My Basic question : Is a Woman being Divorcee a Issue for You? ๐ค๐
** In Some Country/ Society, Some People don't have a Positive outlook Towards a Divorcee Woman and they see her more like a " Guilty " ๐๐
"Will you date and marry to a woman who got divorced recently from her husband, or would you prefer a single and never married girl when it comes to date and marry?"
1. I would date a woman who was recently divorced but I would be extremely careful if I was the first guy she dated after her divorce. It is easy to become very attached to the first partner you date after a divorce but that attachment tends to not last over time, so I would be very careful. I would prefer to date someone who has been divorced for at least a few years but I might give a chance to a recently divorced woman if I saw some very desirable qualities in her.
2. I will be 67 years old next month. I am now in a relationship, living with my girlfrend, so I am not in the dating pool. However, if I re-entered the dating pool (which I am hopig won't happen,) then the odds on me meeting a woman in the right age range (55+) who is single, never married, and not batshit crazy are very low. Very, very low!
@OlderAndWiser that's probably why we chose our usernames on her. I am a wise old SAGE ๐โฎ๏ธ
Depends on the details of why she got divorced... who she was married to.. how long she was married. If she had a really short marriage that's not good. And at my age (if I were single) then divorcee is a possibility. If i was a young guy it wouldn't be because the odds of her having underage kids is high and it's a single mom situation then. To me a divorcee with low body count is better than never married with high body count.
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I am myself a Divorcee and by choice a married a Divorcee with two children...
I personally find Divorcees if smart, have learned what 'sowing their wild oats has gotten them' and hopefully through life experience have gotten their inclinations under better judgement.
Often their appetites are no wiser than most 'Romeo' con artists.
One has to define Who/What they value and commit to and... to get off the dating merry-go-round when you actually HAVE that 'brass ring'.
Youth & beauty are a perishable commodities with a 'best if used by' date.
As that song lyric goes:" ... everybody just wants to 'roll those dice' JUST ONE MORE TIME"
What I would want to know is if she had kids from her ex, and when they got divorced was she the typical woman that ripped him off for stuff he earned, or did she leave with only what she earned? (Did she steal his house, savings, car, etc.)
Being divorced isn't a problem for me, how they ended things and their past/baggage is what matters to me.
Yes. It should be
What do I think about a divorced woman's life?
Nothing, lol.
They're regular people. Two of my closest friends are divorced. I'm super happy for them. They're living their best life, no longer stressed. They genuinely seem happy and glowed up.
Also, my mom was divorced twice? Or 3 times, i dont remember. But at least twice before she met my dad. They've been married 35 years now.
Depends on the story. If the story is like all the others: "he was terrible. he cheated. he left me.", Then I will pass. Why TF did you marry a terrible cheater leaver? Were you that fkn desperate? Really?
do a Girl/Woman can Predict what her husband will do after 1-2 Years?
Might find them attractive, but there are a few questions that I would need answers to.
Why did they divorce?
Is she over him?
Could this just be a rebound?
Did she cheat on her ex?
I am sure I could come up with more.
Have been burnt before. So more careful next time.
It wouldnโt be something Iโd choose first but itโs not something Iโd rule out either. Plenty of variables come into play. Being divorced isnโt a sole or main deciding factor. Iโm currently dating a divorced man even though itโs not something Iโd have ever looked for. Life happens.
Marriage is permanent. You don't get to fail at marriage. If you do, why the f would I want to marry you?
IF So, then Why always a Woman is to Blame for the Failed Marriage?
@priyakigaandme Because she picked the wrong guy. It's a reflection on her judgement.
Maybe she just doesn't have good decision-making abilities. Or maybe she's impulsive.
not really. but i do find women with children less attractive.
Yes. I was talking about those Women who are divorcee and they don't have childeren
yeah nobody is immune to making bad life decisions. but i don't wanna deal with the consequences of those decisions xD
Divorced single mothers are only good for PUMP N DUMPS
No, I don't Agree that they are seen like a " Used Item "
Of course I'd date/marry a Divorcee. And I did. I'm my wife's second husband and she's my third wife.
Great !
a woman's attractiveness doesn't depend on if she is single or not. I know women with a posse of kids that are absolutely gorgeous milfs...
Hmm... So finally?
Obviously, if all other factors are equal, you want the single and never married girl. However, you might accept the divorcee because based on the law of supply and demand, you can get a prettier girl is she is divorced.
I would not date or marry a woman who was divorced for any other reason than if her husband cheated on her. I would rather date and marry a single woman who has never been married or in a relationship.
i don't think i'd marry her but knowing she's divorced wouldn't stop me from having fun with her. doesn't matter what her status is really
Not at my age. If a woman is single in her 40's it's likely she was previously married.
Exactly. It was the done thing back then. Times are changing.
I'm too old to care about something so meaningless. At my age, it's like caring if she's had a boyfriend before. Who cares? As long as she's not a psycho or a drug addict.
Not necessarily and certainly not for being divorced or not as the case maybe
Divorces make me money in this business
It does matter of course a failed marriage/ relationship says a lot
And People tend to blame to woman for the failed marriage?
No its mostly men who get blamed actually
Okay. But Mostly it is the Woman who suffer Most after the Divorce
Somewhat, not fully though. I believe I know little better now.
So You are saying Your Perception has changed Now?
Yes it has.
I knew you are a smart guy.
Thanks for like!
do you know who is the woman in pic?
Not yet. She looks like some Indian celeb. Is she?
What the hell would a divorce have to do with beauty
ALWAYS have sex in your Mind? ๐๐ค
My question was : Do you see any issue if you have to Marry with a Divorcee woman for life time?
I am not talking about One Night stand ๐๐ค
I am not talking about sex, you asked about attractive
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