What are the benefits of dating older men?

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So yes, I know I'm no spring chicken but I typically have always been interested in guys my own age. They have proven to be worth the lint between my toes so there's that. On the off chance that a guy is interested in me (it's rare), he's usually younger than me or like at least 10 years older.
That just always kinda bugs me. Mostly because I LOOK like a child lmao. Like no one else ever even thinks I'm an adult. EXCEPT for older men. But I'm trying to get past it and maybe give one of them a try? Or I could be having a midlife crisis. Ya girl struggling 🤣🤣🤣

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Shortman70 · Accepted Answer

You wanna know if an older man would be worth taking him for a spin? Understandable most of us are pretty easy goin. You'll occasionally find a D-bag but for the most part we're ok. We won't be playing any games, so if your into that shit, we've made it this far, there's nothing to gain playing stupid games. We are still horny and still need to release the pressure that builds up. The difference between us and 20yr olds: we might not be able to pound your hole all nite but we're gonna pleasure you all nite. As we get older it's not so much the penetration, it's more about the other things. I don't need to plow the garden all nite but I would rather play in the garden and completely prepare the garden, so when it's time to plant, the garden has already been worked and kneaded and it's been drenched so many times with the indoor sprinkler that just a little plowing makes the garden shutter and quake and she'll enjoy the seeding immensely. Most of us are financially sound, we have most everything we need in life. if we have kids, their usually older and you don't have to help raise them or be a mom. You don't have to keep tabs on us, we've prob been alone for awhile so we're happy to have someone that wants us around but we won't follow you like lost puppies. Probably have our own cars or pickups. A house that seems empty but we call it home. Don't try to make it into some kind of woman's retreat. When you join the party we'll consider it our house, don't disrespect it. Any other questions you would like an answer too? Just ask away!

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

1. Ask a question and I'll give you an honest answer.

2. I have a track record of 50 years of dating and relationships and I've never been unfaithful, not once.

3. I think your happiness is as important as my own happiness because I want you not just for today and tomorrow but forever. I'm not looking for ONS or casual.

4. In bed, I'll tell you what is of limits for me. No thirds person, no pictures or video, no whips and chains. Outside of that, I will do whatever it takes to satisfy you sexually because of I make you happy, you'll want to satisfy me, too.

5. If I love you, I'll tell you. Not every 5 minutes but a few times per week

6. I'm glad if you have a life separate from me. I understand how important that is and I'm not insecure

7. If you decide we are not meant to be, just tell me. I won't hate you, won't throw things, won't call you names, won't slash your tires.

8. I'll be proud of you and want to introduce you to friends and family.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i see this post has been answered by a lot of people, so i just want to add that they seem to have a lot of benefits on average, but what i'm worried about is that he can't accompany me for a long time, his strength is also not comparable to mine so i definitely don't dare often take him wherever i want.

its pretty sad but that's what i think according to reality. and i'd be lying if i said i don't care what other people think. perhaps others could say that it would be fine if i had been blinded by love, lust, or greed. but still i woke up by the reality around me, bcs i have high sensitivity and insecure.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

An older man will be less likely to play games, will have more value and appreciation for the things that really matter in life. Also an older man will have been raised in a different time where values, morals, respect, manners were taught that seem to be lacking these days... On a side note, you're too young for a mid life crisis lol that'll come in your 40's lolol

DaveJord · Answer

I am not sure how old you are, so its kind of relevant to the question.

In general after the age of 40 to 50 older men, are more established professionally and personally in a better place to invest in a relationship emotionally. Older men tend to provide more Security to a women, and want to make them more centered in their lives.

But I would say older men up until about the age of 35 are only interested in the physical aspects of beauty... thats a very general assumption. Obviously every person is different.

Slithers · Answer

I just turned 40 so I'd consider myself older.

We aren't insecure, we are a lot more charming, and we will likely have you second guessing yourself instead of vice versa. Older confident guys are going to be a challenge for any girl significantly younger.

Sexually we are way more experienced than you are or anyone your age. We are probably more adventurous and have fewer hangups.

We have been through plenty of relationships and at this point we can predict what you are going to do next at every turn. That puts you at a disadvantage that you may like, or you may not like. It's intimidating for some women.

The disadvantages is you might find an older guy who's not secure with dating someone younger and gets jealous easy. You might be at loss on trying to keep up with someone older in conversation. You're at an age where you are going to be changing rapidly and he isn't.

ohshee · Answer

No relax you're not having a midlife crisis we get to a certain age and the world becomes different to us we have gone through all the bulshit all the games we know there's a better way. And that better way is, the world does not evolve around us.
We become more honest with ourselves so it's transfers do everything else in our lives.
We become one with ourselves which makes it easier to become one with somebody else
Whether I grab a hold of your hand and pull you close.
Or if I'm standing behind you with my arms wrapped around you my lips on your neck there is an intense beautiful sensation the transfers into the other a calm a peacefulness with every look with every touch it's just more real it's just one hundred times more beautiful

AviatorTom · Answer

According to your profile, you're 33. There should be plenty men around your age to date.

One of the advantages of dating older men (your age and higher) is that they generally are more settled, mature and experienced in the ways of love and sex. They've gotten the wildness of being younger out of their systems and are looking to settle down.

DaveToo · Answer

Patience, we older guys have learned that it's better to satisfy the lady. If we do that properly, we get rewarded.
Honor, when a lady gives us the honor of their presence, we older guys return that honor. We know a good gal when we see her.
Stability, we older guys are far more stable in our lives. We don't run around. When ya got a good thing, you don't screw it up.

