What shallow trait of the opposite sex makes you fall in love with the person?

[marish01]

To me it is good looks.
I don't care about his money at all.

Wealth

Good Looks

High sex drive

Arrogance/immodesty

Bastardness/bitchiness

Sadism/masochism

None of them, I'm not shallow

[ohshee]

Yes that's how we as a human race have I'll become we fall in love with that good-looking person because we want to be seen with that good-looking person do you have good looking babies LOL but reality is good looking people are not the real person it's just a mask that we all wear what are DNA created you can see that just threw all the divorces
Two good-looking people get together and the honeymoon stage is beautiful thing and after about a year or year-and-a-half something happens and you realize that that person you thought you knew you didn't know it all and that's because you only look so deep on the inside that's why I say I look into somebody's eyes first because I wanted to know exactly who they are how beautiful their heart is how beautiful have a person they are on the inside are they a giver are they confident are they smart are they healthy are they happy are they beautiful on the inside because that's who they truly are so when I look into your eyes I see many things and I feel many things and then adding your voice to it now makes me feel it and see it even deeper but who you really are and I think that's a beautiful thing you are a very beautiful person you have very beautiful DNA and you are just absolutely gorgeous they looking deep into your eyes you are even more beautiful on the inside because of your strengths

[MCheetah]

None of them. I was going to say "none" even before I saw these options. I can't stand shallowness in people.

And yes, I do have kind of high standards when it comes to looks; however, I don't date people based on looks. Basically, "almost everyone is ugly" to me, especially me, and that's okay.

Also, I don't trust people with good looks. The biggest bitches and assholes tend to be the tallest/most attractive. Whoever is out there living life on easy mode; those are the ones who's personalities tend to suck the most. (Not always, but it's definitely common enough to be a pattern.)

[jennifer_bloom]

A guy that is intelligent and charming and funny is super attractive but those guys are always hard to get cause all the girls want them.

[desidoll]

Wealth and good look. He knows and perfectly fine with it.

[Makeushiver]

🇦🇺its nice to hear money isn't the biggest part of the equation. If he has no money & no prospects, ambición as well as having no interest in becoming qualified to get a creer then I hope he's still gold looking atn70 because you'll still be supporting him then. If he's job hunting, getting qualified for a vocation or is watching some óperas & eating cheekbones (check to see if his Dick is bright orange). I think a simple test can be used to Jurgen his characteristics is if he always get you off sexually. If he thinks sex is you alwaysneeds to have a condom because he never thinks of it. If he enthusistcally goles down on you thats a gold sign. At least if he always get you off as many times as you can. Then I wouldn't worry about the $/£ .

[Lliam]

I picked B because I wouldn't date someone I wasn't physically attracted to. I have my preferences.
But C comes in a strong second. I'm looking for girl who has a strong libido and doesn't have sexual inhibitions, but also has good values and self respect.

[TheFlak38]

"I don't care about his money at all." the most common lie every woman tells and nobody believes. And this is coming from the unmarried traditional whore who would have been married with a broke man already and start pumping out kids if she was telling the truth. But that's not what's he does. Why? Because she's a fucking FRAUD! That's why. She keeps posting selfies and videos of her cute face trying to do some alpha fucks and build a brand thanks to the dime of her male orbiters.

[Anonymous]

This is the simple truth that men and women both seldom admit. Looks matter! Not just for themselves. But equally for their image. Women and menwho consider themselves attractive, and even ones that don't know they're judged not only by how they look. But also But the attractive Ness of the partner they're with.
Sorry but it's just reality.

[Finchie40]

Looks and personality and morals , if they only have eyes for me and are loyal and not selfish , I will do my best to do the same in return, I don’t commit to be single

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend's muscles are a huge reason why I was initially so interested in him. I know it's shallow, but it's true. I still love them.

[humpbackjack]

If I had to pick one it would definitely be high sex drive because sex is a very important part of the relationship and if you’re not at the same level as your partner it can ruin your relationship

[poof_22]

Good looks as a compromise if they start nagging or being kind of an annoyance and a bitch since no one is perfect all the time.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Again, if you have to INSIST that you're not attracted to wealth in a man, you wouldn't specifically say it.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Keep the stupid remarks coming.. I can do this for a while.

[cookiecrusher]

How their body looks.

