i assume they are taken, and usually pretty girls know they are pretty so they act difficult and nobody wants difficult. Also I assume they want the best man on earth lots of money, tall, buff, and handsome, and tons of women after him. I figure thats what they all want so what the point of a regular trying its just a waste of time
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1) guys are too shy or scared to talk to her
2) she prefers flirting and fooling around with tons of dudes and finds single life more fulfilling that way. Which to me is no different then a guy who’s a player doing that to women.
Sometimes choice, they know they can have a relationship if they need one.. also it can be that they are waiting for some one to ask them out, but as they so pretty most guys/girls assume they taken or wouldn't be interested
Maybe because 1/2 the time it’s fake? (yes, cover girl etc - aka cosmetics - are fake). If I see a gal covered in cosmetics she looks fake and like she’s trying too hard. Plus, things get complicated when there’s comparison involved. Yes, “prettier” is, by definition, a comparison. Yes, we all do it (whether we mean to or not). No, it doesn’t help anything.
I’ve heard that old saw all my life, but I haven’t found it to be true. (for me, at least)
But that *might* be because my taste in physical beauty (both face & body) in women is (apparently) a bit ‘off-spec’.
If I took the hour or so that would be needed to paint a word picture of a woman who takes my breath away I’m sure many of you would sneer and say that I’ve described a ‘plain, thick bodied’ housewife.
window dressing. To attract the right partner, they have to look good. Once they have one then they tend to let things slide again, and once kids come into play it is so long nice clothes, hello sweat pants and an old sweatshirt. No time to take care of yourself like you used to because of the kids, then you are just too tired to care how you look.
Really pretty women often intimidate guys, who think she's out of his league and he doesn't have much going to excite her, and think only a hotter, richer guy could get her.
Beautiful women usually worry that there are prettier women, and worry her looks will fade.
It's relatively easy to draw in beautiful women by showing her one is excited by more than just her looks. But her insecurities are a hurdle the guy must overcome.
I don’t think this is true but my theory is that because most 9/10+ guys have trash personalities and those pretty girls want guys with that level of looks but they don’t really want to be in a relationship with a shitty guy.
Cool theory, I like it. I would also present a counter-theory or add on that 9/10+ guys AND girls (of various personalities) start to acknowledge and believe that they are in the top tier of attractiveness and then start to believe they deserve someone on a level that may or may not actually exist (unicorns).
Yeah I completely agree with this and I think of it as an add on. I just think there’s something about being super super attractive all your life that makes you more likely to be a boring or shitty person. However Most people grow and change as they get older so it’s not necessarily forever
I don't think I agree with this, an even if it is true then it's all because of the females themselves because females have the choice to choose between an ocean of potential partners whereas guys have to be peacocks just to get looked at and potentially chosen.
I don't see it a lot in my country but where this is true, it's probably because what is prettiest often costs the most (in terms of time, resources, and effort) to get and to maintain, comes with the greatest number of complications and complexities, and depreciates the fastest.
They're either taken or damaged. That's my opinion. The single ones are damaged and undatable. Those are the ones that will talk to you as long as you'll give them attention, but have no intention of going out.
Men are afraid to approach women who look very attractive. so you will find many women who are single do have that beautiful look. it is harder sometimes for attractive women to date when men are scared off by looks.
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i assume they are taken, and usually pretty girls know they are pretty so they act difficult and nobody wants difficult. Also I assume they want the best man on earth lots of money, tall, buff, and handsome, and tons of women after him. I figure thats what they all want so what the point of a regular trying its just a waste of time
2 reasons
1) guys are too shy or scared to talk to her
2) she prefers flirting and fooling around with tons of dudes and finds single life more fulfilling that way. Which to me is no different then a guy who’s a player doing that to women.
Sometimes choice, they know they can have a relationship if they need one.. also it can be that they are waiting for some one to ask them out, but as they so pretty most guys/girls assume they taken or wouldn't be interested
Maybe because 1/2 the time it’s fake?
(yes, cover girl etc - aka cosmetics - are fake). If I see a gal covered in cosmetics she looks fake and like she’s trying too hard.
Plus, things get complicated when there’s comparison involved. Yes, “prettier” is, by definition, a comparison. Yes, we all do it (whether we mean to or not). No, it doesn’t help anything.
I’ve heard that old saw all my life, but I haven’t found it to be true. (for me, at least)
But that *might* be because my taste in physical beauty (both face & body) in women is (apparently) a bit ‘off-spec’.
If I took the hour or so that would be needed to paint a word picture of a woman who takes my breath away I’m sure many of you would sneer and say that I’ve described a ‘plain, thick bodied’ housewife.
And THEY are all married, or otherwise ‘taken’.
Possibly high maintenance, high standards, childhood trauma, others assuming they’ve had one of the above or is out of their league
probably because they got a bad personality, or they just wanna be single. or are waiting for the right guy
window dressing.
To attract the right partner, they have to look good.
Once they have one then they tend to let things slide again, and once kids come into play it is so long nice clothes, hello sweat pants and an old sweatshirt.
No time to take care of yourself like you used to because of the kids, then you are just too tired to care how you look.
Because prettier people have options and have a harder time committing /pick apart basic flaws. I don’t envy people that have too many options lol
Really pretty women often intimidate guys, who think she's out of his league and he doesn't have much going to excite her, and think only a hotter, richer guy could get her.
Beautiful women usually worry that there are prettier women, and worry her looks will fade.
It's relatively easy to draw in beautiful women by showing her one is excited by more than just her looks. But her insecurities are a hurdle the guy must overcome.
I don’t think this is true but my theory is that because most 9/10+ guys have trash personalities and those pretty girls want guys with that level of looks but they don’t really want to be in a relationship with a shitty guy.
I’m probably wrong though
Cool theory, I like it. I would also present a counter-theory or add on that 9/10+ guys AND girls (of various personalities) start to acknowledge and believe that they are in the top tier of attractiveness and then start to believe they deserve someone on a level that may or may not actually exist (unicorns).
Yeah I completely agree with this and I think of it as an add on. I just think there’s something about being super super attractive all your life that makes you more likely to be a boring or shitty person. However Most people grow and change as they get older so it’s not necessarily forever
People are too afraid to approach them since they always just assume they’re single
I don't think I agree with this, an even if it is true then it's all because of the females themselves because females have the choice to choose between an ocean of potential partners whereas guys have to be peacocks just to get looked at and potentially chosen.
I don't see it a lot in my country but where this is true, it's probably because what is prettiest often costs the most (in terms of time, resources, and effort) to get and to maintain, comes with the greatest number of complications and complexities, and depreciates the fastest.
They're either taken or damaged. That's my opinion. The single ones are damaged and undatable. Those are the ones that will talk to you as long as you'll give them attention, but have no intention of going out.
Men are afraid to approach women who look very attractive. so you will find many women who are single do have that beautiful look. it is harder sometimes for attractive women to date when men are scared off by looks.
Maybe cause they're pickier. Or men only like them for their looks.
I'm not sure this is the case with me. I'm young so maybe I just haven't met the right man yet.
Because once we do give a guy a chance he fucks it up tryna be “that nigga”
A lot of it is because of trust issues. Attractive women tend to have a lot of life experience with people trying to use them.
I don't have to prove something to others. Really, I like men but at the moment I don't have time and motivation for a serious relationship.