If you ask a girl to do something ex. Sky diving is that a date or anything else like a walk eating etc is it a date?

[Anonymous]

[Ninania]

If you ask her out for a date, it's a date. Any activity alone is just an activity, how you ask her determines her expectations.

[Asker]

I was talking about ski diving and she said a while back I can go with you and now that weathers better I brought it up and she’s still down to go I’m assuming that doesn’t count as a date

[Ninania]

No, but it still builds on your bond.

[Asker]

Ya I was going to say starting to do anything alone with her is a start I suppose

[Ninania]

I completely agree.

[Asker]

I’d like to ask one more thing so I asked for her number awhile back but she wasent comfortable but at that time I only knew her for 2 days it’s been a few months now so is that more of a nothing thing to worry about

[Ninania]

You're making plans together, so just ask for a way to contact her.

[Asker]

So it’s not something to think about to much and I should just pursue and enjoy?

[Ninania]

Yeah.

[SnakeBoop]

i wouldn't say sky diving is a date unless the person asking specifies its a date

[Sasha_Gee]

Always mention the word date when you want it to be a date to avoid confusion!