Do you accept and support/date trans people?

Question

Do you believe, suport them?

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

This is a loaded question, so I won't answer this, but will tell you what I think:

- I support the right for people to do whatever they want if it doesn't interfere with the lives of others. If you want to believe you're a "woman on the inside," you do you.

- I DON'T "accept" trans people automatically, no. I accept people on an individual basis and this is no different than any other member of society.

- No, I would not date a trans-person because I'm not homosexual. I'm not going to date a man dressed up and living his life as a 'woman,' or date a woman who looks and presents herself as a 'man.' I am not only exclusively attracted to women, but only heterosexual women. I wouldn't even date a part-time lesbian ("bi").

- I'm willing to be friends with the right transpeople who are accepting of my believes and respectful to others, even if they do not share their same trans-beliefs. The immature, entitled, "everyone who doesn't capitulate to my delusions and gender fantasies" people, can exit through the door face first, however.

- To recap, I treat (most) people as individuals and I'm not the type to easily be goaded into thoughts or beliefs I don't agree with under peer pressure or the empty threat of being called "a bigot" or "transphobe" or any other crap I'd laugh off.

- I reject loaded "all or nothing" questions like these, so because your question was loaded and asked in bad faith, I voted "No."

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I have no problem with people who genuinely suffer from sexual dysphoria. I have two good friends who transitioned as adults. They're good people, just want to live their lives, and have no agenda.
But it seems to be a fad for kids who hit puberty to suddenly think they are trans. And schools, government and the medical establishment encourage it.
It's like it a cool thing to do.
And I have total disdain for grown men who suddenly decide that they are women and then want access to women's only facilities and women's sporting competitions.

I've always been supportive of LGB rights, too. But I've become strongly opposed to the radical LGBTQ agenda. Fuck alt sexual, pan sexual, gender fluid and the idea of multiple genders, not that I care what consenting adults do with each other.

As far as I'm concerned, a guy who gets cosmetically changed to look like a woman is still a guy. He doesn't have a uterus or ovaries, doesn't menstruate, can't get pregnant, and won't go through menopause. I wouldn't ever date a tranny. I like women.

cryscrys1 · Accepted Answer

I accept support and believe trans forever..
If I don’t or you don’t then truly who cares what’s your opinion. Who are you? Low you standard please. You are not god. Go wipe your ass.
Honestly just let other people leave , not your job to judge. Life is short try to fix your life first than try to think of others.
Trans people deserve to be mentally free and happy. From what I have noticed some of them are very weak because of stigma and worries and stressed of others judgments.
Trans people - You do not own your life and happiness to anyone. This journey is between YOU and GOD. God created you this way you are already blessed you have god permission to be who you are. So walk your journey proud with your head high. ⭐️

Xtcy2083 · Accepted Answer

What you have here is three questions in one. Here, let me untangle them for ya.
1. Do you accept trans people?
2. Do you support trans people?
3. Do you date trans people?
Q1. I've never had any issues with them, so I guess I do.
Q2. "Support" in what way? This question isn't very clear.
Q3. I've never dated a transsexual, no.

Wade12345 · Answer

No. I think homosexuality and transexualism is a form of insanity, and needs to be treated with probably hormone therapy, psychiatric medications, and counseling of what normal sexual behavior and orientation is supposed to be. Now we have democrat lawmakers promoting this insanity and actually suggesting taking gender off birth certificates and letting an entire generation of children grow up "choosing" whether they are male or female. This is MADNESS. Unless you're one of those incredibly rare people born a Homorphrodite, gender is not a choice. I remember several years ago on Wheel of Fortune, there was a Puzzle which the solution was "X and Y chromosomes" and then the woman who solved the puzzle had to give what those chromosomes determine, and she correctly said "Gender". Your Gender is determined by your X and Y chromosomes and obviously if you are XX you have a vagina and that makes you a woman. If you have XY you have a penis and that makes you a man. If you have a genetic defect, such as XXY, you MAY have been born with both a penis and a vagina. IF that's the case, then you DO have a choice what to do with yourself. For everyone else, your Gender is what God assigned to you at the moment of your conception.

