Who should pay for a date? (Page 2)

Question

Who should pay for a date?

jim009 · Answer

Depends, but it should be considered a mutual decision!

AydenHazor · Answer

Doesn't really matter. I'll offer to pay, but I won't fight for it, and if she offers, or wants to split it, I'll let her.

dragoblack · Answer

Unless you offer to pay it, should be paying for yourself aka 50/50. Paying for a date has been, and should always be considered, a kind gesture and a show of financial stability; never an expectation

IveGotNoName · Answer

It should be split equally if it's one of the first dates. Later on you can take turns paying.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Neutral. Both pay half. Split the bill. I hate the traditional way of the guy should pay.

Normalousie · Answer

Split the bill. We are not living in the 50s. Or take turns at the very least

Talea · Answer

Whoever does the asking. Sorry ladies, but our free ride is over. If we want equal rights, we get equal responsibilities too.

jasco · Answer

Honestly I don't wanna go on any date's that require me to pay a lot. Rather just go sight seeing or something

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Men if she's marriagable. Otherwise split it or the woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Unless someone offers to, I think the first date especially, even first few should be equal, or each pay for their own.

ChiPaPa · Answer

Depends on the people involved. Everyone's different. I paid every time, so far. Four first dates.

douride2 · Answer

The one who does the asking usually. I pay when I ask.

Andres77 · Answer

Whoever made the invitation. Once you're a couple then come to an agreement

EaterPeter · Answer

Both  2/3 for guy 1/3 for gal.  Or 3/4 for guy 1/4 for gal.  Or Guy pays check  Girl pays tip.

Twalli · Answer

Depends on the asker, when I doubt though the guy could. The way I see it, the guy should always be able to pay, but not always be expected to

Anonymous · Answer

I rarely go on dates and when I do I like a very specific kind of man. Normally the man pays on the first date.

Angalena · Answer

Everybody thinks the guy should but I think that if you go on a date and you're not interested in that person you should at least offer to pay for your own.

Anonymous · Answer

Usually the one that did the inviting. If the two are in a long term relationship it probably gets paid from a joint credit card.

MsTacy00 · Answer

I think it’s person who asks.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

First date the guy pays. After that usually who plans. Should be a balance

Caunsos · Answer

My rule is the person who asks. I. e. if i invited her on the date i pay if she invites me she pays.

Wiredone · Answer

I'm old school so the guy should always pay when he's on a date

dolemite89 · Answer

whoever asks, which should generally be the guy. after that tho i think it’s fair to go dutch or trade off paying.

TheAfrikan · Answer

If am to pay for the first date, she can pay for the second date n I guarantee no one can lose a life for paying a date.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Unless she wants to have sex on the first date, she should pay her share. This doesn't apply if I was the one who went after her for a date.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

She needs to be at least offering to. That way it doesn't make it look like she EXPECTS me to

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I think both people should split the bill but in the past I always paid on the first date

grega239 · Answer

Id say the man because its tradition... but its 2021 so women can cough it up too

Shy_Steve · Answer

The Guy should, But the Girl Should at least offer either to pay or to split the bill.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I'm not cheap especially with food. I'll pay. It's no big deal.

ChiTownLov · Answer

Depends on the situation or context of the date. Otherwise, I would say dutch

Jouth · Answer

As the man, I like to pay on the first date. Beyond that? Dutch.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely the guy. After that she can return the favor or they can go Dutch

LEA4life · Answer

however wants to pay or offers to first.  its both ur choices

Slim57 · Answer

I was raised up to pay and if don't mind it, but if she wants to every now and then that's fine too

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Pay for your own order.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Just pay for your own stuff and solve this issue.

Anonymous · Answer

No one should go on dates. But you pay for yourself

Smashingdoozy · Answer

Split it 50/50 or pay for your own, or eachother.

whosnumber1 · Answer

whom ever asks the person out.

saffoler · Answer

The person who asks for it.

RaTheSunGod · Answer

Whoever invited the other person

Fireguy17 · Answer

does it really matter?

Starwitch23 · Answer

Whoever invites, pay for the date.

SGTAdam · Answer

Doesn't matter to me as long as we eat haha 😆

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Both should pay for their own stuff.

dreammy · Answer

A guy suppose to, why? You paid?

Joshua0213 · Answer

Whoever asked the other person out

Jerre · Answer

I always pay when dating.. Always!

Anonymous · Answer

You yourself to show compassion.

Retiever · Answer

Traditionally the man pay for the date.

Wise4myage · Answer

If its the first date, then I would pay.

OddBeMe · Answer

The one who asked the other out.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Whoever asked the other person out.

anylolone · Answer

Who ever is consuming.

TheFlak38 · Answer

the one who invited and planned it

roy_ricky09 · Answer

It's only a date, so both

fonduegirl · Answer

Split the damn bill.

Ectomorph · Answer

The restaurant. Ever heard of dine-&-dash?

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

The one who declared it

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