Is this caption my boyfriend wrote something worthy of dumping him over? please see image?

[Anonymous]

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Other respectful opinions please. I am confused, not crazy.

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Any other opinions?

[ItsMeElliana]

honestly, I'd be upset knowing that. if only he said "She" instead of "they" and basically I was his only high school crush, then sure lmao
but saying "they" means there's multiple girls he has a crush on. and they're finer now... so like they were fine before and are finer now, so basically he does find them all attractive.
but the question here arises is do you trust him or not.
I'd say it is dump-worthy, because he deleted the post later, thinking maybe because you saw it, and he probably didn't want you to know
honestly why tf do people even post these kinds of things, like it was so unnecessary of him to reply to that post, and imagine not remembering that you have a girlfriend who would see it
Ma'am I'd ask you to move on and maybe you should go and love yourself, and wait for the right guy to come along

[TazzyRazzy13]

Based on your responses to others I would dump the guy.

You're not fb friends, but you're a couple, and his status is single. I know guys who barely get on their Facebook but will update their relationship status as soon as it changes.

As far as him posting that, kind of disrespectful with other the other factors put into it. I would find it disrespectful. But I would kick him to the curb, sounds like he's hiding stuff to me.

[Asker]

So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[TazzyRazzy13]

Because he's trying to hide the things he's doing. I have the ability to see who view my Facebook stories, so if it was a story, maybe he seen you saw it. At the end of the day, the way he seems to be hiding you is sketchy at best. Drop him and find someone better. You deserve better.

[Asker]

It wasn’t a story. It was a post. We’re not friends on fb and he doesn’t know that I saw that because I never mentioned it, so as far as he know I never saw it so why would he delete?

[TazzyRazzy13]

Because he's an idiot. Seems like you're hyperfixating on a guy who you're a girlfriend of, yet, you're not Facebook friends with and his status is listed as single, yet he has had the time to change his status and add you as a friend. No one knows of you for a reason. Who cares why he deleted the post. Dump him and move on.

[Asker]

I realized why he deleted it. Because I accidentally sent him a friend request from my actual Facebook account and he saw that, and I guess he tried to go through and delete all of his posts that he though I might find offensive. I later asked him if he deleted anything shared posts from his Facebook since (at that point in time) last night, and he said no. I asked him over and over again if he deleted any posts from his Facebook, and again, he denied. I said “I have screen shots” then he went to repeating “I don’t remember” over and over again and began deflecting. I dumped him on the spot. He was a liar.

[TazzyRazzy13]

Good job on dumping him, sorry that you had to go through it though. You deserve so much better than a guy like that.

[Asker]

Agreed. Thank you for your answers and taking the time to reply.

[TrinityJadez]

IM BEGGING YOU DON’T LISTEN TO THESE IDIOT MEN. Please break up with him. Why is he even saying his high school crushes are still attractive, like why is he even thinking about them in that manner. I literally stopped finding other men attractive after my boyfriend. I can ofc tell if they are a good looking human being but I’m not like oh yeah he’s fine af. Cause no I feel wrong. Because I HAVE A BOYFRIEND WHO I LOVE

[Asker]

I realized why he deleted this post from his Facebook. Because I accidentally sent him a friend request from my actual Facebook account and he saw that, and I guess he tried to go through and delete all of his posts that he though I might find offensive. I later asked him if he deleted anything shared posts from his Facebook since (at that point in time) last night, and he said no. I asked him over and over again if he deleted any posts from his Facebook, and again, he denied. I said “I have screen shots” then he went to repeating “I don’t remember” over and over again and began deflecting. I dumped him on the spot. He was a liar.

[ImJustSomeGuyLol]

Ngl I would've thought you were a teen lol. Relax, people are attracted to other people who aren't their partners. This is totally normal for guys and girls, as long as he is not acting on these crushes, if he's not seeking out these women, or they aren't seeking him out then it's just harmless attraction.

You're just as entitled to find other men attractive like he finds other women attractive, as long as there is love, and you trust each other, no harm done. Don't throw a relationship away for something so trivial.

[Asker]

It’s just the fact that he verbalized it publicly on fb that had me bothered. I felt it could be disrespectful. Not to mention, his fb relationship status is single. So I was just adding everything up

[ImJustSomeGuyLol]

Tbh I find the relationship status part more concerning than the caption. I would even say thats more fuel here than the actual caption. But some people just don't care to update their life statuses. If that's your concern, let him know, I doubt he'd have any problem updating that.

[Asker]

So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[zeitgeist057]

He's single, you can't break up with him because he's single, as per his Facebook. Maybe he broke up with you and you didn't realize it, or you were never boyfriend/girlfriend and you assumed wrong. Sounds like you two have different ideas of what your relationship status is, and what is acceptable behavior.

[scooogy]

It took me three attempts to make sure that these words even belong together in one sentence.

[Asker]

Lmao yeah I feel ya. But since making this question, he randomly took the post down so I’m confused

[scooogy]

Don't read such stuff if you don't want to end up confused 😜

[Asker]

I realized why he deleted it. Because I accidentally sent him a friend request from my actual Facebook account and he saw that, and I guess he tried to go through and delete all of his posts that he though I might find offensive. I later asked him if he deleted anything shared posts from his Facebook since (at that point in time) last night, and he said no. I asked him over and over again if he deleted any posts from his Facebook, and again, he denied. I said “I have screen shots” then he went to repeating “I don’t remember” over and over again and began deflecting. I dumped him on the spot. He was a liar.