I feel the same way about women letting men screw them up the anus or cum in their mouths. That causes all sorts of medical problems when sperm sometimes enter and attempt to "fertilize" certain cells they aren't designed to enter. They don't tell you porn addicts that they pay the women anywhere from $10k to $50k or more to make a video and let the guy do whatever he wants with her. IN real life, you're asking for diseases caused just by malfunctioning sperm trying to fertilize the wrong cells and tissues.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Well one of my friends is trans, so yeah lol. also you need to update your answers its no longer classed as a disorder

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I will accept your choice to switch your gender so long as you are accountable of that decision and you respect the fact that although I support your choice, I will still see you as your birthed gender. If I can respect you to that degree, I expect the same in return. I will not tolerate being bullied or being called bigoted for my views that you personally don't agree with.

I would also refrain from dating someone who was trans for the same reason above. I prefer people who are biologically who they are at birth. If you are born a woman, you are a woman. You are born a man, you are a man.

Shaggy_KW · Answer

Gender dysphoria is a mental illness and it should be treated by getting the appropriate therapy. That doesn't mean a therapist that will help you get comfy with your "new" you. No, I mean get you into a proper headspace, mental illness shouldn't be encouraged. That's like getting really depressed and deciding to just live with it instead of getting help. I really hate to be that guy but just because you feel like you're a girl or vice versa, doesn't mean you actually are one. Gender is decided by your hormones and genitalia, even if you dislike it. Even if you get all the hormone blockers and the surgery, you will always be what you were born as. Life is unfair, you will have more problems than wishing you were a different gender in life, you don't get to choose unfortunately and I will die on this hill.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Accept? Yes. Support? Depends on the definition. I support their decision to transition (provided they are 18 years old). But I don’t think it should be paid for with tax payer dollars, perhaps private insurers.
I don’t support these latest moves to redefine gender, or gender norms, or take over womens sports.
As for dating them? I typically would only date someone I could see a future with. I’m not saying I would never, but it’s unlikely.

Anonymous · Answer

If it's up to me, I would date a trans person if they are feminine enough for me, after all I'm attracted to femininity no matter what gender it's on. However, I'm part of a particular society, so it's not completely up to me who I date, there's limits to what I should do, so I would neither date them nor support them, and I wouldn't also hate them, I would just set on the fence and mind my own business, with being completely neutral towards them. That's how I don't hurt them or disrupt my societies structure that I respect.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

What do you mean by accept? Do I acknowledge their existence? Yeah of course, they’re human beings. They’re humans and having an experience through this weird world we call reality / earth. If they’re happy, I’m happy.

Would I date one? No, not my cup of tea.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

If they're old enough to make that transition, then yeah, I support their right to transition and I won't treat them like shit due to that.

That being said, I don't consider them to be biological and they should be open about it when it comes to dating/hookups, etc, because not everyone is into that.

Anonymous · Answer

I sleep with a trans women because it's a fetish for me and that's it. Those people are purposely throwing their hormones out of whack of course they're going to be crazy and irrational and on top of that everybody knows you can't change your gender just because you feel a different way. And I'm one of those assholes who can usually get a trans woman because I'm manipulative and I know what types of guys that are looking to avoid so I play the role of the other type of person that they would want. I'm a piece of shit and I know it and I love it

Anonymous · Answer

I don't support them. I think trans people are just mentally ill people who wanna be something they're clearly not. Trans men are women in disguise who pump themselves with all types of drugs and plastic surgery and trans women are just men playing dress up who also pump themselves full of pills and have plastic surgery. So in conclusion, they're disgusting people who need mental help.

Rei13 · Answer

I support everyone to do what makes them happy so long as it isn’t hurting anyone else and hope they find the person for them. Personally, I would not date a trans-person as I’m attracted to biological men and would only date/marry such. Regardless of how you identify you’re still biologically male or female (or unisex in rare cases)

RolandCuthbert · Answer

It seems that folks seem to ask the same type of question over and over again. Do you support gays? Do you support trans? It is just a useless question. Because what does it mean to "support"?

