My dick wouldn't go in her, was she unattracted to me?

[Jaggerjagger93]

So she's way out of my league, couldn't believe she liked me and wanted to be affectionate with me and we had great banter and all that. We matched online. On our first hang we made out. On our 2nd hang I sort of stuffed up. We organised to eat before hand, she got to my area and didn't plan what to eat, I told her well 'I don't know what you like to eat?' Then we just went back to my place. Was gonna order something but told her what for, I made her a wrap with hummus and tomato. We hooked up, she went down on me and I didn't go down on her, not my thing. I told her I didn't want a serious relationship and to take her on dates because I didn't like her enough to take her to resturants. However then later in the day I got called by my boss and they told me I have to work the weekend so I got really upset. She ended up cuddling me kissed me, then I sort of messed up and told her to leave. She left pretty mad after the hang. She then got really upset at me and pretty vocal after via text saying that she's confused on what I wanted. She then wrote me a paragraph basically saying she doesn't want to see me again and the hanf felt like a serious relationship even though I said I wasn't looking for one and she wasn't either because it's been a week, but it offended her, (my comment) now she deleted her account.

We live in the same area, I'm worried. Will she be upset when she sees me? Was I even rude?

[The1honestguy]

Ok so you didn't really care about she thought or cared about what you said or thought to be asking this question? Easy answer to be looking at yourself and the way you are doing to her to actually have to think how she thinks about you? You could have been taken time to explain everything to her and that you enjoyed her time with her and that is more of your problem if you didn't explain everything to her when you first spoke online or in person. Then she could make her own decisions about the way she would have expected that to happen at that moment. You have and must be 💯 with someone whether or not it pisses them of or hurt their feelings, before you do anything. Lay in out and it's not even going to bother you if you were honest, then you know that it's not your fault they don't like how was going on. If you did everything right, then you wouldn't be asking this question because you were thinking about yourself and only reason how you think about it when you were not honest and told her exactly how you wanted things then she is the one who makes the decision to be with you either way. Look at yourself before you try and be with anyone else please. You are wasting both of your time mostly her's that's the only one really

[Mossberg500]

First of all, you're way too passive-aggressive kid. Do not be fooled but societal bending propaganda. Women expect to be led.

The problem is you 'weren't rude enough.' I'm not saying be an outright dick, or even rude. If she's nice enough she deserves respect, but you've also got to command your space and that includes her's; As a man does. Take charge. As nature demands. Very few women are turned on by overtly nice guys (especially in the beginning.) Be more selfish, it suggests confidence, women are strange creatures, this is what they crave. Even the Neo-Feminists out there know I'm right, but don't expect them to admit it.

She wants to be "Taken." Try it if you get a second date, would be interested to know how it goes.

[Mossberg500]

Lmao, nevermind. I should never answer before I read the story I suppose. I was answering the title.

The story makes you out to be a douche-bag in general. You certainly superseded my advice. I'm not sure who is the woman in this relationship with your emo-erratic behavior.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

What does the title have to do with the description?
Regardless, I’m glad she got out of there, you sound like a mess.

[Jaggerjagger93]

Well, that's the background story. But when we hooked up I couldn't even put my dick in her? Why?

[888theGreat]

yea, the monster that wouldn't fit. Must be 2 feet long and 1 foot wide or she was born without an opening down there

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

She was probably extremely turned off, I wouldn’t be surprised.

[Jaggerjagger93]

Only the tip would go in? Is it because I didn't go down on her? Like she foreplayed the most?

[888theGreat]

that would have nothing to do with it. Babies can drop a baby , so your dickie should go in

[Jaggerjagger93]

@888theGreat so why didn't it go in?

[888theGreat]

you couldn't get it hard

[Jaggerjagger93]

@888theGreat I was hard the whole time though man. Why wasn't she wet down there?

[Anonymous]

what does your dick have to do with the story.. huh?
the heck

[Iron_Man]

How is that possible she either has dryness down there or you don’t have a fully loaded you know what at this time

[Jaggerjagger93]

I was horny though, was she just not into it?

[Iron_Man]

Maybe she was dry I don’t know

[Jaggerjagger93]

Yeah but how xould she have been dry? Sher initiated foreplay?

[Iron_Man]

The best thing for you to do is have a sit down face-to-face talk I have no idea what she’s thinking

[Ninania]

You were rude to her, so she dumped you.