As the title says. Been texting with girl for a few months now and she showed all sorts of signs of interest in text and in person when we see each other at Uni. So I asked her out to grab some drink and celebrate recent Uni success and she agreed enthusiastically. But I didn't set exact time when and that bothers me and I'm starting to overthink how to do it and is she genuinely interested in me to be more than just a friend. What do you think, would she accept that invitation for a drink if she isn't interested? Thanks in advance!
Would you accept a call for a drink if you are not interested in a guy?
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if she sees you as a friend she could accept just to go on a coffee so it doesn't have to mean she is into you, however you are way overthinking this, so what if she rejects, at least you know if she is interested or not, so what if you meet for coffee, it still takes a lot of dates and everything to see if you are for eachother and if there is a connection to built a relationship
Your biggest mistake is going into it expecting something. If you always expect it to be something that will turn into interest you’ll literally never be satisfied because people are unpredictable. If you plan to go through with it, it’s just about going in with no expectations. She doesn’t really owe you anything, and you also don’t owe her anything. Could it turn into something? Maybe. But if it didn’t? That’s fine too. These are situations where you need to just go with the flow.
You're never going to fully know the answer to this man. It really all depends on the girl. a lot of women will base this solely on how full her dance cart is at the moment. So one time she could be very enthusiastic and raring to go. The next time she could give less than a damn. My advice to you is don't really worry about how she feels about it. Worry only about how you feel about it and then react accordingly. Show her the same respect she shows you.
Always remember there are 3.5 billion women on the planet. In that respect she is not special. Only give her the energy she's shown you.