I have a friend, that lives up in the mountains, that had a date with another one who lives in the mountains. He was excited because it's so hard meeting a woman up there. This woman told him that she goes on a lot of dates with men via dating apps. These men live about 2 hours away and they travel up the mountain to date her.
I told him that if a man travels that far he is looking for more than to shake hands and say hi. He wants sex. He disagrees. What do you think?
Do You Believe Men Will Travel Long Distance For A Date Just To Say Hello?
It depends on the guy. Here’s the secret, men always want sex. Adult Funtime doesn’t have to happen on the first three dates. A woman shouldn’t date a man if she doesn’t find him sexually attractive. If she does, it’s a foodie call.
The first date is validation that a man is bedroom-worthy. Date two should only happen a woman knows that he’s in there. She can reduce any anxiety or sexual tension by clearly stating that it’s likely that sex will happen but she needs to get to know him better. This should come in subsequent meeting (s) like a picnic that she prepared. It demonstrates that she’s willing to cater to him as he did in funding the previous dates. The third date should be an in home dinner date where she cooks for him. This is basically the green light and it’s happening tonight.
Guys or girls, doesn't matter. Why do you date? For business? For sports? For investment opportunities?
Yes, many do those "dates".
But in your context, it's about romance. And by romance, the end point IS ALWAYS sex.
The question is when?
Hence I'm not saying the story has to be "he just want sex". It's perfectly possible and has happen to some couples before.
But I also like to say, many guys do travel long distance to find a wife. And he traveled not once, many many times just to marry here. Then they had sex.
So your question is open ended. So many possibilities are there. And they all had happened before in mankind's history.
Hence my conclusion is, as long as it's a romantic relationship, sex is always the end point.
Yes men will travel distance just to meet a girl who is willing and who they find attractive.
I have a friend who commonly dates guys 1-3 hours a away. When everyone has their own yard/space and small/medium town job, meeting people organically can be difficult.
I think men are individuals and unique in thier own way, and if this lady says they are just visiting, than chances are that is the extent of thier visit.😊
Just to shake hands? No. *I* have traveled distances but didn't expect to go home having been laid, but the long-term purpose of the visit was a different story. It's a bit reductionistic but the ultimate purpose was somehow sexual
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