If a guy brings his friend on a third date does he only see you as a friend?

[Anonymous]

I thought this guy was into me as we would go out together and he had said that he liked me. On our first date we snuggled. but now it feels a bit like a friendship rather than a romantic interest. On third date he said he wants me to meet his friend which was fine but I don't know if he wants a relationship or not. We haven’t kissed or anything so it is hard to tell.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

No, if it were every date, then I would say yes.


My now boyfriend wanted me to meet his friends on our second date, we went bowling and I met all his guy friends from his work.


I think you should ask him what you expect from these dates (make it official, just friends, not sure yet…etc)

[Asker]

Is it normal he hasn’t tried to kiss me yet?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Oh yeah, he may be taking things slow. Some people just don’t feel ready to kiss on the first few dates.

I would just try to keep going on dates and see where it goes. Then ask him about where it’s going (if he wants to continue dating, if he’s not really interested in a relationship, etc)

[Asker]

It just doesn’t feel like he wants to kiss anytime soon. Maybe you are right. Or he just wants to be friends

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I would definitely ask him if he just wants to be friends or if he’s taking things slow

[Asker]

It is hard… I don’t want to be friendzoned. I guess I’ll see next time we meet.

[DaveJord]

If your asking these types of questions, then the guy sucks... and he's not the one for you. He's obviously not making you feel special in any way, or giving you the attention you would like or deserve

I would move on if I was you, the second you stop giving him the attention he wants from you he might come back around or you might be better off with someone else.

[HollyK21]

I’d be more concerned if he were bringing his friend on every date or only taking you to friend-related activities and no one on one time. This seems harmless, no red flags.

[DaveJord]

Yeah thats weird... guys do not bring friends along as third wheels on dates. I would move on from guy.