Why do guys only go for the girls with fake hair, plastic surgery, fake lashes, etc. instead of the Down to earth girl?

[Anonymous]

Down to earth that work, and not looking to you for money

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Whoa whoa whoa I didn’t say I look like a lazy slob I’m just not putting on the extra unless I’m not going anywhere that needs the extravagance. Still get my hair done I still put on a little make up and I look good walking out the door but fake lashes long nails and other things I won’t do unless I’m going to a wedding or an extravagant event just Not on an every day basis

[bamesjond0069]

Because there are other options besides the two you mentioned... one that works and one that is looking for your money. Both suck! How about a girl this isn't looking for my money but allows me to take care of her and is appreciative about it? That sounds way better to me.

There are also more options than down to earth scrub and fake tits caked on makeup. There are girls that know when its appropriate to get done up nice and when not to, and generally take care of their appearance and stay fit and healthy. That sounds perfect to me. I wouldn't date a down to earth scrub baggy jeans overweight forgot to shave girl. No thanks!

[Asker]

So you I wouldn’t want someone to be able to take care of her self and she just be some infant basically how could she equally take care of you if she doesn’t do anything

[bamesjond0069]

Work hard in the home. I dont need a lazy bum! But working women are in my opinion the lowest quality because they have a poor persons mentality that gets in the way, gold diggers are still low quality but better than a working woman because they are straight forward and simply a known expense no different than buying a car but their existence is beneficial or else a man wouldn't be with them. Like i said the best is a woman who can fulfill a womans role and is appreciative.

[Grond21]

Problem is you are looking in the wrong place. The guys who go for those girls are in the popular eye, but the down-to-earth girls are not all over social media. And so you don't see when good men choose them. But it happens all the time

[FlutteringFeelings]

At the end of the day we can pick apart what isn’t worthy of praise but that doesn’t make anyone less admirable. Every guy has different preferences whether it’s fake hair, plastic surgery, makeup or no makeup. I know that I may not look like the average Instagram model; I’m aware that I am beautiful in my own way and the man that is attracted to me will admire the woman I am.


Some women can become obsessed with enhancing their beauty in order to meet societies standards of beauty and that’s a life they’ll have to live with.

[hahahmm]

Look, you women who are too lazy to put in any effort at all for a man don't have a leg to stand on. I was never into fake anything BUT I definitely noticed the women who put time into their hair/clothing choices and weren't just lazy slobs. I was also never into excessive makeup. But you posted about the EXTREME end. It's a spectrum from lazy slob who wears flip flops and baggy clothes all the time to the other extreme of kim kardashian level stuff. Most guys want something in the middle where she's not lazy or fake.

[hahahmm]

When I was single.. I'd notice the woman who put effort into her hair over the one who didn't 100% of the time. I didn't even care about what the hairstyle was but it meant that she took pride in looking good.

[Asker]

Whoa whoa whoa I didn’t say I look like a lazy slob I’m just not putting on the extra unless I’m not going anywhere that needs the extravagance. Still get my hair done I still put on a little make up and I look good walking out the door but fake lashes long nails and other things I won’t do unless I’m going to a wedding or an extravagant eventNot on an every day basis that’s what yeah I don’t understand

[hahahmm]

And when and if you ever find a quality dude that you want to keep, all of a sudden you will put in the effort to keep him and not just to impress random other people. Because life has competition and quality dudes can get other women.

[Asker]

Of course I would if I guy ever looked at me I try to not be offputting but I’m a little awkward

[hahahmm]

So now we're on the same page. When you're with a guy and dress sloppy/lazy all the time, if he has half a clue, he knows it's at least partially a reflection of your opinion of him.

[Asker]

No we’re not on the same page because you’re saying I just like a lazy slob when I don’t address cute and I am adorable. I just don’t want to dress up in extreme stuff unless I’m going on a trip or I’m going to a wedding or did you listen to me. I still get my feet done I get my hair done I can do my own hair like I cook. I just don’t go out a lot. The awkwardness comes from I don’t date a lot of guys I’m really just not even sure when I guy likes me what to do then it’s like I can’t even be his friend anymore

[jaybee281]

You're exaggerating too much on this one unfortunately - Yes we like hot women who take care a lot about their looks - I personally could never date a woman who doesn't have big lips for example so I wouldn't mind lip fillers - But that doesn't mean that these girls are trash or are full of silicone - They just want to look as attractive as they can - I respect that especially for the effort any day over the fact that there are some "down to earth" fatsoes that think all men are trash and superficial because they'd never pick them..

