Do girls use ugly guys as spot fillers until they can get something better?

[Anonymous]

Like she never really seemed interested throughout the relationship but she enjoyed the attention I showed her

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[SteveSmith1985]

Well I can tell you as someone who ends up talking to a shitload of women about their love lives in intimate detail (here)... I can tell you that no, they generally don't. That's not to say there isn't a certain kind of super-bitch who wouldn't do it. But I have never once heard anything to make me think that. Not from hundreds if not thousands of cases (also from having a lot of female friends at different points).

But... girls will totally take advantage of somebody who is a clear sucker.

I can tell you that it DOES sound like you might be with one of the rare women who is just straight up using you. It gives me no pleasure to say so. But yea man. If you mean "attention" that costs you money. Then yes there are girls who would do that. ANd you want to be LIGHTYEARS away from them. To be honest women like that don't make up a part of my world. I've certainly met some. But they aren't good people.

You literally wrote one sentence. And I am so goddamn sure. Break up with her. That's no way anyone should feel in a relationship. Ever. Fuck man. You need an entirely different kind of woman (and fuck, like 97.5% are that different kind). You are with a woman who is with you to get something from you. That's not what a relationship is about.

[NicholasRedone]

Potentially so.

Potentially so - remember all humans are self interest :) usually - usually

[IslaTheWitch]

never heard about something like that...

can't imagine anyone forcing themselves to be with someone they don't find attractive...

[Asker]

So a girl really couldn’t use a guy as a placeholder

[IslaTheWitch]

why should someone need a placeholder in the first way? being alone is fun and relaxing :D

[Anonymous]

Yes. a lot of women complain that men don't approach them anymore, and it is for this reason. You jerk a guy around long enough and he's going to quit your game altogether. Guys learn to spot the signs when a woman has genuine interest and when she's just feigning it.

[wkhan_87]

Maybe some girls do perhaps

[Asker]

Yeah I was interested in this cause it may have happened to me

[In_Trance]

Yes they do