You are not thinking about finding love your are just thinking about pussy. Get a job and start providing for yourself and the rest will fall into place
It’s hard to find love at first sight, I fall in love with my best friend but he is taken we been hanging out and he kiss me first it’s my dream get married some day
Same here, man. I'm not necessarily of the opinion thsr you should, but if you do, make sure nor to lose sight of it. Love is the most important thing you can have on this earth.
Think abou other things. Like graduating, future plans. Or even try new hobbies. Drink water and eat as much as you want. Hangout with friends! Go on trips. And many more! Just don't think about it at all! Love yourself!🥰
Thank you for correcting my grammar. I appreciate it.
True that. It’s just a difference in opinions is all. I respectfully disagree with your opinion. I apologise for coming off as rude.
However, the OP is only 19. He is still quite young and has a lot of years to look forward to. Reading a lot of red pill content, following it, and losing faith in love would only make him unsuccessful in the dating world in future. Not to mention, many red pills are also depressed. At least, the ones I've come across were.
Everyone needs to reflect on their behaviour and thoughts frequently, and try to be a better version of themselves which the people of the red pill community refuse to do so. I understand your perspective, but your advice will not help him in the long run. Just my 2 cents.
@WonderBell99 oh wow, such a polite response. You don't often see that around here.
19 is the best time to get immersed in this. He can learn all about what red flags to look out for, what women are naturally attracted to, the reasoning behind certain behaviours, what type of man to become to be attractive. This will prepare him from making mistakes in the future. The worst thing that can happen is him having a fantastical idea of love and being disappointed or burned repeatedly only to find the red pill in his 30s or 40s and be pissed off. That's why a lot of red pillers are angry and depressed. They've realized they've been lied to. This kid has the opportunity to avoid that.
The problem with red pillers is they're so disillusioned that they can't get past their hurt. They're stuck in the 'red pill rage' phase and some become black pill.
Like i said, the advice isn't bad. It just depends on what the kid does with it.
True, I misunderstood your opinion. My bad. You are right, he does need to learn about all that. Thank you for taking out the time to write a thorough response. I appreciate it. Once again, I would like to apologize to you for being disrespectful. Have a phenomenal day today. 😊
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It's quite simple.
ahhahaha thats relatable
Realize that you are 18 years old you saw stars for the fist time 18 years ago so chill life is long don’t listen to pessimists
Instead of thinking about finding love think about love finding you.
It was mine biggest problem as well, find group of great friends and you will feel that you don’t need any flirt or love in your life.
Study, work, find a hobby, make new friends.
But it’s human nature to want to procreate so I guess it is perfectly normal to want to find love.
You are not thinking about finding love your are just thinking about pussy. Get a job and start providing for yourself and the rest will fall into place
Love yourself and go out sharing your positive vibe with others. Will come to you
By actually taking action to find one instead of thinking?
It’s hard to find love at first sight, I fall in love with my best friend but he is taken we been hanging out and he kiss me first it’s my dream get married some day
Same here, man. I'm not necessarily of the opinion thsr you should, but if you do, make sure nor to lose sight of it. Love is the most important thing you can have on this earth.
Find love, v then you won't have to think about it anymore
I’m in the same boat. I’m trying to focus and Occupy my time to work home stuff. Self care. Self improvement
Just focus & do act who you like the most which gives you happiness
Think abou other things. Like graduating, future plans. Or even try new hobbies. Drink water and eat as much as you want. Hangout with friends! Go on trips. And many more! Just don't think about it at all! Love yourself!🥰
You're only 18. You should be in college, joining a fraternity, partying, and dating. What are you doing with your life?
At 18 years old too early to be worried about that you don't look for it it finds you when you least expect it
My parents separated when I was 10, so I never had that issue. Just worry about making money and what you enjoy.
To stop thinking about finding love, distract yourself to something else which doesn't involve love and get addicted to it
don't care about if you'll find love or not, time will tell you, till then enjoy your life dude
Consume a lot of red pill content. That'll stop you from thinking about finding love pretty quickly.
Shitty advise, no offense
@WonderBell99 none taken. It's good *advice*. Just depends on what the kid does with it.
Thank you for correcting my grammar. I appreciate it.
True that. It’s just a difference in opinions is all. I respectfully disagree with your opinion. I apologise for coming off as rude.
However, the OP is only 19. He is still quite young and has a lot of years to look forward to. Reading a lot of red pill content, following it, and losing faith in love would only make him unsuccessful in the dating world in future. Not to mention, many red pills are also depressed. At least, the ones I've come across were.
Everyone needs to reflect on their behaviour and thoughts frequently, and try to be a better version of themselves which the people of the red pill community refuse to do so. I understand your perspective, but your advice will not help him in the long run. Just my 2 cents.
*“... be a better version of themselves, which the red pill...”*
*…and try to be a better version of themselves, which the people of the red pill community*
I apologize for the typo
@WonderBell99 oh wow, such a polite response. You don't often see that around here.
19 is the best time to get immersed in this. He can learn all about what red flags to look out for, what women are naturally attracted to, the reasoning behind certain behaviours, what type of man to become to be attractive. This will prepare him from making mistakes in the future. The worst thing that can happen is him having a fantastical idea of love and being disappointed or burned repeatedly only to find the red pill in his 30s or 40s and be pissed off. That's why a lot of red pillers are angry and depressed. They've realized they've been lied to. This kid has the opportunity to avoid that.
The problem with red pillers is they're so disillusioned that they can't get past their hurt. They're stuck in the 'red pill rage' phase and some become black pill.
Like i said, the advice isn't bad. It just depends on what the kid does with it.
True, I misunderstood your opinion. My bad. You are right, he does need to learn about all that. Thank you for taking out the time to write a thorough response. I appreciate it. Once again, I would like to apologize to you for being disrespectful. Have a phenomenal day today. 😊