[Sleeptalk]

It's simple. Men go for women they find attractive. If you don't put any effort into your appearance or they simply don't find you attractive then they won't go for you. Men see what they like then go from there. Attraction gets them, but personality keeps them. You don't need to have all of those things to be attractive to them, some guys don't even like those things, but I can't lie and say some guys don't go for women like that either

[Anonymous]

If any truth to that (it's not true but seems that way to you, are you just seeing this in the media? Because that's not real life guys at all), there's many other things that factor in (just like women with guys). It's not all about looks. And there's also a lot of assumptions made such as you assume the "down to earth" girl is available and looking for any relationship. And that we guys "have a choice" sometimes lol. It's you women that ultimately "decide". This is a MAJOR reason I always suggest women should be the the ones pursuing us!

[The_Maphio]

You must be kidding me. THere are some men with horrid taste, I concur.
But most dudes are not really in line with botox lips and gummy boobs and butts.
I mean, there are toys out there for those who prefer latex to flesh.

[Anonymous]

I've noticed this, as well.. They may deny it all they want, but the girls they usually find attractive (for example, men on this site), wear tons of makeup, have fillers and huge lips and/or have their photos edited or use some type of filter..
That's the type of beauty that is praised unfortunately today

[Daniela1982]

That is a very good question. When you find out the answer let me in on it.

[Daniela1982]

I like how the men who probably don't take a shower every day and always wear ball caps because they are too lazy to groom themselves, have the gall to talk about how women should look "all the time" when they wear just as grubby clothes as any woman does. Have you ever gone to the home center and seen the grubby dressed guys who look like they just came in from the bar where they downed several beers? Sheesh.

[buddysboy16]

I dont know where you're looking for men but realness is literally all I look for. You aren't looking for the right kind of dude

[bones_20]

Yo you need to get your facts right.
This is absolute nonsense.

[Asker]

Over and pretty girl get the guy other get the sex and the guys that are willing to cheat on the pretty girls but won’t be in the open with them

[bones_20]

No idea what you’re trying to say there, but regarding your update, I like to get my lashes done and it has no effect on the person I am at all. And I don’t go for guys for their money like you suggested in your question. Hence why I said you need to get your facts right cause that’s not always the case 🙃

[FunkyMonkee]

None for me, thank you!! I don't play with Barbie dolls! I'd rather have a real, normal girl!! If only those plastic broads could see how fake they look!!

[FilmGuy93]

Those sets of attributes are not opposed to each other. But to answer your question, it could be that the down-to-earth girl comes across like she doesn't want the guy around.

[jasco]

Because their the ones who show more and are seen more. Girls like you don't express themselves in a way that men will find attractive or as least something worth looking into

[Asker]

So I’m not worth thanks what do you me show more

[jasco]

I never said you werent worth the time and energy, what I am saying is you don't go out. Go to places where men are and try talking to them and see where it goes. Online dating is not a good idea

[RichSD]

They don't. Fake lashes are one thing, because it's just an accessory. A wig, sometimes, sure. But plastic surgery, guys don't actually like that and it doesn't fool anyone.

[Fireguy17]

not me, I have seen some of those, fish lips, weird eyes, grotesque boobs, no thanks.
Give me natural any day.

[NetSapien]

lol.. I do not

When I see all that plastic, my wallet get the gas.

[hhhffg7889]

They try that hard to look good most likely they will work hard in bed and other parts of life. Not that some aren't just horrible. But that's all walks.

[AmeerX]

I go for natural beauty plain Jane types but they're really just girls. Either way they are not going to be loyal when they are not

[secretiveguy321]

Because they already know what's teasing for most men. If you are the down-to-earth type, then learn how to tease and I envy your partners from then on.

[Anonymous]

I wear all that fake shit and I'm down to earth🙃 I just like dressing up sometimes

[Asker]

Same but I don’t like all the extra

[zagor]

They DON'T. That is just garbage fed you by other women.

[TheFlak38]

"not looking to you for money" that's the best lie.

[Anonymous]

Same reason look for a guy with muscles, abs, great hair, teeth, well dressed, has money, status, lots of friends, is ambitious etc.

[TheAfrikan]

Those who do that are often interested in getting Laid.

[Outofthegrey]

lol what are you talking about?

[doopayo]

This question screams pick me, choose me energy

[Asker]

More like I give upon good men

[doopayo]

By putting down other women for what they choose to do with their own body? Sounds like you’ve got some insecurities you need to work on

[Asker]

No where in this is putting down another woman. I’m saying why do men not go for natural women. Why is it more attractive to be more flashy

[Gwenhwyfar]

A lot of guys don’t go for that

[TheSpaceGnome]

We don't.

Why do idiots keep stereotyping?

[Wise4myage]

They like the fake and unnatural look.

[Dayman343]

I don't, prefer them to be their natural selves

[Surely]

You are hanging around in all the wrong places.

[Anonymous]

You are entirely wrong on this one.

[Razp_Sorbet]

They don't lmao

[Dinklex3]

They dont though.

[Anonymous]

that is not true at all.