Girls would you be ok if a guy lies about his height? Would you break up with him? Guys would you be ok if a girl lies about her age? Would you break up with her?
I have heard that men lie about their height while women lie about their age. I dont know if this is true.
The actress alexa demie lied about her age to get job. She said she is 24 but she is actually 30. I was shocked since she even looks extrem young. Below are random pics of her
Guys, who prefere young women, would still date older women if she looks young like alexa demie in the pics below? Girls, would you date non tall guys if he is attractive like in the pics below?
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I dont care about height or age as long as she/he is attractive and has good personality
Age/height is important to me when it comes to dating/marriage
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I am sorry. I should add to the poll " i dont like being lied". It is perfectly ok if you break up for getting lied.
What would you do when a man/a woman lies about his height/her age?
Well I do care for a few reasons. First and foremost I don't like being lied to toy face. I don't appreciate it and consider it disrespectful. If you want to use some tact on wordplay I could respect that, but not lying. I need to know when if we are planning for a family. I can plan accordingly around the scenario she is younger or older but I want to know sooner rather than later. This is because I need to mentally prepare myself. I really want children but if she was truly amazing I want to know she can't have kids. Simply don't get my hopes up, give me time to take it in, and I will adjust. I'm looking for the long haul so I need a good general direction of what our life will be like once married. And it might help me adjust for work or moving too.
alexa never technically lied about her age it’s just that no one knows what it is for sure. plus as an actress i understand why she did it. as for the question as long as it’s not by over 3-4 years/inches (unless they’re a minor of course) then i really mind i suppose. id just wanna know whyd they do it.
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Sorry. I thought she lied. Sorry for misinformation then. I also agree with you
I would hate it if a man lied about his age. I would date someone older, younger, or the same age as I am. But I don't really want someone that's 20 years older than me either. I think lying about his age may be a dealbreaker for me. I wouldn't lie about my age. On my profile it says I'm 23. I can prove my age to a man by showing my birth certificate lol. But with height if he exaggerates by an inch it isn't really a big deal to me.
I don't think a lot of people really know how tall they are. I say I'm 5'5 but the last time I got a checkup the nurse or receptionist taking my measurement said 5'4 something. No one would believe me if I say I'm 5'4. But if he's saying he's 6' when he's clearly not then it would make it hard for me to trust him. I would date a man under 6' ofc but my general rule is that he has to be the same height or taller than me.
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I can understand why this girl lied about her age. We live in an extremely ageist world (especially towards women). People treat you differently and have different expectations from you, based on your age. The younger you are, the better you are treated by society. If I can pass as younger, why not take advantage of the opportunity?
I want someone under 30, even though they can still look good far past that age. It is for biological reasons since I want to have a few healthy kids and it takes time before knowing if the relationship is likely to last before actually having the kids. Also, regardless of that, lying ruins a relationship and there is no way to fix it once trust is broken so I'd leave on those grounds alone.
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How young? You want someone who could be your daughter. My dad is in his 40s and i am in my early 20s
I don't have any kids so it isn't a problem for me when they are young. If someone had kids of similar age then that would be a problem in my opinion, but not when neither of them has kids.
I've met women in their 40s that still aren't as mature as some people that are 20. Mental maturity has more to due with intelligence and life experiences than it has to do with age.
And I don't want someone that has a past of doing drugs, heavily drinking alcohol (I'd prefer no alcohol), has done hook ups, has kids from past partners, etc. I also have never got along well with women from my own generation when it comes to interests or morals, even when I was a teenager or young adult they were never a good match for me.
your brain development affect your personality and maturity so much. You can date women in their mid or late 20s but younger than that may be a problem. Young people tend to have instabile personalities and it does not matter how mature they seem. This is also a reason why divorce rate is high for people who marry young or for couples with huge age gap. Your maturity level will never be same a young womans. By the way men's sperm quality get worse the older they get
To get Life experiences, you have to age. Do you really think a young people give a f about life? Most of them are immature. They are still growing up. A young person has little adult life. You can't expect from someone to have life experience when they are new to adult life.
I'm sure you will disagree on everything after seeing your comment about sperm count because biology teaches that a healthy man's ability to have healthy offspring doesn't decrease until after age 55 and it is a gradual decrease, where as women's chance of having healthy offspring decreases after age 35 and it is a steep decline.
If you disagree, then you are disagreeing with someone that is qualified to teach it and passed the California state educator's test on the first attempt. So I know what I am talking about.
