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Based off your experience, when you fell for someones personality rather than their looks, did you last?

DizzyDesii
So i just dropped a new mixtape, I mean mytake, but I realized i left out one guy. He was the one person who had a personality that i was more attracted to than his looks. He was such a great guy and I do feel I loved him just as he loved me. But remember, I said I need to be IN LOVE to surpass such flaws. What I felt for him was sadly not unconditional. By month 3, I left him for someone who I was previously into before having met him. The person i left him for was someone I had wanted forever and someone who had the personality of the guy above, yet he also had the looks. He had one upped the man. Yea it probably sounds shallow, but I just have to go for someone who I am initially attracted to both the looks and personality of. Otherwise, i probably won't stick around for long. But after having hurt that man, I’ve chosen not to put another guy through that pain just because he may have had a great personality. So I’m asking this because I constantly see people saying looks dont matter. But have you lasted with the person who’s looks you didn't give a damn about? #FeelFreeToList #WhoDoYouLove #LooksDoMatter
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Its fine to fall for one before the other. But im asking can you date someone with only one and not the other?
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I never said their looks couldnt fade. I get that happens. Im saying i need to be attracted to them from the get go. With the guy above, we were dating but loved eachother or so we thought. He said it too early but i said it back because i felt it. Anyways, he was the one guy i dated for personality rather than looks. I truly cared about him. However, when he asked me to be his girl, i declined and asked to keep
Dating until i was for sure. After 2 months, i was for sure i couldnt see a future
Based off your experience, when you fell for someones personality rather than their looks, did you last?
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