If I were to find a woman that has never been in love, would she have that same fiery desire to love like I do?

[Anonymous]

I seek a decently attractive woman that has never been in love or had a romantic bond with a guy before. Then I start to question, if she has always wanted to fall in love, why would she have never been in love at this point in her life? Surely, if she is at least decently attractive, she would have had guys interested in her before at some point in her life. The only reasons I can think of is that she is shy, very introverted and sheltered, or just was never asked out. Those reasons are perfectly fine (and desirable), but what are really the chances?

Yes

Probably not

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[EricSummer]

This fantasy is nonsense. She would have to have some emotional impairment to never have fallen in love, but she could then not suddenly change that for you, either.

I bet you would enjoy Anne Francis in "Forbidden Planet". She is extremely attractive, but in that classic sci-fi movie she grew up with her father, a pet tiger, and some other animals alone on a distant planet. She then meets men from Earth for the first time with all sorts of emotional complications.

In short, learn to separate fantasy and reality.

[SnowedIn]

The chances? Zero.

But more to the point, even if you did find that woman, she might not be the right one for you. By limiting yourself to that woman who's never been in love (I don't think she exists by the way) you miss out on the right woman.

[Anonymous]

There is only one girl in the world who fits your requirements, and she lost a slipper when she had to suddenly leave the masquerade ball.

[Nikki1989]

Unless you get in touch with reality, it is unlikely you will ever date anyone with your damaging insecurities.

[Asker]

How do I "get in touch with reality"?