I could support a law protecting them from discrimination. I am not a cowardly troll, I wouldn't talk crap here about them, then smile to their faces in public. I am not cruel to people or support abusing anyone.

I don't know if that is supporting gays/trans or not.

dustybiker · Answer

Good people come in all packages. Date? Already taken. I respect and support everyone that crosses my path, unless they disrespect me first. I will tease and lightly challenge people to see how they tick. I would never knock someone for personal and private choices.

Rob70 · Answer

I believe they have the right to do as they feel is right for them. I have never dated and don't have interest in dating a trans person but am friends with a few. I think everyone should be free to do as they please as long as it doesn't harm another person. Gay/straight/Trans we are all human and deserve to live our lives in a way we are happy and without harrasment from others

Wester1967 · Answer

Fine. I support anyone's wishes to do anything they want. No matter how much hormone therapy anyone does, no matter how many surgeries, the chromosomes do not change. Show me a woman with an X and Y chromosome. There are none. Sorry boss. ... And further, it costs multiple 10s of thousands of dollars to go full trans. I'm poor and working class. I date working class women. I do not live my life in service to pharmaceutical company shareholders and insanely overpaid doctors. Keep it moving. Bye.

normalice · Answer

I think they have the right of equal protection of the law. Beyond that i guess i dont see the point. If the goal is to be able to sleep with men without telling them if born with a penis, that's never going to be acceptable because it's a lie by omission. But if that's not the goal and we're truly only interested in easier sports and a whole new language made out of pronouns, I don't understand why anyone gives enough of a shit to object.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope. I have zero interest in them.
Also people who cut their junk off or have other body altering surgery, just because they can't let go of stereotypes, are mentally ill.
No such thing as a male or female way of thinking, so "being in the wrong body" makes no sense.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I accept them, but wouldn't want to date one. I have no issues being friends with them, hanging out but not really interested in dating or a relationship with them.

Don't think a Transgender man could get me pregnant to have kids with.

_Lucian · Answer

I accept them but I probably wouldn't date one. I'm a little gender dysphoric. I'm fine being a guy but I wouldn't mind and would accept being a girl if I was born as one (I'm straight). If a person feels they need to transition to have a good, happy life, good for them, I support it. However, I couldn't ever do it since its not 100% real in my eyes.

ItsOnlyMe70 · Answer

I'll believe the science and science proves there's only 2 genders, so trans-gender is in their mind. I'm not going to go out of my way to support them or will I go out of my way to non-support them. Don't demand people change their way of talking just to please you because it's not going to happen

AaronKrieger · Answer

I accept and support them. Even one of my siblings is trans.

When it comes to sports I'm iffy on it, since it depends on the sport and individual. Dating wise I probably would date someone that's trans if I had chemistry with them

iseekpinetrees · Answer

I accept but could care less what's going on in the trans world. I am curious what a penis to a pussy looks like but that's about it. Wouldn't date one the whole mental fight always going on inside their mind would get tiring to be around.

Leonharted · Answer

I'm married, so I won't date anybody, including them. If I was single, I wouldn't date them. But I don't care what they do to their bodies. The athleticism thing is a problem that needs to be addressed in some way, though.

Cherry234 · Answer

Yes, I accept and support trans people. I would date a trans person if I like him. I don't want children anyway so it's a bonus that he can't get me pregnant. In fact, I want to avoid getting pregnant as much as possible.

matchrestore · Answer

I have trans and non-binary friends, and if I wasn't already married, I'd happily date someone who is trans or non-binary.

JosyJosy · Answer

I support it. If we are friends for years, and you come out as a trans, you won't like change as a person, maybe not on the inside, you're still the you I know. And that's okay, be yourself.

