No, because I could never be sure that the person loves me.. Additionally, it would also mean that If I chose to change jobs she would leave, meaning I could possibly be forced to stay in a shit job where it's causing me huge amounts of stress, because if I changed I'd lose my family. Fuck that.
No, someone who chooses to date someone else because of money, is just not worthy of attention or respect.
Be glad your a woman, the men who cares about what women work with is a minority. Men don't have that luxury, we will almost always be judged on what we bring to the table, so even if it's not spoken out loudly a man who loses his job for a long period of time will lose his woman. It's the hard truth. It doesn't matter if we want or feels it doesn't matter. It's written in female nature.
I don't see how my job would be the determining factor of why someone would date me, lol.
I think that it could be one of the many factors to take into account like seeing if I'm financially stable and to see where I'm at in life. But dating just because of my job doesn't make sense to me unless they wanted to marry me for my benefits.
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I wouldn't be okay with it and I wouldn't do that to someone else either. However, I want a man that's financially stable and secure so it's important to me that he has a decent job or a decent income if he doesn't work for an employer (self-employed). I don't want a man that's extremely poor but he doesn't have to make six figures either. I'm not going to date a doctor, a lawyer, or a CEO if I don't like him because I'm not a gold digger.
Your job/career (which is an indicator of work ethic, commitment, and drive) and how you take care of yourself and your health are usually important factors that should be taken into account.
No one really wants a lazy bum with no ambition who doesn't take care of them selves, and that is totally okay.
No, I want a guy that dates me, not my job. But if we take it to less of an extreme, and we say that only part of the reason is my job, and it isn't about the money, but more because they find me interesting because of my job, that is a whole other story.
Given a lot of guys will bring up their jobs as a way to impress women. I'd say many don't mind if that's part of the equation of why a woman wants them. Although most wouldn't want that to be the only reason. More of a way to get her attention.
Well, I actual mind but usual when they find out what an unlucky artist actual does, they are shocked how much work it is... and then it doesn't matter
I would allow a girl to date me for a variety of reasons, as long as I have good time and she puts out. Sometime you just enjoy being around person regardless if its a long term or even committed relationship as long as your both honest about it.
Men don't value a woman by what she can make, or what career she has. Men start with looks, and then personally, then compatibility.
If he is prioritizing her money, then something is up. He is likely thinking how to use her to get her money.
This is a good question. TBH, I think no. I'm with you. That's why I get turned off when a girl asks me about my job. It's like "what do you want?"
I don't want any gold diggers.
One way to deal with this situation (as a man that is) is to downplay the job title. Say if you are a software developer, you can say you work as a software tester instead. I know, lying isn't good but how would we know, that a woman truly loves us and not for the amount of money that we are making as the job market points out?
This question is an oxymoron. They’re not dating you. They’re dating your job.
While a job may make a difference, I can't imaging dating a woman solely due to her job.
And I doubt any woman would date me for my job. Any ladies looking for a software geek?
I would not be ok since he would leave if i loose my job
No, I think that would quickly become apparent.
Nope i dont date for money
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No, I wouldn’t
Nope.
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