2nd date with online match?

[charlie_moeller]

there's this girl I matched with online. We hit it off straight away, talked everyday and the flirt/banter ratio was perfect. The last time I heard from her though was last Sunday. I tried to line up a 2nd date, she wanted to do it the following day (always a good sign) but I mentioned having to move house on Monday and Tuesday and would be free Wednesday onwards so just send me your schedule and we'll get it sorted. She agreed but I haven't heard back since...

I don't want to be needy and over chase her, I've given her the option to come back with times twice but I'm also conscious we talked 7-8 times a day and now we haven't spoken at all. I'm also conscious she deleted her dating profile and she has a busy job so I don't want to over pursue.

How should I manage this moving forward?

[exitseven]

I is not being needy to send her an email to tell her how you have liked meeting her and would like to suggest a second date. Maybe figure out an event you know she will like and ask her if she wants to go with you.

[OlderAndWiser]

You probably aren't the only guy who was chasing her and she has chosen to settle in with someone else. Let it go.

[PrettyPriya]

I’d say something similar to “Hey, I know you have been busy moving. When things calm down, give me a shout. I’d love to get together!”.

Something like that. Put the ball in her court.

[Avicenna]

Well, it's possible that she met someone else as well, but what I would do in this instance is contact her and see how she's doing. When she responds and has answered that, suggest a specific date on a specific day.

[TheFlak38]

she enjoyed all the free attention she got from you and now continues to do the same with her other ten thousand options.

[IncognitoBandito]

Give her a few more days and maybe send another casual hi but after that realize she might have met someone else.