woman who wanted to have affair with me
I didn't say anything just deleted the email and moved on cause my religious views
are no sex to after marriage and no marriage affairs

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Its hilarious because he gave you his attention, then you used it to get even more attention from everyone else by disrespecting him. 😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣 Hopefully he still doesn't want to talk to you.
Id give that guy a beer if i knew him

Anonymous · Answer

Because your responses were slightly encouraging. You didn't say you wouldn't give him your snapchat. You said he had a moderate chance. You also didn't say he shouldn't flirt with you. You said he could after the divorce. They message you because you lead them to believe they have a fair shot.

Jlegacy · Answer

You are extremely beautiful. It shouldn't surprise you that many people see that. Beauty tends to attract all kinds of men.

yucel_eden · Answer

I mean you didn’t have to violate him like that, but you didn’t do anything wrong, if your in a relationship, or even bigger marriage, you should not be cheating

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

I don't know, either dude is horny or separated. Posting it won't bother him, because you're not the only one who screenshot him.

Alwaysconfused36 · Answer

You know everyone is going to FB now searching this guy's name right 😂

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

Good.. most women wouldn’t do this, I’m glad you did.. let’s blast these losers lol

Browneye57 · Answer

All that social media crap is just fake. Ya got nuthin' here - you're simply wasting your time.

FreeOhSeven · Answer

You’re a very pretty woman and a lot of dudes try to use fb to hook up with women

Better_off_here · Answer

yeah embarrass him and let everyone know he is a cheater. and i am not sure how to answer your update.

JennBITx · Answer

That is priceless. Good on you. Look for his divorce to happen now in the papers. You might want to make your messaging private just in case his wife goes crazy on you

m33lad · Answer

Why do you reply? Just block right away. You want attention?

Shy_Steve · Answer

That's the downside to being really attractive so just block them.

CuriousAZ · Answer

A) because he is a scumbag B) because you are hot

This married dude messaged me on Facebook and I posted it?

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