Although its actually not shallow at all, it says a lot about the person and their personality, more than words.

[marish01]

Do you have a nice body, m

[marish01]

Body?

[cookiecrusher]

Yes, 15 years of parkour, and over 5 years of motorbike, climbing, swimming, ninja warrior training, slackline, poledancing plus other fun skills/activities.
My best selling point is my ass, or so they say 😗

[2021biguy]

Of course there has to be physical attraction, but what is inside is what matters the most. Sex alone can't keep a relationship strong over time and looks can't either.

[loveslongnails]

Why is a high sex drive a "shallow" trait? It's not at all.

[marish01]

It is. It doesn't define you as a person.

[loveslongnails]

Exactly! You've proved my point ! LOL It does NOT define you as a person if you have a high sex drive, or a medium/average one, or a low one, or none at all. Thank you.

[marish01]

Yes, that is why I listed it on other traits that don't define one as a person.
Hence makes them shallow traits that people might fall in love with others for

[loveslongnails]

Huh? High sex drive is your choice "C" .

[marish01]

No. Looks

[loveslongnails]

What are you talking about? You list "High Sex Drive" as one of 6 shallow traits. My point is to say I don't believe a "high sex drive" IS a shallow trait whatsoever.

[marish01]

Ok. I explained my point clearly and answered your question as well.

[loveslongnails]

No you didn't. LOL It's one of your choices, along with the other 5, that you think are shallow traits! LOL

[loveslongnails]

You're saying that only "non-shallow traits which don't appear on your list are the things that define you as a person". I'm saying that "high sex drive" doesn't belong on your list, in my opinion. It's not shallow, but it also doesn't define you one way or the other. Yikes.

[marish01]

All the things I listed in the poll are shallow traits. Traits that don't define someone as a person.
What are you arguing? I don't understand. You seemed to agree at first

[loveslongnails]

Good Lord. I DISAGREE with you... that a "high sex drive" IS a shallow trait !!! I disagree with you !!
It's NOT a shallow trait. It's not a positive trait, except in the mind of a partner who likes that. It doesn't "define you", it's simply a part of your personality
Now do you understand?

[loveslongnails]

Now if you want to make the point that "anything, no matter how small, defines you IF it's a part of your personality, I'd agree with that. But I still wouldn't agree that a "high sex drive" is a shallow trait.

[marish01]

Why are you angry?
If you disagree, then disagree.
It is not a shallow trait for you but it is a shallow trait for me.

[loveslongnails]

I'm not angry. I use capitals or quotation marks to emphasize a particular word in a sentence. I'm not yelling, but since you can't hear the inflection of my voice, it's a device I use to put the emphasis where I want it to be.

Yes, I realize it's a shallow trait to you. I'm simply disagreeing and telling you why I believe it is not, nor do I think your reasoning for why it IS (< ------ there, want to emphasize the word "is"), makes sense. But it does to you. LOL

[marish01]

It was not just capital letters that showed you anger but the choice of your words.
"Good Lord" "Now do you understand?"

[loveslongnails]

That's your impression, which is an incorrect assumption. I was laughing to myself when I wrote it because I smh that you didn't seem to get it. LOL

[rebeliouse]

@marish01
i think most are attracted to looks who would want to hookup with a minger

u ever hooked up for good reasons?

[marish01]

I'm a virgin who is disgusted by hookup culture

[rebeliouse]

@marish01
how come still a virgin at your age u never met right guy and got married?

[marish01]

I don't want now

[888theGreat]

You should be able to get a Prince or king or something. You are rare commodity..

[WhiteBoyChill]

@888theGreat Yeah she really pretty

[es20490446e]

i look for a partner that doesn't create unnecessary drama.

[Cubus]

Sometimes good looks, because I am a man. We are tempted by such things. But I try to fight it.

[SHREYASH007]

Beautiful face and body and skin, yess good looks anytime.

[Omissis]

A little bit of bitchiness can be somewhat attractive to me

[fireforeffect]

I only say good looks, because none of the others apply.

[Lyndsielee666]

Any red flag I can find 😒

[cookiecrusher]

You do know that, most people don't carry them around all day 😗

[Lyndsielee666]

@cookiecrusher I only like the ones that carry the red flags. I’m a bull

[cookiecrusher]

...💩

[Northernlights25]

Pretty sure it's good looks for most people.