Date, however... No I probably wouldn't

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Yes. If I was single and looking to date I wouldn't find dating a trans person weird. Have a couple friends who are trans, one who just recently came out.

humpbackjack · Answer

I don’t think I know any regardless I wouldn’t be an asshole unless they were assholes but as far as dating them I wouldn’t want to date a female that use to be a male

melanieeeB · Answer

Accept- yes Support- yes if it is an adult, who really made that choice by themselves and truly feel that way Date- nope never

Anonymous · Answer

I support their decision, doesn’t affect my life.
I would not date one. I date to marry, and I want children. And before you say it: ‘MTF?’ No, I am not attracted to females, even if they have make genitalia and can get me pregnant.

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

I accept transgenders as long as they aren’t affecting others. I would never date a transgender

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I absolutely accept them and am panromantic so I'd be absolutely fine dating one as well.

Stars12122 · Answer

I think your poll needs to be reworked. Do I accept and support trans people, yes. Will I date one, no. These are really two separate statements.

IAMNathanael · Answer

They should live how they want, doesn't bother me. However I can't accept that you can make an actual transition.

EnglishArtsteacher · Answer

Accept, yes.  Support, yes.  Date, no.

godfatherfan · Answer

Your poll is flawed. I support anyone's right to live how they want but I would never date one.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I tolerate their existence, and remain passive. But I see no reason to accept or to support them in general.

FlutteringFeelings · Answer

I accept and respect everyone. Will someone force me to agree with policies or rules? No.

joeldalton · Answer

Nope. I think we will find indulging in their mental illness will be to their detriment

jasco · Answer

I don't date them or hate them. I don't like them or love them. If my girl doesn't tell me before hand that she's transgender, and I find out. I shall leave

t-8900 · Answer

I'm straight and a Christian so no way. I stayed out of prison for good reason 😊

slatyb · Answer

I accept them. I would be unlikely to date one. Very very few can pass.

sheikalana · Answer

Absolutely! I have never dated a transgender but I would totally date one if we had a great connection.

JHNS98 · Answer

At one time I was talking to a trans girl on a dating app. We never met though. As for trans people in general, I have no issues with them.

Anonymous · Answer

I accept and support being transgender. But I would only date a trans person who had fully transitioned. Not sure which of your options reflects my position, so I didn't pick.

JCrockett · Answer

No. They're deluded and disgusting. They're not valid at all, and it couldn't be more obvious.

humanearth · Answer

Hell I fall into that grey area. Some CRossdressers fall into that group. They are called Transvestites

Jessica405 · Answer

No. I would not date one. However, as to supporting them, I remain neutral.

Tyrael · Answer

Support? Up to a point. Date? I'm not sure I would.

KatherineJ · Answer

Because they are trans? No. Because they are also human beings? Yep. Each of us has the obligation to acknowledge the human worth of everyone.

Deserter · Answer

It's a mental illness and it shouldn't be enabled. If they want me to call them he or her than fine, but just cause they identify as such doesn't mean they are

007kingifrit · Answer

gender can't be observed or falsfified. its therefore a religious idea not a science. so i don't believe in gender at all. therefore nobody can be "transgender"

jshm2 · Answer

A fake product is one that doesn't stand the test of the real thing. Trans folk fail such tests.

Dragonpurple · Answer

How would you support them or not? I do not care what someone chooses to do or not.

Staximus · Answer

If I identified as a tree everybody would think I'm nuts, right? I'm clearly not a tree.

Randalama · Answer

No, I don't think my support and acceptance is required. I support and accept individuals based upon their behavior. Trans has nothing to do with it.

TexasRed95 · Answer

I support them. You do you as long as no one else gets hurt. I wouldn't date anyone that's trans though.

TallAnon · Answer

I don't support anyone besides my family and friends Accept them? For what? The olympics? No. For them to live their own lives? Sure, none of my business.

AdithyaR · Answer

Yep, I support and accept them. I'm also open to date them.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Accept - yesSupport - yes, no one is getting hurt. Date - no.

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