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Looks will never get me past a miserable wretch of a personality. I've met and dated some gorgeous women who...
1.) ... Were entitled spoiled brats. Absolutely miserable to be around. Volatile. Angry. Mean.
2.)... Were completely fucked up ex trophy wives whose kids were kept in boarding schools while she lived on antidepressants, popped the cork on a bottle of wine by 2 PM every day, and fucked her tennis pro. Multiple therapists on speed dial.
3.) ... Were dumber than a bag of rocks. No idea how anything works and no desire to learn. Unable to talk about anything other than designer shoes, handbags, makeup, and sunglasses.
There is no amount of gorgeous that will get me past any of that. Not even to fuck them a single time. I'm running for the exit sign. Feet don't fail me now!
The opposite is absolutely true though. A woman I may not initially be head over heels in lust with can seriously hook me with a great personality and mind to the point I suddenly see her as extremely attractive. Whoa, what just happened kinda thing.
I dated Miss Ivy from 2015-2017. When I met her, I saw a woman who was energetic, outgoing, and quite bright. I thought she was cute and I was strongly attracted to her. After about four or five months, we started spending every weekend together, and we enjoyed a satisfying sexual relationship. I fell in love but eventually broke up with her because I felt like just a convenience to her, one that was discarded when not needed.
I met her for dinner about three months after the breakup. I was shocked at what I saw. She was an unattractive woman who was aging badly.
Yeah, personality gets me going. Looks can change over time so it's not the first thing I look for, though there ARE a few physical traits that signal whether a person is healthy and has a balanced sense of confidence, is hard working, etc. (as opposed to the "pretty boys").
No. For me to fall in love multiple features need to come together, personality alone is not enough.
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Yes i have, then her fasade faded and she was a horrible person. To give you a picture. Her family was toxic. Her friends were toxic. But she was somehow the angel. No looks no personality. I felt betrayed and told myself that if someone is gonna rip my heart out she better be my type. I ain't lowing my standards because I am a good looking dude. And i have good morals. So at the end I just felt like I was the good person after all.
A girl I had a crippling crush on back in the day was not at all a looker
But she had the personality that would make your heart smile and your head spin
She’s the only one I ever fallen for without being drawn by looks at least at first
(And she wasn’t at all ugly. Just not a vision either)
The answer is No. I have standards both in terms of physical looks and personality and give importance to both.
Yes. And I have only ever dated once more biased on looks tbh and that was a mistake, that hopefully I learnt from lol
Yes! But his personality was a personality that I love which made me love his looks as well.
Kinda, because I loved her looks as well but its her personality that made her truly special.
all the time.
It turns out I have to actually like the person that I am with.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever. (Judge Judy)
Not sure if I've been in love, but definitely fell for peoples personality over their looks.
People become more attractive, the kinder/ funnier/ more genuine they are in my opinion.
Yes I have, and that's a definite reason along with many other factors why I married him.
No. Somebody has to have looks and personality I find good for me to like them more than a friend
Nope, never have, I'm very visual.
If I like her looks, I'll adapt to her personality.
If I don't like her looks, her personality can't attract me.
Yes, I follow some of them on social media and would date them if I could
Yet another original and profoundly unique question. Does personality matter more than looks? Never heard of that one before. I see we're still committed to the anthology, "Questions that the internet has beaten to death since 2015"
I’ve never been in love. I don’t know what it feels like
It didn't happen yet , but I do find that interesting personality is very attractive 👀🥰🥳
For me if I love them their looks not important
Yes.
A few times. They're the best ones!
Sure, why not.
Yes.
No, it's looks or nothing.
Most of you here!!! 🥰
Personality is always more important.
Yes…
Yes, I have!
100% of the time.
Yuppe
Few times
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