What is like like to live an entire life never having a girlfriend?

[Inthecraphole]

I have a feeling this is gonna be me. I will be the unlucky few on this earth to never experience a romantic relationship.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend before. Not in middle school, not in high school, and not as an adult. There was a girl when I was 6 or 7 years old that I thought was ugly and we were "boyfriend/girlfriend" and there was that one time when I was 18 and had a "girlfriend" for a week, but she ended up becoming a transgender dude. I especially never had anything long term and mutual.

I seek a woman that has never had a romantic bond with a guy, meaning no previous boyfriend or first love. I may or may not find that. But even so, it still will not be the same as if me and a girl met when we were young. I envy those who met their loves when they were young.

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I just turned down an attractive 22 year old woman because she has a romantic past.

[RearEntryGuy]

Are you looking for a virgin or a girl who has never dated before?

You raise a poll that sort of draw my attention. Then you have an anti-climax update.

My Opinion is:
Love / relationship / sex is like food. If you refuse to eat, you'll never be satisfied.

But when you eat, there could be some disappointments (too much fat, too little this, too whatever that).

The principle is: it may not be the best, but your hunger will be satisfied.

But if you refuse to eat, you'll always be hungry. And no matter how you tell about your hunger, those will a filled stomach won't feel it.

Hence I suggest, don't look at the imperfections. Just eat. You'll feel a lot better after that.

[Inthecraphole]

I am looking for a girl who has never had a romantic bond with a guy before, meaning never had a boyfriend or first love.

[RearEntryGuy]

Wow! She's more difficult to find than a virgin... good luck.

[Inthecraphole]

I found girls like that who were 18, but I wasn't their type. I am sick to my stomach to know one of them is now engaged to some other guy and about to marry him in a few months.

[Vikkrram]

I am 24 even i never had a girlfriend in my entire life... Coz i am too shy to express my feelings , i am introvert i don't like to go outside much , just for works only. And i am not confident at all and at least a girl would want a confident, good looking guy.

[Anonymous]

Well technically you've had 2 "girlfriends" before... plus I remember you hooking up with some girl and you had a thing with another girl recently. If you've had all these romantic pasts why look for a girl with no pasts at all, that's kinda unfair

[Inthecraphole]

There are no hypothetical situations that exists to where if I were to reunite with one of these girls, it would be a sweeter, more desirable outcome for them. That's because I was older than them and they got to experience love with someone of common age.

[MCheetah]

Join the club. We're thinking of making T-shirts.
I voted Option B for me, but the real answer is Option D: Create your own path.

[sensible27]

Life is just too short sometimes, make the most of (what you've left)

[Anonymous]

Bothers me that men end up like this more than women do, and I get mad and pissed off when people in society think we men have the better end of the stick

[Inthecraphole]

I completely agree. Men don't have it easier in a lot of aspects.

[Anonymous]

"I just turned down an attractive 22 year old woman because she has a romantic past."

Ah, OK, so no questions here.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Ask a priest?

[Inthecraphole]

Talked to one. He had a girlfriend when he was young, like in high school