Has an unacceptable past (drug use, heavy alcohol drinking, promiscuous, has kids from a past relationship, is liberal, supported BLM, Antifa, or feminism, won't sign a prenuptial agreement, is friends with an ex, or if she doesn't want kids). All of those are DQs.
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Many things, but here are some reasons I did not start/stopped dating someone: - smoke weed regularly - bad fitness - overweigt - unrealistic naïve view on things - pull off bullshit - lie to my face - bad relationship with an ex - does not respect a no/my boundaries - bad at planning/being on time - we do not speak the same language fluently - untidy long hair or beard - always dirty nails
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1. How they view/treated previous women they've dealt with. All of your exes are crazy? You have three baby mamas? You dated single moms but hated having to pay for her kids when you two went out? Red flag. 2. no income 3. Insecure 4. Mamas boys 5. Any kind of smoking or drug use or over drinking 6. Anger issues 7. ill-mannered /disrespectful 8. Bad hygiene or bad grooming 9. selfish or doesn't take personal responsibility 10. is a doormat
- Smokes cigarettes - Drinks regularly - Is fat (in a disproportionate way, I'm fine with thick) - Armpit and/or body hair - Very left wing - Polyamorous - Not a nice person - No charisma - Close-minded - Overcome with fear - Has no hobbies other than socializing - I feel like I need to compete with others for her attention - Militantly atheist - Low impulse control but high sex drive - Satanist - Too old - Poor hygiene
Did she have kids Been married before smokes, drug use. Gets drunk Has had casual sex, one night stands, threesome, is bi, ever done nude modeling or nude on lines stuff or any sex work. Tattoos and piercings
How he treats or treated other women. His ex etc. it’s very telling. Also, if he calls his exes crazy, there’s a high chance he’s the problem. Unless the ex actually was crazy, but that’s pretty rare.
If she smoked, was alcoholic, was hiding and lying about her health problems, if she never wanted to have kids, if she didn't keep herself healthy and weighted significantly more than me.
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1. Im not physically attracted to them. 2. Mean/Disrespectful to me or other people. 3. No sense of humor 4. Bad hygiene 5. If they are shorter than me. I'm 5'5. 6. Controlling 7. Liar
Manipulative Zero understanding Stuck up Selfish Obvious flirting too much but call it being friendly If your boundaries change depending on how hot a guy is No sense of humor No nuturing instinct Needy
Being controlling, manipulative, and acting like a victim. Any one of those I can deal with/survive with but either of the first two and the last combined? Nope I’ll take a hard pass my mom was like that and she drove us up the walls
Good choice at your age, eliminating 13 - 17-year-olds. Pretty much what would disqualify them for me would be if they have a penis. I'm assuming that won't be a problem.
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Has an unacceptable past (drug use, heavy alcohol drinking, promiscuous, has kids from a past relationship, is liberal, supported BLM, Antifa, or feminism, won't sign a prenuptial agreement, is friends with an ex, or if she doesn't want kids).
All of those are DQs.
Many things, but here are some reasons I did not start/stopped dating someone:
- smoke weed regularly
- bad fitness
- overweigt
- unrealistic naïve view on things
- pull off bullshit
- lie to my face
- bad relationship with an ex
- does not respect a no/my boundaries
- bad at planning/being on time
- we do not speak the same language fluently
- untidy long hair or beard
- always dirty nails
1. How they view/treated previous women they've dealt with. All of your exes are crazy? You have three baby mamas? You dated single moms but hated having to pay for her kids when you two went out? Red flag.
2. no income
3. Insecure
4. Mamas boys
5. Any kind of smoking or drug use or over drinking
6. Anger issues
7. ill-mannered /disrespectful
8. Bad hygiene or bad grooming
9. selfish or doesn't take personal responsibility
10. is a doormat
- Smokes cigarettes
- Drinks regularly
- Is fat (in a disproportionate way, I'm fine with thick)
- Armpit and/or body hair
- Very left wing
- Polyamorous
- Not a nice person
- No charisma
- Close-minded
- Overcome with fear
- Has no hobbies other than socializing
- I feel like I need to compete with others for her attention
- Militantly atheist
- Low impulse control but high sex drive
- Satanist
- Too old
- Poor hygiene
4 11🤔 you're a tiny little thing🙃.
I mean it's great, short women are cute, just pretty rare under 5.
Bitchy, entertain me, full of herself attitude.
Being out of shape.
To fake, tons of makeup etc.
Having a penis.
You know, the usual.
*No fat girls (if her arms hang straight down by her side, her torso should fit inside her shoulders as her arms remain perpendicular to the ground)
*No unhealthy girls (You have to be able to go hiking with me without sounding like you are dying every 3 miles)
*No jealous girls (I do a lot of meaningless flirting. She will be VERY FRUSTRATED if she starts getting jelly easily)
- Wokeness / SJW / feminist
- Smoker
- Bisexual - been there, done that. In my experience they tend to think cheating with a woman is not cheating
- Easily offended, lack of sense of humor
- General sense of entitlement, self-importance
- Attention seeker, wears revealing clothes to attract attention
When I was single
Did she have kids
Been married before
smokes, drug use.
Gets drunk
Has had casual sex, one night stands, threesome, is bi, ever done nude modeling or nude on lines stuff or any sex work.
Tattoos and piercings
How he treats or treated other women. His ex etc. it’s very telling. Also, if he calls his exes crazy, there’s a high chance he’s the problem. Unless the ex actually was crazy, but that’s pretty rare.
Broke
Short
Uneducated
No ambition
No personality
Liar
Insecure
Selfish
Drama king
A hunter ( I don't like animal killers)
-Anger issue
-Cocky
-Smoker
-Overweight
-Broke
-Tell me to dress modestly
-poor hygiene
-alcoholic
-Involve with drugs
-Have kids
If she smoked, was alcoholic, was hiding and lying about her health problems, if she never wanted to have kids, if she didn't keep herself healthy and weighted significantly more than me.
1. Im not physically attracted to them.
2. Mean/Disrespectful to me or other people.
3. No sense of humor
4. Bad hygiene
5. If they are shorter than me. I'm 5'5.
6. Controlling
7. Liar
-he has roommate (s)
-lives with parents
-bad with money
-cant cook
-messy living comforts
-sees his kid (s) less than 50%
-flirtatious
-divorced
-gross mouth
-dirty hygiene
Just to name a few
Gross mouth? lol
Manipulative
Zero understanding
Stuck up
Selfish
Obvious flirting too much but call it being friendly
If your boundaries change depending on how hot a guy is
No sense of humor
No nuturing instinct
Needy
Being controlling, manipulative, and acting like a victim.
Any one of those I can deal with/survive with but either of the first two and the last combined? Nope I’ll take a hard pass my mom was like that and she drove us up the walls
Sexist
Racist
Aggressive
Chainsmoker or an alcoholic
Man with trust issues
The list goes on...
1. Trump Supporter
2. Anti Vax
3. Anti Mask
4. Racist
aww did I make someone ass hurt who disagreed with me. I won't kiss any ring or asses, I dont need your friendship.
Good choice at your age, eliminating 13 - 17-year-olds. Pretty much what would disqualify them for me would be if they have a penis. I'm assuming that won't be a problem.
If they are psychotic or really disturbing some way.