If I do find a woman without a romantic past, is it likely she will fall intensly in love with me as I do with her?

[Inthecraphole]

I am 27, never had a real girlfriend, and seek a woman without a romantic past.

Yes

No

[charlean]

You’re really limiting your partner possibility if you’re looking for a women around your age who hasn’t dated before. I saw your other post about how much your life sucks. Maybe that’s contributed to why you’re still single after all these years? If you’re to find a women who’s also never dated, then maybe her circumstances have been/are as shit as yours, and that’s not the most ideal partnership.


You said (in ur other post) that you don’t like the thought of your partner having been with someone else in the past or whatever, that’s definitely an outlook you should try changing if you expect to find a partner and be happy in the relationship. Everyone has a past, but you’ll be their present and hopefully their future, and theyll be your present and future too. that’s 10x better than any encounters that went on in the past

[Inthecraphole]

She can of course be 18, 19, or in her early 20s. I so bad want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

[charlean]

If your profile age is accurate, you’re 27. Is it realistic or even a good idea to be thinking of a 18/19/early 20s women? You’ll be in completely different stages of your life. She’ll probably move on from the relationship because she’s young and wants different experiences and you'll be left at 30 in the same position you were 3 years ago but with an even smaller chance of bagging a young women and the creepiness levels of your end just get higher

[Inthecraphole]

I think age is just a number as long as she is legal and I am not old enough to be her dad or something.

[charlean]

ok good luck with that

[Anonymous]

No, it’s more likely that she’ll just be very closed off and scared to love. She might fall in love with you for a bit but then she might realize that she prefers being single or that she’s not ready to settle down yet since this is only gonna be her first relationship so she’ll end up leaving you anyway. (This is what happened to my sister and close friend, they were both single for over 24 years but once they got into a relationship they realized it’s not for them)