Do you believe GOOD MEN exist or have men BROKEN women's trust forever?
Do you believe good women still exist?
I would love to hear thoughts on both sides.
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3 mo
Update: this is just a conversational piece only. I do believe there are people with good morals/integrity of both genders. Even though it may be rare these days or so it seems.
Of course good men still exist. And it's impossible for "guys" to break women's trust. What you mean is " did women make the conscious choice to stop trusting".
The simple truth is most people say they're looking for a "good" person but in reality they have no idea what that is. So in reality they look for anything but
This is a video that actually give a better explanations on why we choose bad matches. So in reality it's not that there are not good guy. You're most likely subconsciously actively choosing bad matches. https://www.youtube.com/embed/Hvysy11716g
I agree good men and women do exist, just more rare to find. This post does not pertain to myself, it was just a conversation topic as I see many posts relating to issues with women or men. I am married to a great man actually, a "nice guy" if you want to use that term
I can only speak for myself. I never cheated on my ex-wife because when I decide I love somebody, I mean it. When a woman flirted with me at a party, I didn't do anything because I was loyal. Whenever a hot woman walked by me at work, I remembered that I had the woman I love waiting at home. I never wanted to hurt her, or disrespect her. I was grateful for her. She was not as good to me unfortunately, but I still think there are women out there who are better than her. Not perfect, just better.
Thank you for such a valuable response and sharing a part of your story with me. That is a great thing that you kept your integrity even though it was not reciprocated back, unfortunately. I love how you mentioned not perfect, just better! That is true as no one is truly perfect. I hope you will find that better woman out there who is meant for you.
I think you got it the other way around. Women broke dating and relationships. Good men just walked away or were passed by.
It's selection bias, if all you like are the bad boys don't blame the vast majority of good men for your poor choices.
Women have all the power to CHOOSE men take what's available, don't blame us for making obviously bad choices when you have such a huge advantage of choice.
Ah, I've never given my option on this topic yet. I left the question without my opinion to allow others to share theirs first without mine causing any bias. I can agree there are terrible women as well as terrible men in our society. I can also agree good women as well as good men are passed up at times. I've always considered myself a "good woman" in the sense of the term. I have seen the destruction of men and women who enjoyed breaking people to their own benefits. I have a very good man the nice guy I suppose one would say, so this topic no longer pertains to me. I have known and am friends with many I would consider a good man/nice guy and I see their struggles as well with women. I see many who are still dealing with on this app who are dealing with the situations I have come across in my past and in my observations of others during of people who act good and then turn around and are not so. The ones who deceive and use and leave. I just simply wanted to see others views on the topic and compare them to my own.
Yes, but there's two problems. People tend to make assumptions and judgments without actually taking the time to get to know the person (and often a lack of communication as well), and people tend to bring "baggage" from past relationships with them into new ones, which will kill ANY relationship. Example someone new doesn't have to "prove" basic trust, but should have it unless they prove they can't be trusted. Every person and relationship is different.
There are lots of good people, if a person is surrounded with bad people, this is a reflection of their own self. Good will attract good, and shit attracts flies
I can agree with this. There are good women and men who I do believe exist, it just also seems so rare since there are so many bad portrayed on TV and Videos and so many you see in everyday society. I don't have many friends and I have always been slightly sad of this, however the ones I do have are amazing people. So if what you say is correct I supposed I should also consider myself as such?
Those people who do bad, aren't necessarily bad people, most of those are good people who made bad choices. I know I'm such a person, doing time has taught me this, I was in a cell with 8 murderers and 3 drug traffickers. Experience has taught me genuinely good people never call themselves good, they refer to themselves as trying to be good hence making them mindful
That is true people can make bad choices and that can't label them as bad. As humans we all are not perfect, the thing that matters is constant growth and development
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Really, it totally depends on one’s definition of “good.” I’ve always thought I was a good man, but women really tend to object to that notion.
I can agree there are limited good women and limited good men in our society today. However, I would not deem it impossible to find. Sometimes it can be something as simple as changing who you normally date as patterns can sometimes come with repeated experiences. Beat wishes to you.
No. There are so few of them its not a given you would ever even meet one. Most people will never meet one so it was never possible for them to be in a relationship with one of them.
TsAubreyKate | 182 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Not in the west ( fellas if you’re looking for wives say it with me NO AMERICANS)
Then I recommend that you carefully choose who hang out with. The old phrase: "You are who you surround yourself with," is absolutely true. Combine that with stoicism (overcoming animalistic instincts to be something more), and you'll find yourself surrounded by good people in very short order.
If you don't know where to start with Stoicism, I highly recommend Meditations by Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius. If you look up some of his quotes, I think you'll agree that he lived his life in a very humble, realistic way, despite his status as Emperor of Rome.
Thank you for this valuable comment. I am not familiar with this philosophy, however it does seem interesting and I will further look into it. Thank you for sharing!
Ahhh yes true, it can mean different things to different people. I suppose to clarify it would mean more of someone with positive morals, integrity, genuine love or care.
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