If a girl isn't interested in a guy, what's the most respectful way she should turn him down? (Page 2)

[Jintendo18]

You’re not my type. That’s about as clear and direct of a hard “no” that I can think of that both sexes can use that still remains respectful. Some people like chocolate. Other people like vanilla. It is what it is.

[cryscrys1]

There is no nice ways that doesn’t exist.
At the end it means she isn’t interested or ready. Which it doesn’t benefit you.
It doesn’t matter what’s the story behind the end is. - without you.

[AviatorTom]

Honesty is best. If the girl is really not interested, she should tell the guy... in a nice way, something like "You're a great guy and I'm sure you'll find the right girl for you... but I'm not that girl."

[horatiohornblower]

I’d rather it be simple and direct. Thank you but I’m not interested or it won’t work between us.

[JosyJosy]

By being honest and straight up and remember guys have feelings too.

[Lovesims3plumbob]

Be honset. if doesn't work like most of guy that i did rejected. they get rude or tried t push when i mean mean no i mean no. i will not change my mind. I also has rejected a guy from frienzoneing me since he already was attracted to me.

[Buntyp]

Just be nice, remember that the guy is a human being with feelings and drop the like you as a friend bomb--as long as that's true. Stick with honesty and be straightforward about it.

[TheSpartan]

She should flat out tell him that she's not interested and, most importantly, why and be ready to provide details if possible. That way he can know where to improve.

[Avicenna]

I'd say by having a pleasant, respectful convo and complimenting him (genuinely) while also making it clear that she isn't interested (while not being specific as to why).

[Somoneelse]

I believe the most respectfull way is just by being honest about it. No false excuses or other crap. Just say you aren't interested. Also not the "but we can stay friends" crap.

[Somoneelse]

if the guy can't accept that answer. He is at fault. Not the girl.

[anonbrunette99]

Just “I don’t think we’re compatible” or I didn’t feel a connection I think that’s how most do it, that’s how I have anyway

[Desconhecida]

Being honest with him.

[ThatgirlDiza]

It can be like *Hey , u r a wonderful person , and I honestly don't feel the same way as u do. U deserve a better person who is very sweet , takes care of u and definitely ur type. Alright? * I hope this helps!

[BestWoman]

Türk erkeklerini kibarca reddettiğinizde sakız gibi yapışıyorlar. Kaba olmalıyım. İkinci taktiğim çocuk yapalım ama çocuğu asla görmeyeceksin diyorum ve benden kaçıyorlar.

[MCheetah]

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(Translated from Turkish:)
When you politely reject Turkish men, they stick like gum. I have to be rude. My second tactic is "let's have a child, but you will never see the child," and they'll end up avoiding me.

[BestWoman]

Why did I share this article in Turkish?

[Pilaka]

Be honest. Don't be a bitch. Don't be a turd. Don't sugarcoat things. Just be honest but kind about it. That's all.

[libsaretards]

Just be honest. Tell him you do not want to see him. Also, have some mace and/or a lethal weapon handy in case he is a psycho (most guys are not).

[TacosRAwesome]

Something along the lines of I'm not interested in any form of romantic/sexual situation between us should work.

[MJtheCoach]

Girls have no skills they say whatever shit is in their head.


But they usually tell that they don’t want a boyF which means you’re a nice guy usually lol

[Anonymous]

This happened to me to today i had to reject a guy and i tried to make it seem like he is perfect and i am just not ready and I didn’t wanna give him false hope i clearly said i’m not interested at all.

[Blueeyes81]

The most respectful way to drive it home and that will vary by guy. Some of you guys won't want listen and need a harsher approach to drive it home.