I hated him at first for almost a year. He was very good looking. He was loud and arrogant. We weren't even friends and used to argue/fight a lot - basically flirting. But we had this crazy chemistry between us. I started having feelings for him after a year of being.
I felt like love to my little self but now that I have grown considerably, it was just a crush.
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Yup once. There’s this boy who I liked and we hated each other. I started liking him becuz I found him very cute and I couldn’t resist it. But he became really nice as well so I started even liking him more. But he then became a jerk so I stopped liking him
There was a girl I knew in college who had the crappiest personality I've ever encountered, but her looks drove me crazy. She wasn't even that hot, and if anyone else had her personality or her looks, it would have totally turned me off. But something about the mixture in her (and ONLY HER) was enough to have me following her around like a puppy.
It did... eventually. At first I didn't care, because I craved her body and touch, and I figured that she would warm up with time., Her personality got old once I realized that she was always going to treat me like a stranger, even after we'd had a number of moments where I thought we were getting closer.
I've had crushes on girls before for nothing more than their looks. I feel like the way I'm attracted to people is the opposite of women. A guys attractive personality is what makes a girl like him. Frankly I like a girl from the moment I meet them. Their personality will only determine if my attraction will continue or if I like them less. So personality qualities doesn't make me like them more it just either makes no difference if they have a good personality since I already liked them or their personality just makes me like them less.
I really hate to be that guy, but I'm pretty sure that's the first thing that grabs someone's attention when they start crushing on someone. It's only later when people find out their personality is not that good that they get turned off. I try not to be a hypocrite, so I'll admit that I'm quite guilty of that myself.
Yeah, there are a few people that I am attracted to even though I hate their personalities, many of them are celebs and a few people that I know... But I have never fallen in love with someone or developed feelings for them just for their looks...
Whenever I see a girl with pretty looks, I may likely momentarily 'fall in love' with that person!
And here's what I may feel:
"I see a girl whom I instantly saw as beautiful. I stand still, looking at her in front of me even though she doesn't necessarily look at me. Her long straight hair, sparkling face, discreet shirt (it can be any kind) and the short skirts make my heart flutter for at least two seconds."
After that, I switch back on my usual mode and return to my own business.
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