Why can’t dating be as old fashioned as it used to be 🤔? (Page 2)
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the main reason is, some women in the past has objected to some men making a pass at them, they call it sexual harassment, men and boys are afraid to suggest a date now
yea like we have no idea wen a girl is flirting with us like i remember i accidentally touched a girls ass once at work & I said "oh sorry" she said "I didn't say I didn't like it" then I was like ok she likes me then I said "Well can I do it again or can I do it on purpose this time? & she said no 🙅 so then i was like ok read into that a little to much then she gets fired and some time later she said she had liked me and if I had no idea she was flirting with me im like WHAT? UR TELLING ME THIS NOW? FUCK but i tried to get with her after texting got sexual but we couldn't met up and wen i tried she was busy or something then she got a boyfriend so our texting stopped then dropped him tried to get back with me but I didn't want her since i had already tried b4 and nothing happened
@Junior42 Sounds more like a cock-tease enjoying keeping you on the warm and cold whenever it suits her. Trust me, you do not want to associate with such women.
Yea i jus dropped her thanks mane
Back in the day all they had were outhouses. It was impossible to pull off upper deckers or reverse kangas. That and Little House on the Prairie, Leave it to Beaver and the Brady Bunch were a lie. No one acts or acted like that shit in real life.
The first time I decided to bring flowers to the date was the only one because her friend who wasn't planned to join us made her feel uncomfortable about them.
Dang. ;-;
Genuine relationships are more like what your describing. But I see what you mean. A lot of people date just the the sake of dating... It's kind of odd.
Oh man right! I want to be courted. I want someone to actually want a relationship with me and not just see me as someone to lick their stick. They get sooo mad when you tell them you're not going to do anything sexual with them but won't act like a respectable man to have a relationship with you so they can do said sexual stuff... smh
So true. Stick to your principles and treat all people with equal respect and maybe you’ll find a decent guy and maybe you won’t. If you do... I’m pretty sure that would be a miracle but if you don’t (which is far more likely) then oh well. Life can be very fulfilling on your own.
I agree with you completely!! It's gonna be hard, and it may even prove fruitless but it's worth a shot as long as you're being true to yourself
Absolutely 🤗
Because men can now focus and entertain over 300 girls in a day… that’s why… before they had to actually work at getting to know a girl.. the investing was different.
Our world is now revolved around sex. Sex is everything now.
very true. being with one we love is not ultimate stage of love anymore
Because guys just want to get their dick wet and keep it easy with no real commitment until they are whored out with STDs. Men are disgusting
Then i can also say because women just want their wallets filled with no real commitment
Subjectively most women I know make more. Money than the men they are with... So no. Not true... But its still a fact that all men want their dick wet at any cost. Unless he's asexual than prob not and the asexual man is prob not an asshole
Haven't looked at the stats today but I'll assume there is still a gender salary gap on average and that's because men created that salary geneder gap because their assholes
Then i can also say subjectively most women also want their pussies filled unless she is a sexual and it is still a fact that men overall makes more money than women according to the statistics and it is also because of how much men works longer hours, less likely to take sick leaves even if they are sick and they choose the work fields the pays more despite it being death risky and has nothing to do with discrimination towards women. And with that being said, i can still say that women also wants their wallets filled. You know just to argue at your level
Lol wow u look like a virgin Msyoginistic... Anyway if you want to get into work place talk. Men need to put them selves in women shoes because and help out their children more. Women have kids and it's usually the woman taking care of all that crap because men are to fucking lazy to take of their children needs hence why women get promoted and advance in their careers because of their child... That's a whole different subject around the world will a. Whole research backing...
Anyway you little fucking turd. You look like a useless man who can't get a girl off and is dead broke... Guess they want you for no reason unless the woman can't do better ... Later
Aight you two…
Update: “ Please, kindly mind your words and behaviour towards others on my questions.
Only positivity and kind words on JoyGirl’s questions.