I just dont want you to groom teenies or take advantage of young people. I just dont believe that such relationship works. It is selfish. You can still date someone in her mid 20s but if you choose someone under her mid 20s , it is unethical to me since they are still growing up due to brain development etc. You know so much about sperm quality but you choose to ignore the fact that maturity level of someone under mid 20s ain't same as you due to brain development. This is a fact. Dont mess up with young people and dont destroy them for your selfishness. It is just disgusting and creepy. So dont be a groomer
Nice accusations there. I'm a better person than probably almost everybody on here. If I went with a young person I wouldn't "use" them if that is what you are thinking. I'm not one of the immoral people that do hook ups/friends with benefits/ONS, etc. I would only be with someone if they were morally, emotionally, and long term compatible with me.
I dont accuse of anything. I am just saying that you will never or rarely get along with very young women due to brain development. By the way just because someone is 18, it does not mean this person is suddenly adult. There is not so much difference between a 16-17 or 18-19. So it is disgusting to me. You just said you want to date women under 30s? So i guess teenies too. Tell me then. How young you want? In my experience women who marry much older guys regret it since they figure out that they have nothing common with theur husbands. No wonder since you are still figuring out what your beliefs, life purpose should be under your mid 25s. I am ex muslim. If i married someone (a muslim one) in teenies, this would be a huge mistake. At 18-24 majority of people question their life or try to find their purpose in their life. I know some guys who take advantage of this and try to manipulate young girls and make them the girls they prefere but in the end these girls get traumatized. You just said that you want to be with someone if they were morally, emotionally etc. compatible with you but especially people under 20s or maybe even early 20s are instabile and their morals can be changed. My morals changed the older i get but it change less the older i get. So there will be a point where i will be sure that my morals, personality won't change anymore. So i really dont understand the desire to date very young women. There is reason why divorce rate is high for people who marry young or people with big age gap
To be honest it would be so fucking funny to marry very young girls but then get divorced because her brain development get finished and she realized you ain't the guy she wanted. Have fun paying alimony lol. Believe me i have seen these cases. Divorce rate statistics prove my points.
I dont care about height or age as long as she/he is attractive and has good personality. However, I’d prefer they’d be truthful with me because I’d usually be able to tell that I have been lied to. This would sometimes make things awkward cos i might start taking other information from them with a pinch of salt.
My wife lied about her age in her online profile. She took five years off her actual age. She quickly told me her actual age. I didn't care. I would never have guessed, she could have taken ten years off and I would have believed her.
Lies that are annoying: pictures from many years and many pounds ago, and lies about smoking or marital status.
I only put that its important because age can be important depending on the age, if the age is older, it wouldn't bother me, I would just be asking why lie to me.
However, if it is younger and since my girlfriend and all my exes are around my age, we run into the risk of them not being 18 and that I would have a problem with.
Those are stupid things to lie about. The last time I know a female lied about her age to me was when I was 17 and a 14 year old told me she was 16 (her 17 year old friend was also interested in me and was more than happy to shunt aside the competition by telling me the 14 year old's real age).
One time the singer Akon visited my country and went to a nightclub which he knew that only adults frequented. There was this girl who danced with Akon in a suggestive way. The next day it was all over the international news; videos of her dance with him surfaced on social media and went viral. The girl was revealed to have been only 14 years old. She had presumably lied about her age to get into the nightclub.
I would not be OK with it. For all I know, she could be a minor. In my country a minor is legally a person under 18. No girl under 18 is ever worth the trouble. Then, too, no relationship lasts long or is happy if founded on lies. So, I'd dump.
Unless she did not legitimately know her real age which she would have to prove, then yes that would be a dealbreaker if it was off by more than a year or two. Same thing with height. If a girl lied about her height by more than a couple inches that would also be a dealbreaker.
I think age is important to me because I wouldn’t want a minor OR someone 10 years older than me. Height, i don’t mind. As long as it isn’t a ft difference.
Lying about anything big like that is never a good sign. Exaggerating a little bit on height is one thing, but age is a very specific number and there's no wiggle room there.
I don't lie and don't want someone lying to me. Height can be measured, age is different, you have to see an official ID card to make sure.
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Showing an id card is easier than measuring someone height. I mean you can look at her id card secretly and most people have their id card in their wallet
A lot of female's lies about their age and are hippocrates about the whole thing. It's a huge red flag if someone are like that and a dealbreaker.
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Men also lie about their height. But for some people these lies are white lies. Would you break up with her only because of this even though she looks very attractive and and has great personality?
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