Is it too early to mention that I ONLY want an exclusive relationship on the first date? (Page 2)

[fonduegirl]

Make it clear ASAP. It's a good idea. That way both sides can clarify the direction of the relationship.

[melanieeeB]

Well I used adress that when the topic came up naturally, it's different with each person tho

[TheFlak38]

this is the bitch who sees dating as a job interview for men who want to enslave themselves and put up with the bullshit and irrational demands of an entitled narcissistic slave master

[fred_durst]

i think it is good for people to be straight and honest as early as possible , so if they want different things , they can just move on and avoid wasting time

[Guanfei]

It's the base. You don't date several people at the same time, only one.
In which demented world do people consider it acceptable to not be exclusive?

[Red_Dawn123]

This one…unfortunately.

[globetrotter22]

I am glad you are being honest. Probably best to bring this up before sex.

[slatyb]

It's an unreasonable demand if you aren't intimate. Bring it up before having sex.

[moonpie89]

Way too early on the first date especially when you barley know the person. Takes a little time to get to know if the person is worth dating or not

[MJtheCoach]

I live in South Asia. Girls here have zero girlF material skills and they all right away say they want a relationship. So most men lie to them once they get the girls in bed they run away.

[jerdanro]

If you are meeting guys on dating sites, you should put that right in your profile. That way they know from the start and it's less awkward than bringing it up on the first date.

[Not_Average]

Nah continue to be straightforward. Don’t waste time

[exitseven]

If it gets to three dates maybe you could talk about it.

[SenseiSeptred]

Do you have room in your heart for polyamorous relationships whether it is about people, or food as an example?

[CallmeTheKnight]

It's best to be upfront and clear as possible to let your intentions be known.

[Shiningtempest]

It's not too early to mention wanting an exclusive relationship because both people need to be on the same page about dating goals.

[bamesjond0069]

Sooner the better. Some of us men want to date girls like you but y'all stay quiet and we have to date a lot of undateable girls to find any like you.

[ImJustSomeGuyLol]

Feels bro! 😂

[msc545]

Maybe after three dates or maybe not at all. You are very likely to scare people off with this kind of ultimatum.

[EaterPeter]

Or at least have 2 dates. you should be opening up about certain things little later. That way you're giving a chance to yourself and other person.

[007kingifrit]

these are first date things to bring up. i would even say how long you expect to date before engagement (roughly)

and how many kids you want

[Anonymous]

I suggest waiting until you feel there is a reasonable chance of a serious relationship developing between the two of you.

[pppppppprrrriyanka]

I guess you're right in your way... And love is not a waste of time it's a pure feeling and open your heart for the right person i hope she'll meet you soon

[Tstrbrainer]

Bring it up before the first date. Don't unnecessarily waste others time

[Drumlin2001]

Get it out in the open as early as possible

[jahaims]

No, that's the way it should be

[Anonymous]

the sooner the better...

[red324]

Girls always say this online.

[Jamie05rhs]

Tell him right away. He will appreciate it!

[dudeinohio]

The earlier the better.

[Kiran_Yagami]

No, be up front with your boundaries.

[emperor90]

I personally would wait 3 dates before saying

[Slim57]

Nope never too early to mention that

[es20490446e]

soon is better.