I think the guy I’m seeing likes someone else?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy I’ve been seeing/talking to for a couple months and I thought things were going well. He always texts me when I’m out clubbing and asks me to go back to his after. We also talk on text quite a lot. However in the last couple weeks he’s been off with me, and it makes me insecure because I’ve always liked him slightly more than he likes me. Well his best friend who’s also my friend said he met another girl when they were out and hinted that he likes her and talks about her a lot. I can’t help but feel extremely jealous even though he’s not my boyfriend. I can’t stop looking her up on socials and comparing myself to her because she looks like a model and is prettier than me. I don’t even know if they talk or anything but I’m obsessed. What can I do to get him to stop liking her?

[Evealyn]

Men love sluts; someone got to suck those dicks. But men don’t want to be in a relationship with one. So after he got done using you for sex he was ready for a real relationship. Just stick around. When they both get into a fight and she gives him the silent treatment, he will need for a little bit. Most likely she’s going to dump him after a little bit. And then he has no choice, but to come to you. Good things happen to those who wait. You’ll get the guy you want so bad trapped inside your vagina forever. Enjoy your boy toy.

[Anonymous]

You don’t if the guy likes her especially if he is acting off with you then it is time for you to move on and even more so time for you to stop looking at her social media your basically stalking the girl online and it’s not healthy

Him being off with you is probably his way of showing you he is no longer interested in you without saying it

[Asker]

We still get together though? Why would he still want to see me if he’s no longer interested?

[Wise4myage]

Comparing yourself to other girls is a dead end street, so stop doing that. Your not his girl friend, so why not date other guys?

[Asker]

I mean it was heading towards a relationship though, we are “talking”

[Wise4myage]

That’s good.

[ItsMeElliana]

also by the way @Wise4myage you're* :)

[Wise4myage]

@ItsMeElliana Go away.

[ItsMeElliana]

oh ok...

[soccerchick4eva]

Aw no I'm sorry to hear that! Sounds like he isn't worth your time if he's treating you like that though. I think you need to stop checking the socials for him and her for sure and just go out and have fun and meet new people :)

[Asker]

I really like him though, we’ve been talking for quite a few months as well. I can’t just let him go like that :(

[soccerchick4eva]

Aw I know, thats always the hard part. But you should never be just an option for him.

[ItsMeElliana]

just take time to focus on yourself, learn to love yourself. when you do, you'll know whats right and whats wrong for you, and it will help you move on, and just focus more on your work, career, studies, it really will help you more.