If it’s true and not a ploy to push you away, so you can break up, there is nothing wrong with that, I know of a successful modern career woman who have 8 children. A healthy woman can have even 30 children (most women want less than 3 children because it’s trendy or they feel their fine bodies will get out of shape). It’s a question of a woman’s health, her love for children and a mans financial stability. Is he financially stable? If he is, you can have a co-wife to help with the remainder of what you can bear. (There are cultures or religions that allow polygamy), Though not what you really wanna hear on sharing.
FINE! See how he feels about ADOPTING!
PLENTY kids could use loving parents.
And... there's a certain cachet to knowing YOU WERE SPECIFICALLY 'CHOSEN',
not 'luck of the draw' biology~ A 'genuinely WANTED' son or daughter~
Let him do a 'dry run' as a fostering parent home ('give back' privileges!)
s Some guys are into that large family thing and my advice to them is for them to be willing to carry and give birth themselves at a number that high.
I love kids, but, he doesn't want a wife, he wants a baby vending machine !!!
Run for the hills !!!
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If he is a multi millionaire, I see no problem with that whatsoever at all, he can successfully raise all of his kids, but if he is making an average salary 1 to 3 is Good, but if his salary is below average and he is bouncing from one job to another like a tennis ball, he shouldn't even be allowed to have children.
Some people really crave a big family and I can partially understand the appeal of the idea. But I had an ex too who said that *at least* we should have 8 children. Lol, I told I don't know if I have that kind of seed in me. Our family tree have consistently been that of three-four kids at most.
Have you ever known a family like that well? Many of them do it because its easier and the kids are more adjusted as adults. Its harder in some ways but once the first kid is old enough to be a help it then gets easier. My ex was the oldest of 11 and 20 years old and they had a 1 yr old, the parents could take a day off and the kids did all the cooking cleaning chores babysitting you name it. It was shocking and amazing the first time i saw it.
Some people just want a big family. My girlfriend and I both come from big families and I already told her I'm going to keep her pregnant. She's not going to get a break from pregnancy. It's like how before birth control we kept you girls pregnant your entire fertile lives and had like 16 babies. It's not your choice it's ours. We get you pregnant on a whim whenever we're horny.
Don't do it, all he wants to do is tie you down, as in ya can't go nowhere, almost like a control thing, if relationship goes sour, you won't be able to leave, for as you have 11 kids an no job or money, this way he can beat you if he wants an your never leave, because your be depended on him for money
The good news is you can start your own football team with all those kids & when you are giving birth to your first child have the doctors install a zipper for next time.
Nonn no one has the same number they plan to before a relationship, so I wouldn’t take it too seriously. Besides, you’d have to agree to it, which means you can tell him when you want to stop.
Good thing to get these things out early so you don't waste time with someone that has incompatible goals.
I mean really up until recently that was pretty normal historically speaking.
But yeah that's to much unless he's super rich that's kind of out of normal people with normal jobs reach.
Does he come from a large family? If so, that is most likely the reason why. Then there are people who just like the idea of a large family.
Probably was abused. Many men and women that have had issues tend to want large families. Good luck with that. I knew a woman that was raped by her stepfather and ended up 8 children. They take back control or so they feel.
He could just be like a lot of men and find eleven woman.
Lmao I think your a very smart girl dont walk away.. RUNNNN AWAY FAST. FASTERRRR. LOL
Not a good father. Good father will not have as many children his time for. And noone has time for 12 people ( that also counting the wife) and a job. Clearly he selfish.
Unless you spaced those kids out over 20 years there is no way to raise that many children and give them the care they need. Plus that would be very expensive.
Is he religious and/or raised in a religious home? It’s also possible he has a large family and wants one of his own?
Do you have mother bearin' hips?
What's your ratio of curves? He may see you as a chic who could pop them out
My ex girlfriend wanted to have ten kids. I thought she was nuts. I wonder if she ever did?
A lot of people say that but change their minds when the reality of raising children comes around.
I would say he wants to fight upcoming demographic crisis.
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