Have you ever fallen in love with someone's personality over their looks?

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OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Looks will never get me past a miserable wretch of a personality. I've met and dated some gorgeous women who...

1.) ... Were entitled spoiled brats. Absolutely miserable to be around. Volatile. Angry. Mean.

2.)... Were completely fucked up ex trophy wives whose kids were kept in boarding schools while she lived on antidepressants, popped the cork on a bottle of wine by 2 PM every day, and fucked her tennis pro. Multiple therapists on speed dial.

3.) ... Were dumber than a bag of rocks. No idea how anything works and no desire to learn. Unable to talk about anything other than designer shoes, handbags, makeup, and sunglasses.

There is no amount of gorgeous that will get me past any of that. Not even to fuck them a single time. I'm running for the exit sign. Feet don't fail me now!

The opposite is absolutely true though. A woman I may not initially be head over heels in lust with can seriously hook me with a great personality and mind to the point I suddenly see her as extremely attractive. Whoa, what just happened kinda thing.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I dated Miss Ivy from 2015-2017. When I met her, I saw a woman who was energetic, outgoing, and quite bright. I thought she was cute and I was strongly attracted to her. After about four or five months, we started spending every weekend together, and we enjoyed a satisfying sexual relationship. I fell in love but eventually broke up with her because I felt like just a convenience to her, one that was discarded when not needed.

I met her for dinner about three months after the breakup. I was shocked at what I saw. She was an unattractive woman who was aging badly.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Yeah, personality gets me going. Looks can change over time so it's not the first thing I look for, though there ARE a few physical traits that signal whether a person is healthy and has a balanced sense of confidence, is hard working, etc. (as opposed to the "pretty boys").

WellBye · Accepted Answer

No. For me to fall in love multiple features need to come together, personality alone is not enough.

michalpl00 · Answer

Yes i have, then her fasade faded and she was a horrible person. To give you a picture. Her family was toxic. Her friends were toxic. But she was somehow the angel. No looks no personality. I felt betrayed and told myself that if someone is gonna rip my heart out she better be my type. I ain't lowing my standards because I am a good looking dude. And i have good morals. So at the end I just felt like I was the good person after all.

Zack-Bann · Answer

A girl I had a crippling crush on back in the day was not at all a looker

But she had the personality that would make your heart smile and your head spin

She’s the only one I ever fallen for without being drawn by looks at least at first

(And she wasn’t at all ugly. Just not a vision either)

serious · Answer

The answer is No. I have standards both in terms of physical looks and personality and give importance to both.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yes. And I have only ever dated once more biased on looks tbh and that was a mistake, that hopefully I learnt from lol

sage2021 · Answer

Yes! But his personality was a personality that I love which made me love his looks as well.

sawno · Answer

Kinda, because I loved her looks as well but its her personality that made her truly special.

Fireguy17 · Answer

all the time. It turns out I have to actually like the person that I am with. Beauty fades, dumb is forever. (Judge Judy)

Anonymous · Answer

Not sure if I've been in love, but definitely fell for peoples personality over their looks.  People become more attractive, the kinder/ funnier/ more genuine they are in my opinion.

EmmaMary · Answer

Yes I have, and that's a definite reason along with many other factors why I married him.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Somebody has to have looks and personality I find good for me to like them more than a friend

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, never have, I'm very visual. If I like her looks, I'll adapt to her personality.  If I don't like her looks, her personality can't attract me.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Yes, I follow some of them on social media and would date them if I could

ShadowBound · Answer

Yet another original and profoundly unique question. Does personality matter more than looks? Never heard of that one before. I see we're still committed to the anthology, "Questions that the internet has beaten to death since 2015"

Jove79 · Answer

I’ve never been in love. I don’t know what it feels like

Nonamez · Answer

It didn't happen yet , but I do find that interesting personality is very attractive 👀🥰🥳

Turkishgiirlll · Answer

For me if I love them their looks not important

Simslover92 · Answer

Yes.

Dongie · Answer

A few times. They're the best ones!

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, why not.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Yes.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's looks or nothing.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Most of you here!!! 🥰

LiamJHayden · Answer

Personality is always more important.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Yes…

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I have!

Godihateyou · Answer

100% of the time.

Lena7637 · Answer

Yuppe

EmmiL · Answer

Few times

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