Will you date and Marry to a Woman who got divorce recently from her Husband, Or Would you prefer a Single and Never Married Girl When it comes to date and Marry ❤ ?
My Basic question : Is a Woman being Divorcee a Issue for You? 🤐😐
** In Some Country/ Society, Some People don't have a Positive outlook Towards a Divorcee Woman and they see her more like a " Guilty " 😐😑
Guys, Do you find a Divorced Women less Attractive? Girls, What do you think about a Divorcee Woman's life?
"Will you date and marry to a woman who got divorced recently from her husband, or would you prefer a single and never married girl when it comes to date and marry?"
1. I would date a woman who was recently divorced but I would be extremely careful if I was the first guy she dated after her divorce. It is easy to become very attached to the first partner you date after a divorce but that attachment tends to not last over time, so I would be very careful. I would prefer to date someone who has been divorced for at least a few years but I might give a chance to a recently divorced woman if I saw some very desirable qualities in her.
2. I will be 67 years old next month. I am now in a relationship, living with my girlfrend, so I am not in the dating pool. However, if I re-entered the dating pool (which I am hopig won't happen,) then the odds on me meeting a woman in the right age range (55+) who is single, never married, and not batshit crazy are very low. Very, very low!
I am 67, but not too many people believe me. I don't have any gray hair and I've been told I look 15 years younger. I get people on GAG asking me "Are you really 67?" 🤷🏼♀️
Depends on the details of why she got divorced... who she was married to.. how long she was married. If she had a really short marriage that's not good. And at my age (if I were single) then divorcee is a possibility. If i was a young guy it wouldn't be because the odds of her having underage kids is high and it's a single mom situation then. To me a divorcee with low body count is better than never married with high body count.
I am myself a Divorcee and by choice a married a Divorcee with two children... I personally find Divorcees if smart, have learned what 'sowing their wild oats has gotten them' and hopefully through life experience have gotten their inclinations under better judgement. Often their appetites are no wiser than most 'Romeo' con artists.
One has to define Who/What they value and commit to and... to get off the dating merry-go-round when you actually HAVE that 'brass ring'. Youth & beauty are a perishable commodities with a 'best if used by' date. As that song lyric goes:" ... everybody just wants to 'roll those dice' JUST ONE MORE TIME"
What I would want to know is if she had kids from her ex, and when they got divorced was she the typical woman that ripped him off for stuff he earned, or did she leave with only what she earned? (Did she steal his house, savings, car, etc.)
Being divorced isn't a problem for me, how they ended things and their past/baggage is what matters to me.
What do I think about a divorced woman's life? Nothing, lol. They're regular people. Two of my closest friends are divorced. I'm super happy for them. They're living their best life, no longer stressed. They genuinely seem happy and glowed up. Also, my mom was divorced twice? Or 3 times, i dont remember. But at least twice before she met my dad. They've been married 35 years now.
Depends on the story. If the story is like all the others: "he was terrible. he cheated. he left me.", Then I will pass. Why TF did you marry a terrible cheater leaver? Were you that fkn desperate? Really?
Might find them attractive, but there are a few questions that I would need answers to. Why did they divorce? Is she over him? Could this just be a rebound? Did she cheat on her ex? I am sure I could come up with more. Have been burnt before. So more careful next time.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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It wouldn’t be something I’d choose first but it’s not something I’d rule out either. Plenty of variables come into play. Being divorced isn’t a sole or main deciding factor. I’m currently dating a divorced man even though it’s not something I’d have ever looked for. Life happens.
Obviously, if all other factors are equal, you want the single and never married girl. However, you might accept the divorcee because based on the law of supply and demand, you can get a prettier girl is she is divorced.
I would not date or marry a woman who was divorced for any other reason than if her husband cheated on her. I would rather date and marry a single woman who has never been married or in a relationship.
I'm too old to care about something so meaningless. At my age, it's like caring if she's had a boyfriend before. Who cares? As long as she's not a psycho or a drug addict.
If I even dated anymore it would depend on who initiated the divorce and why.
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Anonymous
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9 out of 10 are less attractive via attitude towards the opposite sex. Which is derivative from their bad experiences or failures in marriages. Damaged commodities
Less attractive yes. Would you rather have a new car or a used one? New of course! You have no idea what the previous was like or the damage they did to it
not at all a sexy girl is still a girl where ever she has been for the last year or so?
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Anonymous
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Not for me, I like equal status and at least want to be someone's first marriage. Otherwise, they will not be in the same place as mine. If I was divorced then I would have considered it.
People with fairly extreme one sided views will not be able to achieve a successful healthy relationship unless they’re able to learn and adapt in life. It always takes two even if not equally, if one person isn’t able to see it they’re lacking some sort of self awareness. People can also change and not want to be together. There are all sorts of valid reasons. Many petiole don’t truly appreciate what they’re getting into, especially when they marry young. To judge so harshly is ignorant of real life in all honesty. There are divorced people who would be better candidates for a long term partner than some single people. The world just doesn’t realistically exist in such black and white thinking.
Imagine a woman being cheated on and abused. This comment suggest she should just lay down and suck it up like a little lap dog. How can anyone possibly find that attractive. It’s sad. Weird way of looking at it.
@OceanGirl21 "People can also change and not want to be together. There are all sorts of valid reasons." This goes to show you clearly have a modern view of marriage where promising to be together until death actually means until you just dont want to be together. Exactly the kind of idea that makes someone unmarriagable as far as im concerned.
"Imagine a woman being cheated on and abused." The vast majority are not cheated or abused. So lets stop that nonsense. We aren't talking about fringe cases here.
I’m currently dating a divorced man and he has a lot more awareness about what can go wrong in relationships and is much more keen to address it earlier on. I respect that level of maturity and experience that others wouldn’t necessarily have. It makes his and my life easier and it feels safer being with someone who has that kind of foresight and attentiveness towards our relationship.
@OceanGirl21 I think women typically think like that but the question was about divorced women and I don't think most men think about women like that. Part of me believes a non divorced women is less likely to divorce (i believe data backs this up although I dont specifically have a statistic to share with you) while another part of me doesn't even care about that and just wants to be first. The man who is first wins. I would feel like I got a shitty deal by being with a divorced woman. I value a woman with a clean slate more than i value a woman with experience.
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