[Mangospacho]

If his high school crushes are finer now, it means he has a knack for finding good quality women and now he’s dating you, which means he would easily put you in that category.

[Asker]

So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[Mangospacho]

Just text him “so your high school crushes are finer now, huh?” And then don’t respond back to him for a few hours.

[Asker]

That’s funny, but why would he randomly delete the post though?

[Mangospacho]

I think this would be a question for him.

[zeitgeist057]

he's on gag and saw this question

[Mangospacho]

@zeitgeist057 I think you may be right. He saw this and panicked and now is denying its entire existence.

[Asker]

Lmao doubt it, my boyfriend doesn’t use apps like these.

[ItsMeElliana]

or what if he does... D:
lmao you might be right...

[Asker]

However. @zeitgeist057 was right about denying its existence. I realized why he deleted it. Because I accidentally sent him a friend request from my actual Facebook account and he saw that, and I guess he tried to go through and delete all of his posts that he though I might find offensive. I later asked him if he deleted anything shared posts from his Facebook since (at that point in time) last night, and he said no. I asked him over and over again if he deleted any posts from his Facebook, and again, he denied. I said “I have screen shots” then he went to repeating “I don’t remember” over and over again and began deflecting. I dumped him on the spot. He was a liar.

[Anonymous]

Yeah right, dumping your boyfriend because he finds other women attractive. What a smart move. You'll do him and yourself a favor.

or you could become confident and get over it.

[Asker]

I just didn’t know if verbalizing it publicly was disrespectful

[Opinion Owner]

Can't say. I keep my thoughts for myself most of the times. Not to avoid a situation like yours but because I'm used to do it since a fairly young age.

[Asker]

Understood. So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[Opinion Owner]

No idea. I don't sit on social media. Ask him. You've seen it.

[TheBigGuy9]

Who cares. No, it’s not worthy of dumping him. Well, unless you’re not confident in yourself.

[Asker]

I realized why he deleted it. Because I accidentally sent him a friend request from my actual Facebook account and he saw that, and I guess he tried to go through and delete all of his posts that he though I might find offensive. I later asked him if he deleted anything shared posts from his Facebook since (at that point in time) last night, and he said no. I asked him over and over again if he deleted any posts from his Facebook, and again, he denied. I said “I have screen shots” then he went to repeating “I don’t remember” over and over again and began deflecting. I dumped him on the spot. He was a liar.

[TheBigGuy9]

Obviously there is more to this story.

[Asker]

Yeah, that he’s a liar and a failed attempt to hide something from me! Haha

[TheBigGuy9]

Because what you listed is not means to be dumped, but hiding something? Sounds like he has a girlfriend already if he’s deleting messages.

[Asker]

Well. Clearly you didn’t read my first response. I caught him in a lie, and then he kept denying the truth when I had screenshots to prove which is the reason why I dumped him.

[TheBigGuy9]

I read what you wrote.

Hence why I asked you a question. From reading what I wrote, you should have come to the conclusion that all I did was misinterpret what you said.

[SnakeBoop]

why would it?

[Asker]

Disrespectful to say publicly when you have a girlfriend

[SnakeBoop]

meh, dude is allowed eyes that work. sounds like you're very insecure. maybe try talking about it if its really upsetting you.

[Asker]

Yeah. It’s not what he said really. It’s the fact that he posted it publicly on Facebook. I feel like those type of thoughts should be kept to your self in a relationship. But yeah I will talk to him, I just don’t want to seem like I’m being irrational.

[SnakeBoop]

dumping him over it would be irrational straight away, definitely have a chat with him instead on it :)

[Asker]

So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[Anonymous]

I'll say this, if you confronted him and he invalidates you than dump him

[Asker]

Sigh. The only difference is we aren’t fb friends and he doesn’t know that I looked him up and saw that. :(

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I'm so sorry. That means he did that behind your back if it was recent. If it was before you dated, forgive him.

[Asker]

It wasn’t. It was today:(

[Asker]

And his Facebook profile says single. Sigh.

[Opinion Owner]

Find someone who appreciates you. If he wants to be single, let him. He doesn't deserve you

[Asker]

I agree with you. Does it make a difference that we are in a long distance relationship and have been dating for 10 months?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure. It could be possible that he thought you'd be easy or he was bored. Either way, that's unfortunate

[Asker]

So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe one of his/your friends called him out on it

[boobliker]

I have no idea waht he is putting on the board?

[zeitgeist057]

Translation: My boyfriend posted on his social media that he found and still finds his ex girlfriends attractive, should I break up with him?

[JamesRandiDebates]

What's the blue thing supposed to be?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Basically it means “no cap”

[JosyJosy]

You're overthinking

[Asker]

Possibly. So I just checked his page again, and he deleted this post. He doesn’t know that I can see his fb page and I never brought this up to him. Why would he suddenly / randomly delete it?

[JosyJosy]

I'd just talk about it.

[Asker]

I can’t he hates when I question him about social media. It starts arguments between us. Hence me secretly checking his page. I just wonder what would provoke him to delete that post 🤔🤔🤔

[JosyJosy]

maybe out of respect for you