Unfortunately, when we're 43 years older than you, we're just not the kind of catch you were looking for.

magiusX26 · Answer

we have a better idea of what to realistically expect from dating

usually more stable (finacially and otherwise)

usually we know how to keep the good suprises (think surprise party) and keep away many of the bad suprises (think things like how to deal with something major going wrong)

there are a few drawbacks many dont think of though like when someone does try playing games (saddly many younger folks try this) we are more likely to know it immediately or near immediately. so in turn we are often less likely to be manipulated.

normalice · Answer

Older men tend to realize the difference between appearance and substance is irrelevant most of the time. So simply appearing not to be "toe lint" is enough to convince most people that they aren't. And they've had more time to learn what people >look< for when trying to figure out if someone is toe lint.

KieranByrne · Answer

Personally I look for a woman, more my age or can be slightly younger, (21 or above) and as long a they act 'adult' I am fine, and can understand! I use to like older women!

It is hard to find the 'Inbetween' and the speaking to each other is sometimes not enough!

It all depends on how much you both are willing to commit to the relationship, and what age the person acts!

wearehere2002 · Answer

For one their maturity should be about the same as the younger women as females mature faster than males and also they will have more experience in life however they are less likely to be into the things you are though you may have a few things in common

bones_20 · Answer

I mean I wouldn’t mind a sugar daddy lol  Jokes

alleon · Answer

I’ve always dated and been attracted to older men. I’ve attempted guys closer to my age and quickly realized why I date men older than me. I’m 29 and like men mid to late 40’s

mk200195 · Answer

There is no right answer, everyone has different preferences and of course depending on the womans age she will want different things, for example its unlikely a teenage girl will prefer a younger manI think typically women are more attracted to slightly older men as men tend to mature slightly later than girls and hence want someone with the same mental maturity. However, this is such a broad question and is honestly so different for every woman. Some prefer younger, and actually many prefer someone close to their own age, but again it depends on whether the woman wants someone she can grow with, someone who will make her feel more grown up, or someone who will make her feel younger

DizzyDesii · Answer

they ain't much different from what I've experienced. A lot are still immature and still just tryna get laid. Only difference is they dont freak out as much if the girl gets pregnant cause theyre usually childless and want a kid

FatherJack · Answer

Life experience , less impulsive than younger guys ( I was at times when younger ) , no fluff & BS , straight to the point. However , I'm a single dad , as well as FT working & own ventures , I cannot compete in the ultra male heavy dating market , & I don't want to anyway , after the marriage I endured & ended. Peace & focusing on my personal growth are the important things to me now , apart from the most important , my teen daughter.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Older men pretty much don't want kids, so we're really good at NOT knocking up girls we date. We're also financially secure (generally), and wiser than most younger men. We've learned how to mitigate risk instead of crashing head-first into it.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

Older guys are less likely to play mind games and be a player because they value a relationship more.

Anonymous · Answer

There is no benefit regardless of age because the root problem still remains. An overall spiritually dead collective / society. But if you find the one that isn't, then the age won't really matter, because they will take you to depths you didn't even know existed. Most people think they have been in love, when they really were just tricked by the ego.

JanJan38 · Answer

No games, they are not afraid to tell you what they want, and it seems more secure when I am with an older guy.

JohnE_62 · Answer

Since no one else mentioned it, not sure if I should, but what the hell, here it goes. Older people will leave you something in their will; IF you are nice to them.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Most people look at me and think I'm a child, but the older a person is the more likely they are to look at me that way.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

We know how to do the things you want done! Younger guys are still trying to figure it out. Put tab A into slot B? Or is it slot C? Hmmm, I need a map!

Anonymous · Answer

1. They are more financially stable 2. They have better communication skills 3. They are more mature 4. It leaves time for young guys to not deal with women, because there won't be any for them

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Cheaper car insurance means we can manage nice restaurants. we don’t walk fast idea for girls in heals.

Kabluie · Answer

Some of us don't look our age, but also older men tend to be more stable. There is likely a drastic maturity difference of a guy that is say 18 versus 25.

RichSD · Answer

In all honesty, even men my age are typically looking to date women younger than in their 30s, especially if they haven't had kids yet. Men and women age differently, and it's very noticeable after you've past your 20s.

Nazgol · Answer

They're more experienced in every aspect, typically financially well off/can provide & more mature

KatherineJ · Answer

The older guys usually know what they want in a girlfriend.

Avicenna · Answer

They appreciate younger women more and are more mature.

RayBeam · Answer

Just give a try and you tell us benefit of it i am 50 my girlfriend 35 she says for me that i am everything for her in one small box Any female could ever ask from this life thats what she says but i say 5 years old badboy and good boy in one body i think thats what woman likes with their mother sense plus i am a capricorn she is too

Iron_Man · Answer

They’ll take you to Europe for a vacation they buy you a diamond earrings and necklaces they take you out to fine dining they are good listeners they really appreciate young women. They will protect you And look after you

FreeOhSeven · Answer

I thi k experience both in and out of the bed are the benefits!

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Experienced  confident  financially secure  Know what they want

TheFlak38 · Answer

Bitches never tell you what they have to put on the table. It's always about what serves the interests of her vagina. "me me me me me me" every fuckin time.

zagor · Answer

Just make sure they're still fully functional...

dolemite89 · Answer

what about a year younger than u? 🤔😅

whito · Answer

Experience no games more honest down to earth

Anonymous · Answer

Money of course. For you gold diggers out there saying it's their maturity. What a terrible lie. There are jobs for money and normal guys for love.

notwoke · Answer

financial stability, maturity, they value you more

NathanDavis · Answer

how older is old? 50, 60, 70?

Sidfawy · Answer

Life experience 🌹

Razor8 · Answer

The bullshit gets cut by half.

gabez84 · Answer

We know what we want...

Relux47 · Answer

I can’t think of anything 😂

Anonymous · Answer

More mature

PuNishant · Answer

Money

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

bread

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