Thank you! 👌🏾“
Then what about you? You don't consider yourself a virgin MILF misandrist? Because it will only prove how much of a hypocrite you are not even putting yourself in men's shoes and appreciating how much changes they made and dying for the world for you to live comfortably. Yeah you're just gonna ignore that fact just to give yourself an excuse to justify your feminazism act. Double standards at its finest and I thought this is about equality but you're not demonstrating it at all.
When ever someone gives facts as a counter argument, that's what morons like you always resort at. Like name calling is gonna prove you anything. With that brain of yours for a 30+ year old, im not surprised if you're considered a leftover
@Aiko_E_Lara Imma need you to calm down…
@ Anonymous. You heard her right. Now how about you do things like how grown ups do it? I'm just trying to sound like you for "even steven"
I take back my later... I'm not a feminst because I don't want equality with men.. Women are are the better part of the species... Clearly !!!
What was about equality? The question ? You're an idiot it's a question about dating... Which has to do with preference... boy I can smash you with my brain if I even cared to... This app is trash and you're trash...
@JoyGirl Even Steven and I wasn't even mad. If you wanna tell anyone to calm down, Tell it to those who are salty enough who's trying to provoke anyone. They have no reason to do it unless they're in for it.
@ Anonymous "I can smash you with my brain" Well I'm waiting. If it's a question, she never asked if men are disgusting or not. You only think this has nothing to do with you as well which is why im here to bring out the other side of the story which you are so salty of. Yeah you never cared for equality like what feminists do, then wouldn't that make you a misadrist? You're only proving to me how much of a one sided delusional cretin you are.
*sighs* 🤦🏾♀️
It's the social media and overpopulation. Nobody is trying anymore because there are too many instant other options.
What do you want? You don't have to settle for something else. There are men capable of planning a date.
Old dating doesn't fit with the times or people anymore although some of the things in the past would still be nice
I'd like to update this as I only read the title and say I thought that's how things are now? Like that's how I've always done it I don't know makes it hard to find someone sort term but I've only really had long or meaningful relationships so far
What you're referring to as old fashioned is actually called dating.
To answer your question, what you're seeing is people not having enough respect for themselves to be patient.
you can date in any way you want, as soon as you find someone to do it with you and also wants it the same way... that's not forbidden at all... lol
Look around you.
How many old fashioned men and women do you see?
Not many, and most of them aren't looking for that, so eveybody just adapts to what works or what is currently in "fashion".
It can still be like that but with a healthier view on sex and feeling in general. Just too many people not looking for that yet. Love's a big chore and its risky business. People rather have the good score and stay happy.
Back then, when?
Back then you had 3 girls near you, pick one.
Back then girls were sold for the best gifts towards the family
Nowadays you can spend literally years without seeing a single person, so of course things are different.
How is it different nowadays? (Aside from the pandemic, of course.)
Update: That’s the kind I’ve always planned to give my girlfriend. Also sex will wait until marriage. I want friendship, romance, and commitment. I want to look for my life partner.
Good choice. 👍🏾
too late for that
Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
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did u watch pride and prejudice... bc old fashion will be asking your hand from your father in exchange for a few camels or cows. ... :p
Actually, in my culture, there is a bride price a man pays to marry a woman.
What I really meant though, was that back then they waited awhile for things such as kissing, sex etc.
Men took the time to get to know the women more, and women took the time to get to know the men more.
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culture has changed , feminism , work place changes... it became cheaper to have a physical relationship only.
Perhaps so. 🤔
think about it apps like tinder grinder... are there for a reason
Yeaaaaa… ;-;
if you notice waiting for sex is a stigma now
Yeaaaaa…sadly. ;-;
u mean thankfully 😏
LMAO 🤣
https://youtu.be/n9PcYK-lqeI
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that youtube video girl is so cute
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@joygirl Dating won't be old-fashioned as it used to be because some dating practices will inevitably go extinct as years go by.
https://youtu.be/n9PcYK-lqeI
Social Media & Technology are culprits in the negative changes to dating.