Is he being hot and cold?

[Anonymous]

Met this guy on Bumble, easy to say we hit things off very well. Had a lot in common, very very similar interests, joking, flirting. All that jazz. I noticed too he would respond very quickly to me. Even when I responded to our previous conversation the day before he responded right away. We finally met up and he was shy and didn't say much. But then later he would text me and then give me so much personality... I then met up with him a 2nd time and he was just being really rude to me and again shy. I'm confused. What is going on here?

Yes

No

[horatiohornblower]

Sounds like he's a shy guy and really awkward in person. He does well in text because he can take the time to think before he speaks and generally doesn't feel as pressured. For now I'd attribute any awkwardness or rudeness to nerves.

[Jamie05rhs]

In what way was he rude?

And also, how was he shy?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Some guys are much better in text than in person. He’s not rude just socially awkward.

[Asker]

When his making fun of my outfit in person and laughing at how I eat. Think it's pretty rude haha

[Gwenhwyfar]

What an asshole. And not very shy…

[Jamie05rhs]

I agree with @Gwenhwyfar.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, sounds like he might be bi polar.